Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

My best friend, Melanie, likes this guy at our school. She is his type in EVERY WAY! Anyways, today her "other" best friend, Lisa, emailed her a convo and it basically said that the guy likes Lisa and not Melanie. She believes her, but I dont! What advice do you have for her?

2006-12-05 12:51:44 · 3 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Friends

and we hardly ever talk. it gets really annoying sometimes, and i did try to talk to him once and it seemed like he didint want to talk to me so i dont try nemore. but i do talk to him in the hall every once in a while. and we text alot, but sometimes i want to talk to HIM! we have a winter dance coming up soon and i dont know what to do? cause yeah, we slow dance, but when we do its sOo boring! cause even then we dont really talk & were right next to each other!!

What should i do cause sometimes i want to break up with him, but then other times i dont? plus he says he likes me, but i dont really think he does.

Help peaz! =>

2006-12-05 12:51:25 · 39 answers · asked by Brutalyhonest 2 in Singles & Dating

give or take

2006-12-05 12:51:06 · 8 answers · asked by Greg P 1 in Weddings

I am a girl who follows and plays sports all the time. I also love antique cars, classic rock and i have a dirty sense of humor. but at the same time, i love clothes and make-up, and I spend the usual hour in the shower. It feels like all my guy friends see me as "one of the guys" Why is that, and does anyone find that sort of type attractive?

2006-12-05 12:50:31 · 6 answers · asked by Gee T 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin has 11 toes instead of 10, The other day she went to get her toes done ( pedicure).. So I asked her if she had too pay extra for the extra toe.. She gets all upset at me.. I was just curious because I just wanted too know, I was not trying to be sarcastic however, she made a big deal and Now we are not speaking... I totally apologized and she is still upset, oh well forget her...

Do you think that I was wrong? Please let me know!!!!

Thanks for your advice...

2006-12-05 12:50:03 · 8 answers · asked by Vicky 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

but all inclusive under 2,000?

2006-12-05 12:49:46 · 16 answers · asked by Newlywed 4 in Weddings

she get me in troble all the time and shes older than me GODDDDD HELP

2006-12-05 12:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My son is 8 yrs. of age. His father and I were never married. His father is in the Marine Corps. He pays his child support the military takes it out automatically) other than that he has no contact with our son at all! I don't talk bad about the father to our son.My thinking is our son will eventually see for himself what I already know. He has meet a woman and married her within a year of meeting her. I think that he is doing this for "show"!I would let my son go to visit with no problems if- he called him once in awhile (I asked him to call once a week just to let our son know that he was thinking about him regardless if our son wanted to talk with him or not), or write a letter something other than the text messages he sends me once every three months. He said that his family is pressuring him to have our son visit and yet this is the same "family" that has never sent our son so much as a birthday or christmas card. and they have never had any contact with our son.Your Opinion PLS!

2006-12-05 12:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by REDD 2 in Family

2006-12-05 12:48:24 · 7 answers · asked by crazysexybrain 1 in Family

I am not American so educate me on this please:)

What marks as a sign to indicate a couple are seriously dating? Asking the girl out on a date?or holding hands or what?

2006-12-05 12:48:10 · 9 answers · asked by anne 1 in Singles & Dating

About a year ago I left a very physically (and by way of that emotionally) abusive marriage. I have dated here and there since the divorce but recently have gotten more serious with an old acquaintance. However, there is this other woman who he seems to be really good friends with and I haven't said anything to him about it at all. He's made it clear that we are exclusive...but is there a way to ask about his relationship with without upsetting him and seeming obsessive? Or, is it perhaps just none of my buisness? Forgive me if this seems trivial...I just am having a really difficult time getting back into the swing of things and seem to have forgotten what's normal.

2006-12-05 12:48:05 · 12 answers · asked by iam_simplysara 2 in Singles & Dating

Some parents do it in the case of extreme disrespect, but in my opinion it's never acceptable. I think it's even illegal.

2006-12-05 12:48:02 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

long story short: i got drunk on saturday, started acting like a crude ***, and got kneed in the nuts for it. by a woman no less. it was bad. first time its ever happened to me., too - never even hit the bar on my bike. looking back, i feel like a fool because i feel like i realy over blew it. like, i made it obvious i couldn't handle it. i couldn't help it, but i feel i lke i acted like a baby.

sowhats normal?

2006-12-05 12:47:50 · 16 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Singles & Dating

Their both my friends.

2006-12-05 12:46:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How would handdle better then u did last time?

2006-12-05 12:46:38 · 8 answers · asked by lana 1 in Friends

Should I ignore him or ask him why he does that? I think he's trying to get back at me for reporting him for his nasty comments.

2006-12-05 12:45:53 · 11 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well i am dateing this girl named Julia and then my best friend brandon and me were playing soccer so i told him that i liked her a lot and that me and her were going out. the next day he starts fritting with her and stuff and then he told her to dump me for him and she did cuz she liked him but every week he dumps her and then he goes back with her when he see's me and her talking and me and my best friend just had our friend fight on his and we had never fight for 10 years. now i have no best friend no girl i am a loner i just walk around at ressus and now i am think of being emo like cutting myself cuz no one like me no one ever no's i am alive. and my x best friend tells me saying oh she was going to dump u anyway cuz you cubbie slow not good looking not takeing risk but i am kool so move it loser. and now i am just so mad now help. and i still like Julia

2006-12-05 12:45:43 · 24 answers · asked by Quad M! 3 in Singles & Dating

Bisexual. I don't know. I mean I'm barely turning 14 and I already feel like this is me! Do you think i'm right?

2006-12-05 12:45:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What did they look like? Where were you?

2006-12-05 12:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by radiancia 6 in Singles & Dating

am relly upset about my boyfriend never calling and asking me out I some times I think am going to kill myself! how do I break it off whithout feeling even worse about breaking his heart?

2006-12-05 12:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a big crush ob this boy name Steven and when I talk to him I feel so nervous round him is like as if I was breathing in cold n fresh air but when it hits my heart it's burning!!!!! I'm scared.what should I do?

2006-12-05 12:44:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ray-Ray 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, who I met last year. We will call her “X” X didn’t have any friends and so my best friend and I started hanging out with her. X seemed annoying, but soon she got to be a lot of fun, and really nice. Then X started lying no-stop, and about EVERYTHING! X considers us her “best friends” but we don’t know anything about X and visa versa. X also has a very bad temper.

X works with my best friend, so they are together a lot. (aka: no escaping her!!!!)

We are all seniors, and will be graduating in 6 months. Is it even worth the trouble of bothering with her? Should we just suck it up until graduation???

Suggestions!?

2006-12-05 12:44:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok today he told me that he loved me to my face again cause its been a while scence we saw eachother and it made me cray then he esked why i was cryin and if i thought he realy loved me adn i told him no then he got on his knoew and begged me to forgivr him and said he finaly relized he wont find another like me and that he is sorry for all the stuff he put me through he said sorry the last two times do i believe him cause before it didnt seem like he ment it as much as this time is he forrealz this time

2006-12-05 12:43:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You see I really like this guy, and we're really good friends. But the thing is I don't know if he likes me or not. And I sometimes get a lil nervous around him. I don't know how to give him my # b/c I get really nervous when I try, or I get nervous when I try asking him to hang out or something, how should I give him my # or to ask him to hang out, or if he likes me, w/out making a fool of myself? "Our" friends tell me that we make a cute couple and we should go out. Also, he walks w/ me to our class that we have 2-gether and he also stands by me or near me when we're outside @ lunch w/ our friends. So how can I give him my # or ask him to hang out or to ask him out, w/out making a fool of myself? Help!!!!!

2006-12-05 12:43:07 · 2 answers · asked by Twinkie 2 in Singles & Dating

what do i do when i really like thsi guy...and he says i am pretty and we were e-maling and he was like your cute i really want to like get to know you and be your FRIEND! do you think he likes me or just wants to be friends....and what is a good conversation starter or somting i can say to him tomorow? kk
thanks

2006-12-05 12:42:51 · 3 answers · asked by bria 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I took a break because we lost our individuality in the 'us'. I have already felt like he's gone and because of that i realized how much i really did love him. I know he loves me back because i can tell it's there but he thinks i'm still here and I'm not. He hasn't felt as if he's lost me. It's like i'm his safety net and i really want him to feel that lost feeling to help him realize how much he loves me and how to "figure things out because i want to make sure i can take this next step". We had been dating for a year, but 5 months in some thing told us that we were meant for each other. Help me. I'm so confused and lonely.

2006-12-05 12:42:16 · 18 answers · asked by MickeyD 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you notice if a girl likes you just by chatting with her on aim?

i like this girl. she is my neighbor's best friend this weekend i saw her and i liked her at first sight. my neighbor told her i liked her and she said she does know me. so when i went on myspace i sent her a friend request and then asked her if she had an screenname so she replied and gave it to me. so i put her on my buddy list and she signed on and i talked to her for like a good 15 mins. she kept on typing lol for everything i would say. i just want to know what to do, because she goes to a different school than me even though both schools are right next to each other. what should i do ?

2006-12-05 12:42:15 · 13 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently staying with my bf and all my stuff is still at my apt. I plan on living with my bf and my roomie knows this already. So I gave her 4 months notice that as soon as she gets her tax income check in Jan, she said she would use that to get a smaller apt she can afford alone. Until then I have been paying rent to both my bf and her, although I do not live there anymore and can easily take my stuff and leave. (Its a month to month lease)

The problem now is she keeps complaining the closer it gets to Jan when she will have to move. I get this attitude from her and she says "Guess I'll have to move in with the next guy that comes along and wants to f*ck me.. like MOST people I know..." and other snide comments.

I have helped her more than anyone else would, she cant easily find a place because she has a pitbull that most places wouldnt accept. I have tried to find roomates but come out empty handed. What should I do? Am I getting taken advantage of?

2006-12-05 12:41:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today at gymnastics practice my friend got hurt and was really upset. We were walking through the halls and she was crying so I put my arms around her(in a friendly way) and told her to calm down. This guys who really, really likes me saw this and looked jealous.He asked me out b4 but I don't like him so I said no. Then his friend was like "dude, too bad that couldn't be you". Was he jealous of how my friend and I are really close??
Why??
Why would he be jealous?? She's my friend. Im not a lesbo so it's nothing more. We are just good friends. I have a b/f and it's not him, but one of his other friends. My friend is a girl, so why was he jealous??

He just admitted online he was jealous.

Why would he be jealous of me trying to make my friend stop crying?? Is he trying to stop me from spending time with ne1??

2006-12-05 12:39:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How does water ad vinegar relate to people who dont like to use condoms..
Like if I said to somone
I dont like yo use condoms cause i dont get that freash feeling
And they said well all i got to say is you need water and vinager
What does that do i dont get it?//

2006-12-05 12:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by becca . 4 in Singles & Dating