I had asked earlier about why my bf always wanted to talk about sex. But it wasn't too clear.. lately he's being going through a sex- threesome phase, and I'm really getting irritated//sick of it. He always wants to talk about it. It's scaring me, but he 'PROMISES' we'd never do it in real life. I yelled at him, and he started crying about how he was such an ***.
Could this be normal? He is 17.. And I love him to death.
help..............please!!
2006-12-05 09:26:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its normal...he wants to experiment, but is trying to respect you. pretty sure that it will pass.
2006-12-05 09:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Raven S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 17 year old boyfriend always wants to talk about sex he is opening a conversation that he hopes will lead to sex. It is his hint that he wants it. As far as the 3 some thing.....if it clearly irritates you and you have made this known and he continues then I think that is a sign that he does not respect you. Why would he continue to talk about something that upsets you? If he continues to talk about it, then I would have to believe that it is a hint he wants it. If you do not; then you have to part with him. Bringing a third party into a relationship based on true love will never have a good outcome. If your relationship with him is solely sexual then you may have to weigh if the sex is worth hearing him whine about a 3 some. PROTECTION NO MATTER WHAT!
2006-12-05 09:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by richmicknremtp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now 17 year old males usually do want threesomes its just the way us males are...If you are sick of hearing it and my him cry and say that he was an ***, let me tell you that he will find someone even its 2 different girls who will fulfill his needs...If he always talks about sex its not unusual because the male brain thinks of sex all the time every day....I hope if you choose to stay with him that you keep your eyes on the things he does...Sounds to me like a sex freak(someone who needs to fulfill his need, wherever it comes from).....
2006-12-05 09:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mad Harry Roberts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I don't know how old you are but I had a boyfriend who was crazy for a threesome, too but I called him on it. I got a friend of mine to come over and we were sitting in the living room half-naked when he came home from work and the look on his face when he came in was pure disbelief. He made the excuse that he had forgotten something at work and left and we laughed for an hour. The idea of a fantasy is so much better than the reality!
2006-12-05 09:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys reach their sex peak at 18 (fact i actually heard...it was so scary) but anyway...yeah it's normal for 17 year old guys to talk about sex like that...so sad isn't it? but yeah tell him get the f*** away from me with that s***!!!!! okay not that harsh but if you don't want to indulge in such activities (lol) then tell him over and over so he gets it (guys are so stupid sometimes that they need things to be repeated)
2006-12-05 09:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well many guys watch porno films and they like to experiment.
1-Maybe he is always talking in this issue in order to see your reaction and act accordingly, if you said yes, he will do it. if you said no, he will stop.
2-Maybe he gets excited by talking and not by doing.
3-Maybe he has something wrong in his personality.
4-Maybe there is something in him that reflects his talking, you should understand him, and not shut him up. Just tell him it is really cool, but I am not interested in it at all.
2006-12-05 09:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by Khaled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah your so mean, you yelled at him and made him cry, poor guy, he is just being normal wanting a threesome...that is his fantasy...girlfriend...
2006-12-05 09:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal he'll get over it but if you want him to shut up you should just give him another girl and have a 3 some. just kidding. its just an IDEA.
2006-12-05 09:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by Only1 Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal yes---remember talking is not doing and talking can be exciting for many
this is the ultimate male fantasy
2006-12-05 09:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys think of sex! that's what we do... tell him to drop the three way or go away, you should be all he needs if not, then he' s not what you need. don't give in to his fantasy you will regret it.
2006-12-05 09:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Russ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋