This is the third time we've broken up (last time was 2.5 years ago for 6 months), and I can admit that we aren't getting back together this time. I can also admit, that he wasn't there for me as much as I needed him. I was never unhappy in the relationship and still love him dearly, but I still know I needed more. He still loves me, but we both know that sometimes love just isn't enough. IWe won't be able to be friends, and the idea of him not being a part of my life anymore leaves me shaking. I'm scared of starting over, and my heart hurts so badly. This was sprung on me out of the blue and so much trust was broken. When we got back together the last time there were promises that it would never happen again, and that he knew I was "the one." Keep in mind we were only 20 and 21, still in school, not ready to get married, and the idea of one of those four year engagements seemed pointless. I really want to stop hurting, but I don't know where to start the healing process.
2006-12-05
09:45:04
·
11 answers
·
asked by
Anonymous
in
Marriage & Divorce