Is he over reacting? I went over to their house and I bought his daughters some cute outfits, I got them some mini skirts, some cute tube tops and some cute thongs, I had them try em on and I put make up on em, they looked like models, I told them that when they grow up they'd be able to find a nice man with lots of money that would take care of them. He got mad at me and told me I'm not allowed around them anymore, is he over reacting, I think he is.
2006-12-05 09:26:14 · 23 answers · asked by Wendy Love Muffin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You sound like a skanky biatch. You had no right to do anything like that to his daughters without first asking permission from him. He obviously has morals (unlike you) and wants the best for his daughters. Not a life as a prostitute. And that's what you are if you are sponging off a man. Call it what you want but if you are sleeping with a guy (even your husband) and wanting his money then that's what you are a spoilt little skanky ho.
My advice is to stay away from all little girls, nobody hopes that their daughters grow up and turn into pros.
2006-12-05 14:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Katie G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he's not. Let me see if you can understand his viewpoint.
He does not view adult attire that is well beyond their years as a "Cute Outfit" especially when it makes them look like models or would make them focus on having a nice man take care of them.
Secondly, you might want to reconsider whether having a man take care of you is a worthwhile goal. I've conducted about 500 job interviews and almost every week a woman would come in that her man left her, went to jail, died, divorced her, or any other issue where she no longer had his financial support. Now she has no job skills and is taking care of children on top of her own expenses.
Your brother does not want your neices to be focused on catching a guy. Girls grow up too soon and thong panties and miniskirts do onothing to show their value as a girl, other than their value of their bodies.
2006-12-05 09:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Searcher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are these girls? Because if they're under 15 they should not be wearing thongs, mini skirts and tube tops (particularly not at the same time!). Those are looks for older girls at the BEST of times - and frankly, from your description it sounds like you dressed them up like sluts.
Add that to the fact that you're perpetuating the myth that the only value a woman has is in bed and suggesting that they marry somebody for their money, I don't blame your brother for being upset.
2006-12-05 09:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by triviatm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and no. They are probably wanting to raise the girls with different values. When it comes to peoples' children, they are very picky.
You should apologize for not asking them about giving the girls short skirts and putting make-up on them without asking if it's ok. In the future, promise to ask before you do things with the girls.
I don't feel you did any real harm and dressing up is fun for little girls and of course you were being a fun, loving auntie. But you should always clear things with the parents of a child, especially if they have religious/ethics/morals that are stricter.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-05 09:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were a parent you would understand where he was coming from. I would go pretty mad too, maybe not at the clothes (as long as you were joking at them actually wearing them) but the thongs??? You must be mad, it's difficult enough bringing up children in this world full of dodgy people but that's not really funny. Not sure I would 'ban' you though, as long as you realised that they were still children and should be able to enjoy that before the full whack of the real world kicks in.
2006-12-05 09:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by aza 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
haha what the hell...i doubt you did that brought his little girls thongs and mini skirts...but if this were true i would say no hes not over reacting if i were him id kick you in the crotch lol your showing him your a bad role model for them..why would you tell them to find a rich man so he can take care of them i doubt their golddiggers and how old are they anyways?
2006-12-05 09:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by gigi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think mini skirts, tube tops, and make up should be for older girls. You have a life time to be an adult, but childhood is short. I think that forcing your lifestyle on your sybling's children is wrong. But he should have asked you to be more conservative, not tell you, you couldn't see them anymore.
2006-12-05 09:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are his daughters? Thongs may not be age appropriate, and mini skirts and tube tops are kind of whore-ish in my opinion.
2006-12-05 09:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Amigurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Over- reacting? Are you kidding? how old are these daughters? It sounds like they are very young. What are you trying to teach them? I wouldn't allow you in my house or around my daughters neither!
2006-12-05 09:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you were sending them the wrong messages. Dressing like that, and trying to catch a man with money? You should be encouraging them to dress so that people will like them for themselves, and get an education so that they can be self reliant. I would apologize to all of them and get my act together. Shame on you!
2006-12-05 09:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋