What now?I told her how I felt..More info.. Serious answers only pls..Girls advice...?

Question

I told my close female friend how I felt. I also asked her if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. She replied:

"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???

If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

What she thinking\feeling???Will she speak to me again? What do I do now???

Answer 1

That really means that she likes you as a friend, never as anything more, and she wants to let you down gently.

Answer 2

I don't think you should read too much into her answer. I've given an answer like that and it doesn't mean I like or don't like someone as more than a friend... it simply means she's not available emotionally right now, she's obviously closed off from being hurt previously and that even if she had any feelings she wouldn't readily admit it because she is worried about rejection and getting hurt. I think what she said made sense, I think everyone means something else to me, some I hold dearer than others, but there's friendship, friendship with physical attraction, friendship with emotional attraction but no physical attraction, attraction and I want to date you... what she feels about you doesn't need to be verbalized, her actions will tell you. If she acts like she's not into you, than she's not into you. If you've expressed your feelings, you've already thrown the ball in her court, ask her out to do something to see if it develops, if not, keep it as friends so you don't loose that relationship.

Answer 3

Sounds like she's trying real hard not to give you false hope or hurt your feelings. She values and cares for you as a person, as a friend, but not as anything more.
Tell her you need some closure, and ask if she would ever consider being your girlfriend. Ask her flat-out, yes or no, are we just friends?
Given the awkwardness of the situation, it might be sometime before you are comfortable being friends again. Agree to take some time apart to "reset" your feelings, but be supportive of each other until you can be natural around each other.

Answer 4

with her non-answer, she told you that she isn't interested in anything with you more than friendship.

I think she put it to you that way because she was beinng nonconfrontational while trying to look thoughtful/philosofical. I doubt that she will ever be direct with you.

The stuff about people being two-faced, etc. were going further along the "I never feel nothing for anybody..." train of thought. Read that -- Smokescreen

If you can't do the friend thing with her. Stop seeing her -- life's too short to sit there & pine over someone who doesn't share your feelings.

Answer 5

Sure you're confused, it's a confusing answer, and it's meant to be. She either doesn't feel confident of your feelings toward her (how clear were you?) or she doesn't feel confident of her feelings toward you, or she's just plain scared. Let it lie for a while. Just keep being friends. You've layed your cards on the table, and gotten pushed gently away. Are you interested enough in her to give her time to sort things out? Things can't just develop in your time frame, but in hers as well. Just because you are ready to hear a definitive answer doesn't mean she has to be ready to give you one.

Answer 6

That means that she is JUST your friend. She didn't just say so because shes a nice girl and did not want to hurt your feelings.
She will speak to you again if you make the first peep. You must talk to her- Comfortably. Don't just say "um.. hi. How are you/howsitgoing/sup?" because that sounds uptight and uncomfterble. Just relax! Say "hei! Guess what I got on my history test? 82%. I thought I would have done better because I studied ALL night. So, next period we have french- did you study for that quiz today? *SMILE SMILE" thats what a girl likes to hear. a guy who is comfterble, relaxed.
Hope I helped!
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Answer 7

Dude, that sucks. These are my thoughts:

I think she is thinking that
*maybe this was too sudden and/or she doesnt feel this way
*She could like you and not want to say it because (depending on your guys's age), she doesnt want to rush this
*Maybe she just doesnt think of you that way yet


Yes, I think she will definitely speak to you again. You just need to be careful about what you say. If I were you, I would be cautious, not persistent. Maybe just tell her that you didn't mean anything specific by it, you just thought she should know how you felt.

Hmmmmm....


Also, you need to ask yourself if you truly understand what shes saying. Some girls (like me) rely on poetic feelings to express themselves. Think about this.

This is just what i would do you don't have to follow it!!!

Answer 8

Yea females could be puzzling.... certainly evidently like she would not choose to be better than acquaintances with you and with the aid of attempting to be extreme-high quality she purely have been given puzzling. the two that or she wasn't confident how she felt so she purely made some thing up that ought to doubtlessly go the two way. you may ask her what it meant. i'm confident you will see her lower back in spite of the incontrovertible fact that it must be somewhat akward. **** luck!

Answer 9

She's basically saying that she does'nt see you anything more than just a friend and that just because she gives you the time of day it does'nt mean she's in love with you.
But what i don't understand is why is she talking jibberish?
Find another girl and jealousy may rear its ugly head, or just give up, i don't think she's worth it.

Answer 10

lol she sounds like me when I'm trying to diddle & daddle around the question. Shes just saying stuff to be nice, that she only wants to be friends. Maybe she was hurt before, and doesnt want to be hurt again. But I can almost guarantee you that shes just saying in a nice way to stay friends