Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

My man has really changed, he is only focusing on his work and other women in public. I have never seen a man like mines that has to stop and watch women in public looking at their booty no matter where, the mall, store or walking down the road. He knows I see him doing it and he knows that makes me mad why is he so caught up with looking at woman behinds. I know he is a man but where is the respect for me, if he sees one walking and has a big booty he will recircle the truck around just to see her butt. This is everytime we go out in public together. He acts like he have left something just so he can walk around the grocery store behind the womens he finds with a big booty. Not that i am jealous but it is the fact he is my man and there is not respect . What would u think is his problem?

2006-12-05 09:11:52 · 13 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

So she breaks up with me today, on the phone. I ask why and she rambles on some stuff about me not being a good listener or something...some junk, I don't really remember now..but I did all the right things...I took her to restaurants she liked, I took her to NFL football games that she likes. I fixed her bad credit problems. I held doors...all that stuff. Do girls like breaking your heart...do they enjoy giving pain?? I really liked her..now it's going to take me a few weeks to find a new girl friend..what a hassel

What do women want?

2006-12-05 09:10:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 09:10:47 · 21 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-05 09:09:53 · 4 answers · asked by Christina Leah 2 in Family

what does it mean if a guy takes something of yours, in class and in a teasing way, but not mean?

2006-12-05 09:09:32 · 9 answers · asked by carlos_aka_stormi 1 in Singles & Dating

If they dont want us to take a long time to get prepared.. then DONT ask us to go with you!

2006-12-05 09:09:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my man for 8 years and things werent that great for the first 4 years, he was running the streets, and thought his **** didnt stink. All of this caught up with him, and he got locked up for 3 years. I stuck by him like a good woman should. He started talking all that jail mess, (I'm a changed man, I realized how wrong I treated you etc). But it was also things we did talk about before he got incarcerated. He's free now, and things went well for a while until the money started looking funny. He felt like less of a man because he couldnt provide for me, he started running the streets again to get money. All we do is argue now about this. He is trying, and he is a changed man. We are talking issues out, but every thing is OK for a couple days and its back to the same nonsense. He says Im trying please just work with me you are all I got this will be over soon I need to do this for you and my kids.I dont want to be a nag but Im not happy I cry every day.Should I trust him

2006-12-05 09:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Singles & Dating

8 months after the love of my life left me for a women I had a week moment and slept with the owners daughter, one time. We are the same age. She suduced me one night while i had no self estem left in me.

Two weeks later she aproched me with a vidow tape and told me to watch it and call her afterwords. I watched it that that night, it was us.

She told me that if I did not do what she orders me two that she would show the tape to her dad and that I would lose my job.

She told me to come over the next day after work for my orders. They are as followed:

1, I am locked in a CB 3000 chastity device 24/7 with her having the only keys. I have been locked in this thing for 13 months straight now

2, I have to clean her Apt every week in a maids dress, full make up, wig and high heels

3, I have to oraly service her on demand, even though she see's other men

4, I have to do anything she tells me to.

what to do, call her bluss, remain her toy, quit my job?

2006-12-05 09:08:36 · 40 answers · asked by callie_cat 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy that doesn't even Know I isist.
He only talks to popular people and well I'm not popular.
Should I still go for him.

2006-12-05 09:08:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

At Christmastime she makes "suggestions" (as she calls them)....she tries to tell everyone (her immediate family) what to buy for each other and when we say we were planning on getting something else and don't buy exactly what she suggested, she gets her feelings hurt. Then she calls me and says, "See what happens?" "You try to be nice to people and they cut you down." Don't get me wrong, I love my Mom very much, ......I just wish I didn't have to deal with her holiday behavior. lol

2006-12-05 09:08:12 · 5 answers · asked by americandream1 2 in Family

he has just accepted a job in iraq that he did not discuss with her. they have a 15month old daughter. They were seperated and no concrete child support has been established. He HAS recently left for training in texas. He is not giveng her any useful info. help!! any resources out there? what should she do?

2006-12-05 09:08:05 · 4 answers · asked by DIONN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it better to know exactly how many people they've had sex with, or to not have a specific number?

If you know exactly how many previous partners your Husband/Wife has, how do you feel about it?

2006-12-05 09:07:51 · 21 answers · asked by J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Not digging for gold, but a light scratch.

2006-12-05 09:07:38 · 5 answers · asked by J J 3 in Singles & Dating

What do I do? I spent at least 30 min. on each page! She emailed me twice and one of them was about my website. It said it needed a lot of work. I worked hard on it.

2006-12-05 09:07:18 · 20 answers · asked by нσℓℓуωσσ∂ ηєνєя ℓσσкє∂ тнιѕ gσσ∂ 5 in Friends

2006-12-05 09:07:16 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 13 and im a girl. But people say I sound like an 8 year old! Not to mention Im also 4 foot 11 AND I look like an 8 year old too!! I have always been shorter than other people my age growing up but people can really be rude about it in middle school. My mom is 5 foot 4 and my dad is 6ft!! So i dont know what the heck is wrong with me? Am I going to end up being like this forever or what?!?

2006-12-05 09:06:52 · 6 answers · asked by Krissa D 3 in Singles & Dating

So I've been dating this guy for about a month, and when I'm around him.. I seriously cannot get myself to talk... when I do I get kind of nervous. I've NEVER had a problem like this with any guy I've been with. I almost feel like I'm afraid I'll make myself sound stupid or something, I'm not even like that... normally I just speak my mind and am a wise-*** about everything. I really like him, and it's mutual.. his friends say he talks about me all the time, and I can feel it when we lay together.
He cracks jokes about me not talking a whole lot, but I know I'm coming up to a crossroad where it's either I talk .. and continue on with our relationship... or continue to keep my mouth stapled and it's over.
(by the way I've known him for about 4 months, and feel completely comfortable around him, except for this whole talking issue I seem to have)
Why do I seem to get quiet when I'm with him?
And what can I do to loosen up and TALK? tips?
We can talk on Im for 3 hours,its just inprs

2006-12-05 09:06:23 · 3 answers · asked by football_crazy_62 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 09:06:17 · 5 answers · asked by diana 1 in Singles & Dating

yuck...we havent got really intimate yet but i am scared i might catch it....i am also a person that knows everyone has flaws so i dont expect a girl to be perfect but i thought you got ringworm from not bathing....am i trippin or should go with my instinct and stop talkin to her?

2006-12-05 09:06:04 · 35 answers · asked by the one 3 in Singles & Dating

He says he likes me, that I'm funny and all, we get along together, tease and flirt with each other, and he says we can hang out. However, he says he's not sure about dating because---
-he's new in college and works and has a lot going on. (that I can understand, I've been 18 and in those shoes before!)
-he's not sure of his intentions. (At least that's what I gathered...it was a confusing conversation...)
Anyone want to explain this further, or anyone got some advice? He says that later on we might have a chance, so I don't want to flirt with the guys at work and possible ruin things with him! (Did I mention we work together? The day after he gave me the "let's be friends" spill, he was very ill at ease seeming until he found out I wasn't mad or pouting with him...or seeming to be, anyways. I'm a heck of an actress, I guess.
Thanks!

2006-12-05 09:05:50 · 9 answers · asked by lillibelle14 1 in Singles & Dating

she asked if i would like to play with her while her boyfriend watched ?????

I didnt know what to say

she ask if black men where more gifted in the pants

she asked if i was offended?

I laugh it off like "Oh Amy , your so funny what a silly thing to say its just the alcohol talking " (insert uncomfortable expression here)

She proceeded to pull out her cell and call her boy friend and pass me the phone a mans voice says hey, we chat for a minute and he confirms what she says is true and that they dont do this kind of thing "normaly" but she has always wondered about it and he wanted to give her her fantasy in return for her giving in to his.

well I agreed to it

now she calls me and we talk like we are in a relationship we go out and have had dates she has since spent the weekend and bought me gifts for my b-day like we are a couple

So should I now be demanding that she leave him and we do our own thing or what cus we connected and i dont think he knows???

2006-12-05 09:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by blackplatnium007 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have loads of guy friends, but i cant get a date whats wrong with me??

2006-12-05 09:04:45 · 2 answers · asked by car_chick9 1 in Singles & Dating

She has some credit card bills, and without a job, that would leave me to pay them. I'm not comfortable doing this, especially since I've just recently gotten out of debt and don't want to go there again.

2006-12-05 09:04:35 · 39 answers · asked by Lt 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 09:04:12 · 14 answers · asked by Minnie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Pics on my 360.

2006-12-05 09:03:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is at the legal drinking age, plays guitar, and is crazy as hell... im not sure what to get him for christmas... help

2006-12-05 09:03:12 · 5 answers · asked by bandit_steals_eyebrows 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 09:02:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Flirting like hitting there butts and other stuff.
I'm 13 years old.

2006-12-05 09:02:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 09:02:55 · 6 answers · asked by cherrymary36 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriends brother as rang me to see if i want to go out for lunch he his gay so its ok on that front, but me and my ex parted on bad terms and im not sure what i should say to his brother, what should i do ???

2006-12-05 09:02:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating