Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

I met this bloke 5 yrs ago. We've been friends since then. We started as a relationship or so I thought, but he was double timing me and I broke up with him. He came after me and insisted we kept seeing each other. As we live in two different countries, we could only meet now and again but we always kept in touch over the phone and internet as good friends. Last time was magic and now we are meeting again. It seems that from passion to disappointment, disappointment to friendship, now we are coming from friendship into passion again. One only difference though. I am not expecting so much this time. I am just so happy to enjoy it with him and when I look back, we 've been friends for five years. I just seem to find him better than all other blokes I have come across during this period of time.

What's going on? Is this love?

2006-12-05 12:27:29 · 6 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Singles & Dating

and I Am in the youngest grade again,and people give "the Look" you know the you don't belong here look,how can i ignore this. especially the 12th graders they are the worst.

2006-12-05 12:26:44 · 20 answers · asked by AFI Obsessed Girl 3 in Family

Ok. theres this VERY attractive girl in 1 of my classes. Whenever I see her my heart starts pounding. (literally) and when i talk to her I feel all weird and I would say something stupid. Sometimes on aim when were talking i say ur pretty. sometimes I say you have a nice smile. Im very nice, when someone makes fun of her i make there liives a living hell. But idk if she likes me. what can i say or do to make her like me.

2006-12-05 12:25:56 · 4 answers · asked by chunkyhomer1992 1 in Singles & Dating

He said He Likes me and I like him but it's just that we can't go out bc of his sport wrestling I wish we could but i can't I mean i would wait 4 him but it's not like 2 weeks or a month it's about 4 to 5 months should i wait i mean i luv him but idk if i should wait that long

2006-12-05 12:25:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today in the morning i get up st my usual time 6:00 am because of school. So I went downstairs and made pancakes for breakfast cuz i had a craving. I just sat down and i heard a knock on the back door (the door closest to me). I had to squinch my eyes because I cudnt see much into the dark until i got the perfect image. There was a buy standing at my back door with NO pants on Masterbating in front of me. It was my next door neibour's toms brother named ROB. He is like 40 and he has always scared me. I got sooo scared i ran upstairs and did a big whipe out into the wall because i was running so fast. I went upstair and wa debating to see if i cud fake sick. But i decied to go to school. I dont know if this guys has been watching my every move this morning or what but i am so frkn scared. My head is like scarred. What should i do. i'm only 16 qand he knows that. I dont know what to do and i am afraid to tell neone...plse help

thanks,

shawna. =)

2006-12-05 12:24:21 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am engaged to a man who's trying to get his lazy *** wife to sign the divorce papers. As time has gone on, he's been thinking about trying to get full custody of his 3 year old son. We hear Georgia will favor the mother. On top of that, he's in the military and I'm pregnant. Can he get in trouble for me being pregnant if his wife attacks him about it during the custody battle? We dont want to drain money into this battle if we can't win.

2006-12-05 12:24:03 · 8 answers · asked by ladie_eclipse 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what if u have a guy best friend and he always sends u love comments like in myspace and places like that but u think hes playing so u send him back some other love messages and then your friends see them and think u r going out with him but u say ur not then they dont believe u and then a few days later ur guy best friend asks u out what would u do??

2006-12-05 12:23:42 · 3 answers · asked by mntn 1 in Singles & Dating

okay umm my school has been a COMPETITION squad for about 20 years already and this year we have a new principle and he wants to make it a SPIRIT squad!!!!!!! ahhh! thats horrible we are proffesional dancers not the "cheerleader stereotype" so this really sucks.we always get nationals for him to not let us go to competition.we can only cheer at games or special events .
another problem we hardly ever have any events because he cancellled ALL our dances! we only have a football game and a volleyball game THIS IS NOT FAIR! what can we do?

please DO NOT IGNORE this is important to me and there will problably not be cheerleading next year because he wants to cancel EVERYTHING :(

2006-12-05 12:22:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-05 12:22:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-05 12:22:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 12:22:32 · 2 answers · asked by nEyAh01 1 in Family

I don't really care for my inlaws as they are not truly good people. I need to know how to not let them get to me. Any advice?

2006-12-05 12:22:01 · 10 answers · asked by kappgal 2 in Family

I have only been married for 5 months and think my new husband still has acvtive proflies on several dating services I have found 2 of them and think there are more. He said he had taken his profile off but I feel he is not telling the truth. The only way I found the ones I did was they were still being taken out of our bank acct. He will get on the computer after I go to bed and early in the morning before I get up for work, some times I will walk in the room and he will hurry and get off the computer. I feel that he is hiding other things from me when I ask him he about these things he tells me everything is ok, BUT MY GUT FEELINGS TELL ME OTHER WISE. I love this man and feel that the lord has brought us together and spend a lot of time in prayer about this.

2006-12-05 12:21:55 · 22 answers · asked by adreamer2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you feel about interacial dating?

2006-12-05 12:21:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 12:21:46 · 10 answers · asked by jewel 4 in Singles & Dating

Why is that?

2006-12-05 12:20:57 · 27 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 12:20:34 · 15 answers · asked by jannavarapu 1 in Singles & Dating

Today at gymnastics practice my friend got hurt and was really upset. We were walking through the halls and she was crying so I put my arms around her(in a friendly way) and told her to calm down. This guys who really, really likes me saw this and looked jealous.He asked me out b4 but I don't like him so I said no. Then his friend was like "dude, too bad that couldn't be you". Was he jealous of how my friend and I are really close??
Why??

2006-12-05 12:20:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a stay home mom, my husband works out of town and does not want me to have a job (insecure, thinks Ill leave or something) anyways, I told him I wanted a car and he can afford another car, he said he would get me a car 5 months ago and in the last 5 months has had plenty of money to do so, he just keeps making excuses to NOT buy me one (used) I am getting fed up with this and I have decided that I was done being nice and have since cut off from sex (sex only) and told him he wont get any until I get a car, I have said I would get a job and he said "why, ill get you a car" and hasnt yet.
He wants to be a contolling wench, well now I will be.

2006-12-05 12:19:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bestfreind have a boyfriend who changed her life being a player, she just came from US (job matter) back in our country and found out her boyfriend is cheating on her.. (she saw pictures with his ****) my bestfriend still keepin in touch pretending nothing happen,, his dumb-headed boyfriend left counrty to "visit relatives" (he says) i keep on telling her to leave that a** h*** and let him go... she never listen to me.. she said if she will brake up with this guy, he wont say sorry and beg to came back.. she wants him to know that she knew it all and it will unconsciously bother his conscience.. help me out how to expalin her she dont have to listen to what he will say.. and just end it.. NOTE! this guy is a college student didnt leave 3rd yr level and my bestfreind is a physical therapist.. sucks right?! well help me out!

2006-12-05 12:19:49 · 5 answers · asked by bianca 1 in Singles & Dating

if he's white has a snse of humor and hangs out with you sometime.he has blue eyes and his name i will not tell.hes really tall and has dated one 5th grader.

2006-12-05 12:18:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi
i love my gf and i know she loves me. we are only going out for a less then a month now. She had a few bf before me(and hey are reported to be jerks).. but shes my first love.. hopefully my only. we get along ok.. like no fighting..and we're really open about our feelings, and tell each other everything. She told me that shes likes the fact that im not a jerk. But when i tell her that she looks hot, she changes the subject. I'm only flirting with her, and i respect her alot. Should i ask her up front? Should i hint at something? I just dont want something sooo small make her feel bad/odd. what should i do?

2006-12-05 12:17:56 · 27 answers · asked by bob o 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I'm 12 and you know the 7th grade perpeser ect. Everything is about weight at my school I weigh 124 am I to heavy?

2006-12-05 12:17:49 · 15 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Friends

my girlfriend and her sister both like to sleep with me.At first i thought it was cool but now i'm kind of uncomfortable about it.My girlfriend last night asked me if i wanted to have a threesome with a friend of hers.I told her no and she started to get a little hurt.Then she laid her head on my lap and said please over and over again.I don't know what to do.I feel kind of weird also when they both get in the shower with me,at first it was o.k.but now i'm a little uncomfortable with that to.When ever she does'nt get her way she gets really wild.She wants me to hit her.I don't want to.I don't hit women plus she's to little.What do i do?

2006-12-05 12:17:38 · 6 answers · asked by tom s 1 in Singles & Dating

michelle l nichols brookville,pa age 37

2006-12-05 12:16:45 · 4 answers · asked by gator_ladie707 1 in Family

I just got back from a party with my boyfriend, and he said he loved me, he was serious though. this was my response:
i spit out my drink
coughed for a few seconds
ran out the door.
i think i might love him too, but i'm not sure. i just don't really know what to say, because i don't know if i want that comitment, but i still want to be with him. i'm just not in love w/ him

2006-12-05 12:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by stephhh. 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 12:16:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i are staying with his parents.his parents blame us with whatever problems that happen in the house.we try to be reasonable and patience towards them but the more pressure we get.help us,my parents in law are driving us crazy.

2006-12-05 12:16:27 · 7 answers · asked by polaris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been friends with this guy for 4 months. It's more than friends with benefits we are truely friends we can talk to each other about anything. We talk to each other every other day. The reason why we are not a couple is because he is right in middle of a divorce. He's been separted from his wife for 2 years. He says that he is scared to get into another relationship. Do think that is lie? and now for some reason he has not called me for more than a week. I've called and left a message but has not returned my call. Has he changed his mind about our relationship?

2006-12-05 12:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did not post the adoption question, my sister did. The father is a loser and hates her, they were together when she got pregnant, he tried to kill her by stabbing, he abuses the other kid, doesn't work, has no good family, does drugs, drinks, and cheats on her.

She just wants whats best for the baby and knows she cant do it and neither can he. An agency said he had the right to deny an adoption. Her question is WHAT IS SHE SUPPOSED TO DO ABOUT IT?

2006-12-05 12:15:14 · 5 answers · asked by mikeyswifeyof4 3 in Family