she asked if i would like to play with her while her boyfriend watched ?????
I didnt know what to say
she ask if black men where more gifted in the pants
she asked if i was offended?
I laugh it off like "Oh Amy , your so funny what a silly thing to say its just the alcohol talking " (insert uncomfortable expression here)
She proceeded to pull out her cell and call her boy friend and pass me the phone a mans voice says hey, we chat for a minute and he confirms what she says is true and that they dont do this kind of thing "normaly" but she has always wondered about it and he wanted to give her her fantasy in return for her giving in to his.
well I agreed to it
now she calls me and we talk like we are in a relationship we go out and have had dates she has since spent the weekend and bought me gifts for my b-day like we are a couple
So should I now be demanding that she leave him and we do our own thing or what cus we connected and i dont think he knows???
2006-12-05 09:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by blackplatnium007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please understand
This was supposed to be a fantasy fufilling once in a life time thing I have known her for years and she has never been the type to cheat she only asked me cus we have been friends so long and she trusts me
I know her feelings are genuine and sincere she was curios about sex outside what she knew,"white guys" (like that has'nt happend before)
we live in iowa and black people here are rare.
2006-12-05 09:59:54 · update #1
she has to do her own thing
2006-12-05 09:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsea J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweety - what goes around comes around. But hey, it's all good right? All you did was sleep with someone Else's sloppy seconds. She seems to be a "loose" woman, I mean jumping around partners? I hope she's on contraception, gets checked for Aids and Std's and I hope she used condoms (same goes for you). Where do you think this relationship will go? I mean do you honestly believe that she won't do this type of thing to one of your friends? I hope the threesome was worth it and I hope you protected yourself. I strongly suggest you speak to her and make sure that she isn't just using you for sexual gratification, and has intentions of leaving her boyfriend. Good Luck. God bless.
2006-12-05 09:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best advice is that you make sure she has a boy friend if she does not then you could. and if you mean play around by having sex then that would be awkward while her boy friend watches. you should tell her boy friend if you do not like her...if you do just talk to her about it. then you should try and remember that she has a boy friend and move on!
2006-12-05 09:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by just_a_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you guys should just b friends with benefits. She's "pimpin" and if i wuz u i wouldn't seriously go out wit some1 like that.
2006-12-05 09:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sexii Choklate89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i'd let him know she shouldn't be playin him like that after what he did for her and do you really want someone like her?if she's doing this to him whats to say she wont do it to you?
2006-12-05 09:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by lilloric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is kinky, stear clear
2006-12-05 09:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋