I am getting married next year in the spring.... A few weeks ago me and my best friend Dan, since our diaper days were hanging out playing around.... and he kissed me.... it felt so naturally i didnt know what to do.... this lead to sex and now i dont know what to tell him... I love him to death but I love my fiance too what should i do?
2006-12-05 09:23:48 · 7 answers · asked by Deborah C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Felt Natural..............hmm
you have lots to think about! I am not sure what to tell you other than to tell you I married my best friend and I have been happily married for twenty years. I think it is the key to a good marriage.
I wouldn't want to be in your shoes because if you do marry your fiance and it doesn't work out your best bud may be married then and you may wish that you had him to fall back on. Then if he is married things could still be unresolved in your mind or his and then it may involve a wife, kids etc.,.
You really need some wisdom at this moment....good luck
I would ask yourself who you are more compatible with, who has your interests at heart the best, sex appeal, who is more interesting, who is safest etc..............good luck
2006-12-05 09:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by December 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not what to say to Dan its what you should say to your fiance. He is entitaled to make a judgement on whether he still wants to marry someone who goes back into the past and has a last go without the diapers on
2006-12-05 17:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your fiance right now and be point blank honest. You cheated for a reason! You both need to figure it out if you really love each other (and he actually sticks with you after that dealbreaker).
2006-12-05 17:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Singthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for another man. Girl, do NOT get married. Iron out your feeling with your friend. He may feel totally different.
2006-12-05 17:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by Flaca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what happen and see what happens after and see what he well say u sould of think that be for u did that to him if u dont tell him and someone tells him it going to be bad so yea good luck and take care
2006-12-05 17:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by cookiemonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind and think for a long and hard then make your choice.
2006-12-05 17:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Facts are facts: YOU CHEATED ON YOUR FIANCE! I sure wouldn't want to be in your shoes and I dunno what to tell ya!
2006-12-05 17:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋