What do I do? I spent at least 30 min. on each page! She emailed me twice and one of them was about my website. It said it needed a lot of work. I worked hard on it.
2006-12-05 09:07:18 · 20 answers · asked by нσℓℓуωσσ∂ ηєνєя ℓσσкє∂ тнιѕ gσσ∂ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have been so sad! Please dont say to get a new best friend. Shes been my best friend for years.
2006-12-05 09:09:20 · update #1
She is never busy and she still wants to be my friend, but her email made me so so so SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SAD.
2006-12-05 09:11:09 · update #2
I tryed to call her she said hi and that she would call me later and hung up.
2006-12-05 09:34:25 · update #3
She is a great friend.
2006-12-05 11:48:38 · update #4
I hate that! Do it back, and comment on it to her, I had to do that to my bro to.
2006-12-05 09:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by PegBundyWannabe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I got a buddy like that. I've known him for almost 20 years, and sometimes he just gets busy. Or has nothing to say. I've gone months without returning e-mails also. That's how you can tell if a friend is a friend. If you keep in contact over the years with lapses in communication. One day you run into each other and pick up right where you left off. Or get an e-mail out of the blue from someone you have not heard of for quite some time. That's the way it works today. Don't sweat it.
2006-12-05 17:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by rifleman01@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is detached from your previous friendship. Things change over time. Maybe your friend doesn't regard your friendship as being prominent as you thought it was. Could be you might have had a disagreement before the long absence. You might just give your friend time or ask straight out if there is a problem that you two need to address to get your friendship back. Be patient and don't take it totally to heart.
Merry Christmas to you and your friend.
2006-12-05 17:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by krazeemunkie13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very unusual to keep the same friends forever. One or both people grow out of the friendship and they slow down or stop communicating all together.
When that happens the person who still wants the friendship should mourn its loss and move on. Oftentimes the end of a friendship is a sign of personal maturity and growth.
Move on and enjoy the trip. Moving on doesn't mean never being friends again - it means not relying on the friend as much. It means the parameters of the friendship are adjusted to accommodate the change.
2006-12-05 17:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by nemesis 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a friend for 4 years and now I'll email her a 1/2 page and all she'll say is what? or lol
Yes it is very sad. She just isn't putting enough effort into your friendship- talk to her about it and say it makes you sad that she doesn't want to tell you things etc.
2006-12-05 17:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe give her some space.. She will see what she is missing. I know this will be hard but maybe she is not a true friend in the end and that is what you might find.
2006-12-05 17:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by tearzofaprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be a true friend...she may not.
I am sure I have dissapointed my friends and their expectations of me as friends of mine have done for me.
Here is a quote I really like.
Just because someone does not love you the way you think they should does not mean they aren't loving you with all they have.
2006-12-05 17:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should call her or go see her. Find out what' s bothering her. If she's your best friend, why haven't you all talked in months? Maybe a face to face conversation is necessary.
2006-12-05 17:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by Andria T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends like that, who needs enemies?
I think it's time to re-evaluate your "friendship" with this person. I think that the fact that you haven't spoken to this person for months means that you are drifting apart, and her reaction to you contacting her would make me guess that she isn't interested in friendship with you, but isn't honest enough to tell you.
2006-12-05 17:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her why her response was only 5 words in a nice way. Next, you think about is she your real friend? or is she after something you have?
2006-12-05 17:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by quaniesha j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR SOME OF US NOTES ARE SHORT AND TO THE POINT AND FOR OTHERS THEY LIKE TO WRITE LOTS OF THINGS. YOUR FRIEND MIGHT BE BUSY AND THAT'S WHY THEY DO SHORT NOTES. JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS AN OPINION ON YOUR WEBSITE DOESN'T MEAN THAT IT'S NOT GOOD. EVERYBODY HAS THERE OWN THINGS THAT THEY LIKE ON THEIR SITE.
2006-12-05 17:12:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋