i'm in gth grade and i want to know what to do to date a girl. I have two girls to choose from, one, her friend told me she likes me, the other i LOVE, but i'm not so sure she likes me. I haven't done this before so i'm nervous. I have two choices A. Ask girl 1 or 2 out B. Wait until possibly they ask me out. Every time i get near girl two i wish i was with her, so please answer, and no "you're not old enough to date", your help is appreciated
2006-12-05 09:52:22 · 25 answers · asked by Ian H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
god damnit, i said NOT to say that stuff and you do, reread 2nd to last lines
2006-12-05 10:20:52 · update #1
You're too young to date. Spend more time on homework instead of girls.
2006-12-05 09:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You are not to young to be boyfriend and girlfriend, dating (where you actually go somewhere which you won't be able to do for year) happens later in high school and beyond.
First, do you like the girl who likes you back? If so, ask her out! Girls always tell their friends who they 'crush' on at that age, so she most likely wants to be your girlfriend.
What is it you LOVE about the other girl? If it's because she is any of the following : beautiful, hot, popular, fast, experienced, pretty, or rich, then you are probably just in awe of her. This is most likely the case, if she knew you existed, you would probably think she was nice because y'all had spoken. And since obviously y'all haven't spoken or hung out, how can you possibly love her.
My advice is go out with girl 1. She likes you and will probably settle for friendship if she declines your offer, and y'all could use this time as friends to get to know eachother better until y'all are old enough to have a real relationship. But if she does like you, your 'dates' as a sixth grader can consist of calling eachother up, hanging out after school, chatting online, going to dances together and going to the movies if you can walk or have someone to drive y'all. Being a sixth grader is fun! Take full advantage of it, you're supposed to be learning things other than what they teach in class, so take a chance and ask her out!
2006-12-05 10:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by susie q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating at (whatever age you are in the 6th grade) what will you be doing by the time you are in the 9th grade? (screwing around and having babies?) Do you really think those girls mothers will let you take them out? Good luck...Now that I said that...I'll answer your question
You are between a rock and a hard place. I see your dilemma...You say your not so sure the girl you "really" like likes you...does she stare at you, or completely ignores you? She may like you more than you think. You have plenty of time to go out with ugly girls. I'd try for the one you really like, and if she shoots you down, there will always be others.
2006-12-05 10:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Becky F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The point of dating is to find someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with. A lot can change during highschool. Girl B may not be all that you think she is. Girl A may be super cute when she's older. That is why it is smarter to wait untill you're older. But for now, choose the one that seems kind and talented, not the prettier one.
2006-12-05 09:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by cheshirecat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one you love. If you feel that you're in love that not may the way you really feel. Trust me sunny guy, love is a thing that ya can't fool around with. Just ask the girl you love out, if she says no say maybe you want to go out some other time.If she says no to go out to the dance just ask that other girl to the dance. Have fun thats what counts.
2006-12-05 10:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay what i would do is give it a chance if a guy asked me out and he was good looking i knew him id go out with him so ask who you lik GO FOR IT the worst that could happen is she'd say no dont worry!
2006-12-05 09:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by thezo91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-05 09:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill out no big deal. I was there I know what it is like just relax and besides are they the kind that will break your heart or the kind that will love you for ever or just the deperate type.
2006-12-05 09:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by Smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still a "child", start out as "friends", don't get too serious! don't say "you love her"-unless you mean you love her apearance, looks, etc. & would like to get to know her. ask your parents, maybe they'll help you out & give you & her a ride someplace like a "friendly" date in the future.
2006-12-05 10:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one you "love"... just remember that love is a big word. I would go more with "having a big crush". If B fails on you, you have A that likes you. Good luck.
2006-12-05 09:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by Regenerit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got two daughters, one past your age and the other coming up to your age, and if a young man is interested in my daughters at your age and wants to date them, you have to pry the gun from my cold dead fingers cause thats the only way some young punk that can't find his butt with both hands and a roadmap can do it! 6th grade, geez, go play with your tinker toys!
2006-12-05 09:57:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋