I have been friends with this guy for 4 months. It's more than friends with benefits we are truely friends we can talk to each other about anything. We talk to each other every other day. The reason why we are not a couple is because he is right in middle of a divorce. He's been separted from his wife for 2 years. He says that he is scared to get into another relationship. Do think that is lie? and now for some reason he has not called me for more than a week. I've called and left a message but has not returned my call. Has he changed his mind about our relationship?
2006-12-05 12:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find him and ask, whats up?
2006-12-05 12:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww you poor gulible child if you were truly friends would you be asking if he still wants to be your friend. I'm not the type of person to sugar coak my advice but I do have some tack. My dear it is never a good Idea to become involve with a married man, and I quote ( right in the middle of a divorce) is still married. and I quote ( he has been separted from his wife for 2 years) is still married. If he has not called you in a week I'm sure he is calling someone else. And what relationship are you referring to. You and him are not in a relationship the only relationship he is in is with his wife. I keep talking about the fact that he is married because I really don't think you are seeing this. Even if he finally gets a divorce, sweetie he is not gonna marry you. His new excuse for why you and him aren't a couple will be ( I just got out of a marriage and I don't think I ready to be tied down so soon. Men and women have very different thought patterns when if comes to a relationship. Women were build to love and nurture, not that men aren't but a man can have sex with a women and even talk atferward and that's all it will be to them, but women on the other hand we get our poor little feelings involve exspecially if the sex was good. My dear to make a long story short. leave him alone even if he desides to call you and try and talk. the best thing for you is to say good bye now before you get really, really, really hurt later, because I can tell youa re hurt now.
peace and blessings
2006-12-05 20:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Proverbs 31 women 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world could'nt you wait till the divorce to be final before you had sex with him??? That's the most typical lie a guy will say to get some action while still married. He's either back with his wife or using that lame excuse on another girl to get her in bed too.Open your eyes and close them legs!
2006-12-05 20:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem with friends with benefits. You start wanting to be more than just friends. When you start calling each other too often or seeing each other too often you are more than just FWB. Since he has told you he is not ready for a real relationship, don't call him anymore. When he's ready he will call you.
2006-12-05 20:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, wow, you're the mistress. Has it occurred to you that he isn't "divorcing" his wife as he might let you think? In fact she probably doesn't know about you and he's been feeding you a line. I will probably get bad votes for this but if he is willing to sleep around on his wife, what makes you think he wouldn't do it to you?!
2006-12-05 20:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by alicesarbonne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dirty hoe. You need to get married before you go around and have sex. Friends with benifits, kids these days.
2006-12-05 20:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋