My man has really changed, he is only focusing on his work and other women in public. I have never seen a man like mines that has to stop and watch women in public looking at their booty no matter where, the mall, store or walking down the road. He knows I see him doing it and he knows that makes me mad why is he so caught up with looking at woman behinds. I know he is a man but where is the respect for me, if he sees one walking and has a big booty he will recircle the truck around just to see her butt. This is everytime we go out in public together. He acts like he have left something just so he can walk around the grocery store behind the womens he finds with a big booty. Not that i am jealous but it is the fact he is my man and there is not respect . What would u think is his problem?
2006-12-05 09:11:52 · 13 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His problem is that he's a selfish jerk who acts like a little boy. This is not a man you're describing. Dump his sorry ***.
2006-12-05 09:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by wineboy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey.. its just like you said. He lacks respect. My man is the exact same way. We have been together for over two years and trust me, there is no way you will ever change him. Not to sound harsh, but he might have a trust issue or think for some reason that you do the same. The best thing to do is sit him down an talk to him calmly, without yelling, cussing, or name calling and just tell him how it makes you feel and why he is so interested in other females. Most men are just primal and want to look at butts... butts, butts, butts! It is irritating as hell, but you just gotta try to be patient with him and see if that helps him to show you a little more respect. The truth of the matter may be that he does respect you, but doesn't know how to show it and doesn't know what he does makes you feel disrespected. He may feel that looking is innocent and doesn't hurt anyone. Just talk to him. That is one of the healthiest things you can do for your relationship is communicate well. Good luck to you. :-)
2006-12-05 17:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by chanteuse87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he soounds like my best friend. Honestly, I know u b ready to whooop him. even when I am with my best friend and he does that I kinda feel like have some respect. But then it is funny to watch him get dissed cause they see me. Then i help him out. He's a booty man too and he just likes to get his freak on. I don't want to tell u something that might make somethin out of nothing. But he's is probably cheating or thinking about it. Does he make ugly sex faces while he''s lookin?
2006-12-05 17:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by steelababi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a couple of things going on here. he could be trying to make you jealous or trying to make you leave.If he is trying for jealousy then he wants you to feel like you could lose him so that you will show the interest in him he wants you to. Most men don't know that that does not work. If he is trying to get you to leave then he wants you to brake up with him so that the guilt is not on him, because he feels like he is obligated to not leave you first. As in she don't want me. Men will look just like women look, it is our nature. We are a people that look at things and liked to be looked at. There are two types of love in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. You can love someone and not be in-love. Loving someone is differant from being in-love. Love is not wishing bad things on or for someone and being in-love is not wanting to hurt and disrespect while not wishing bad things on or for.I think you should decide whether you want to love in pain or if you want to be loved the way you should be. A lot of times we confuse familiarity, being around someone or something familiar, even at the cost of pain, with loving someone or something. Good luck and I hope this helped.
2006-12-05 17:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by TYRONE S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that he has been getting away with it and you have allowed him to do that in front of you..What you need to do is leave his sorry A$$...he is not respecting you..why would you want to go out in public with him..I know you are hurting. I remember in the past, I left the guy, I walked away from him, I wasn't going to take that, so he ran after me, and that was the last time he did that...but it depends on you Sweetie, to continue to take it or leave him..
2006-12-05 17:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that man has no respect for you. If he really loves you, you should be his only interest when it comes to women. Its ok to look i guess, coz men are like that, but to follow them around that is way too much. Why are you still with him??
2006-12-05 17:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by bangles121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bull, Sister. You are very jealous or you wouldn't have asked this question. His problem is that you are allowing him to disrespect you because you put up with it. Give him a little taste. Start checking out guys when he is watching and see how he likes it!
2006-12-05 17:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to face the clear truth hon i think that he is getting intrested in other women. I think also being a woman that you sould sit down with him and ask him about it spend some more time inside..I hope i helped you a lot my dear
2006-12-05 17:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by kittibritti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be treated with respect and apparently he's not. There's a difference between a guy looking (which is okay) and ogling..he crosses the line.
2006-12-05 17:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he ahs no respect for u. You need to do something sexy or interesting to make him stop!!! The only reason he's looking because they ahve a shape and a applebottom.
2006-12-05 17:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by quaniesha j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋