So I've been dating this guy for about a month, and when I'm around him.. I seriously cannot get myself to talk... when I do I get kind of nervous. I've NEVER had a problem like this with any guy I've been with. I almost feel like I'm afraid I'll make myself sound stupid or something, I'm not even like that... normally I just speak my mind and am a wise-*** about everything. I really like him, and it's mutual.. his friends say he talks about me all the time, and I can feel it when we lay together.
He cracks jokes about me not talking a whole lot, but I know I'm coming up to a crossroad where it's either I talk .. and continue on with our relationship... or continue to keep my mouth stapled and it's over.
(by the way I've known him for about 4 months, and feel completely comfortable around him, except for this whole talking issue I seem to have)
Why do I seem to get quiet when I'm with him?
And what can I do to loosen up and TALK? tips?
We can talk on Im for 3 hours,its just inprs
2006-12-05 09:06:23 · 3 answers · asked by football_crazy_62 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax!! Be yourself. Don't worry about saying something stupid. Enjoy yourself and know your a fun person. Let him see your fun silly side. He'll love you for it.
2006-12-05 09:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you just like him, get to know each other and don't be lying with him, don't give your body to him either, it won't last if your want to keep him, without communication it won't work for you and him, so take more time and start to talk to him, your just nervous...it will be fine...
2006-12-05 09:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you "Lay" with him.
If you mean sex, I am always confused how people can share the most intimate thing, but still not know how to "Talk"
I am glad I am old at times!
Peace!
2006-12-05 09:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋