I told my close female friend how I felt. I also asked her if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. She replied:
"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???
If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!
She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???
What she thinking\feeling???
Will she speak to me again???What do I do now???
2006-12-05 09:40:45 · 12 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever betrayed this girl and thought that she didn't know about it? If not then I say she is hurting over someone and she needs some time to heal from whatever happened. Try to still be her friend and let her know that you are there for her whether she likes you as a friend or more.
2006-12-05 09:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by PHAT 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do not imagine you should examine too a lot into her answer. i have given an answer like that and it would not advise i love or don't love someone as more beneficial than a pal... it basically skill she's no longer obtainable emotionally immediately, she's for sure closed off from being damage formerly and that even if she had any emotions she would not effectively admit it because she is worried about rejection and getting damage. i imagine what she suggested made experience, i imagine anybody skill something else to me, some I carry extra severe priced than others, yet there is friendship, friendship with actual charm, friendship with emotional charm yet no actual charm, charm and that i want to date you... what she feels about you'll not want to be verbalized, her moves will inform you. If she acts like she's no longer into you, than she's no longer into you. in case you've expressed your emotions, you've already thrown the ball in her courtroom, ask her out to do something to be certain if it develops, if no longer, keep it as associates so that you do not loose that courting.
2016-10-16 11:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by uday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea girls can be confusing.... Honestly it sounds like she doesn't want to be more than friends with you and by trying to be nice she just got confusing. Either that or she wasn't sure how she felt so she just made something up that could potentially go either way. You should ask her what it meant. I'm sure you'll see her again but it might be a bit akward. **** Luck!
2006-12-05 09:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's looking way too deep into how she feels about people. Based on what she said, I don't think she's into you in any way more than any other random person. You can't say something so awesome to someone, get such a cold response, and then still think there's a chance. If she liked you, she would have said that.
2006-12-05 09:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Brit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably needs some time 2 get her feelings straight. Maybe she likes somebody else, but when U told her how U felt, she liked U. Give it some time. Then, if she still doesn't reply, ask her what going on.
2006-12-05 09:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's afraid & untrusting. She doesn't trust ANYONE & that includes you. It takes two to be in a relationship. You've done all you can do. If she's not willing to give in & try to start something more with you then that's it. You're stuck just being friends. Good luck~
2006-12-05 09:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's got issues for real!!! it seems like you may have to ask her specifically if she cares for you as more than a friend meaning like she would a boyfriend. but seriously she sounds like she isn't quit workin on all cylinders up there. i think the only person that knows what she meant by either of those statements are her.
2006-12-05 09:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure she'll speak to you again. it just looks like she went through something tough once and it's hard for her to trust someone again... if you really care about her maybe just wait for her to think it over really well, hopefully she'll feel something back for you
and i wish you luck
2006-12-05 09:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by emma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your 'friend' likes the sounds of her own voice.....and she is playing games with you, and thats not fair.
2006-12-05 09:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by Bodieann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop it dude..... that's a dead end. Looks like friends or nothing.
2006-12-05 09:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Chavatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋