My BFF is starting to attack me all the time.First she say's I'm not supportive, that I unmotivate her to go to school;I spend hours helping her with her difficult subjects,never call her stupid,and sometimes even call her in the mornings(30min of my time)trying to get her to go.She still attacks me and say's I'm unsupportive, and in my face says I'm horrible at something while helping me with it.I confront her on this and she tells me I misunderstand and that it's a good thing that I don't let my life fall apart when helping others,then she attacks me again and says she does it on purpose becuase I'm unsupportive.I truly believe she is beautiful inside and out and will have a wonderful life.Men constatly hit on her,and ppl love her.She says Im lying and that I think she's ugly,don't believe in her,and want her to fail. I feel ugly and horrible around her"Ur butt is flat,ur 2 rude for that job,those catcalls were 4 me,ur SO selfish,u look so old but not me" She thinks im the bad friend
2006-12-05 09:26:29 · 4 answers · asked by MindyCindyLindy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend has serious issues with herself that is why she lashes out on you because you are what she wants to be. The more she insults you the better she feels because she is trying to justify that she is better than you...however, she is clearly not! You are the better person and don't let her insults hurt you because she is just bringing you down.
2006-12-05 09:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Gucci girl. Try giving your friend a hug and tell her you love her but you will not put up with her cutting you down. If she says she was joking, tell her it still hurts. Also tell her to to handle her real situation that is making her so mean or the friendship will have to end. You can only hang around with someone like that for just so long before you start believing your as bad as they say you are. I don't think that should happen to you.
2006-12-05 18:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by buffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear - Abused ! Your friend sound's as if,she is shoving her own insecure way's on to you == By you stepping up- and asking your question - shows me your catching on -- I believe your friend IS aware of her action's -- and will continue as long as you let her -- You sound like you are a very giving person - and a BEST FRIEND would not take you for granted ,, like she is doing -- Many people would cherish a good friend like you !! You deserve that respect !!! Cause you don't have to TAKE IT any more !!!!! Good Luck ! My name is Patti
2006-12-05 17:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is saying all that. Go get a new friend. She is the one being "unsupportive".
2006-12-05 17:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Avani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋