My husband didn't come home last night, he'll be there tonight, I'm hoppin' mad, what should I do?

Question

He didn't say why, we weren't fighting or anything, he just never showed up, I haven't yet asked him why

Answer 1

dont you hate dealing with a**holes like that?? What would he do if you didnt come home like that?? Maybe you should try it and see what happens. Does he do this all the time? I wouldnt put up with that!!

Answer 2

Ask him why he didn't want to come home. Try to in a civilized conversation (although it will be hard, I would be hoppin mad too) figure out what is going on. Sounds like he has some splainin to do. Good luck

Answer 3

Why didn't he come home last night? Did you have a fight? or was he hanging out with the "guys"? If it was because of a fight he probably just did not want it to get out of control, and end up saying or doing something he would regret later. If not, I think Ivanna Trump said it best, "Don't get mad, get everything"

Answer 4

My husband of 10yrs. all ways would do that. And he going to tell you some lie. Mark my words he will do it again and again. Because he got away with it the first time. He might tell you something like he was out with his friend's and it got to late or he drink to much etc.... and when he doe's it again and again your going to hear the same accuse. You know like I know he not out with "the guys" all night. I know you want to give him the benefit of the doubt. And you will. After they do it once, they will do it again. The next time he doe's it you tell him go back to the Bed you climbed out of. And don't do it back to him because that don't work. He will say fu** it in do it again. But I'll tell you this he will do it again. Because he cheating on you. A marry person has no reason not to come home and you know this. If you don't end this your going to go though a lot and before it gets better it gets worse. And when your tried of him not coming home and you realize that your husband is a cheater your going to have to help yourself. Just don't waste 10 yrs of your life like I did. At the end is not worth it. It took me a look time. I started reading self help books like ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives and ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger easy books to read and she has a talk radio show on 640am 12noon-3pm Mon-Fri CA time.and YOUR going to need God you can't do it alone.

Answer 5

Sweetie this is your husband, Were you the reason why he didn't come in. If not Mr would have some explaining to do when he does enter in tonight or he needs to go back to where he was last night. He needs to do alot of explaining and don't suck up to him either. Continue to stand as that woman in his life. Good Luck. Most womens would tell you to kick his butt.... Do that later!!!

Answer 6

You had better hop right over him and go to an attorney, before you get a STD from him.
I do think you know why he did not come home last night, you just don't want to believe it.

Answer 7

When you confront him about it, make sure that you remain focused on your feelings and his behavior. So, rather than calling his character into account, talk about how angry you are because he did not come home last night. How concerned you were about his well being, how suspicious you are about where he was and etc.

Answer 8

I just wanted to surprise you and get you a nice X’mas present. You did not have to tell the world about it. Now you wait till I get home.

Answer 9

You might be wise to ask where he was last night and let him know how you are feeling. Discuss concerns with him and try to deal with situation.

Answer 10

Unless he was in the hospital or in jail, I would change all the locks, pack his sh*t and leave it on the front lawn. And tell him to call Tyrone.