Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

MY boyfriend is 21 years old, and we've been together for a yr and 7 months...i really want to get him something special this christmas, but i dont know what to get. I really dont want to get him something common like a cologne or a shirt or any of that. i want to get something i can add my own touch on or something special and meaningfull... ♥♥♥Any answer is appreciated♥♥♥

2006-12-05 13:02:06 · 23 answers · asked by custom_made_mami 3 in Singles & Dating

At the moment I am experiencing a difficult situation.To set the scene, when I started working for my ex-employer 5yrs ago,I became good friends with a wonderful girl. I'm 29, she's 24.She is fiercely intelligent, strong, independent, confident, caring, funny, sensitive,and is the most beautiful and attractive human being I have ever had the pleasure to meet. One smile from her makes my day.We always got on extremely well at work and, we have a lot in common. I was in a long-term relationship at the time, but that ended two years ago.When I left we remained good friends. She was quite ill recently and I was worried sick.That was when I slowly began to realise how I felt about her.Often, I'll go and see her and we spend hours just talking and having a laugh.My problem is that I'm terrified if I tell her my feelings have changed she'll back off. I don't want to put any pressure on her, all I want is for her to be happy even if it's not with me. Any advice would be very much appreciated.

2006-12-05 13:02:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This boy I like...well I thought he liked me but now I'm soo confused now. Ok at my school we have this thing called 1st and 2nd lunch. Well me and 2 of my friends had 1st lunch then my other friends got changed to having 1st lunch so when me and my 2 friends started hanging out with my other friends he sorta well backed off. I don't get why exactly. Is he afraid of my other friends? What can I do about this? Also he is about as popular as me so it's not that. My friends and me are not people you can just mess wit though we got each othazz backz. <--Ya know? But why would that make him stop showing intrest in me? Please help me.

2006-12-05 13:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by ♥MZ. EASTSiDE♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 13:01:08 · 10 answers · asked by N.a.t.a.l.i.e. 2 in Singles & Dating

First of all let me give you the 411.

I live in waianae, Hi. And i am 15 years old. I am what you call a beach bum, I LOVE the beach. I go surfing almost everyday, i just love the ocean.

Well, my problem is that i just recently got a boyfriend. He always wants me to call him and spend time with him, lately i've been missing my usual surf sessions just to see him.
This whole week i have been telling him that i was busy and i was going to the beach to surf w/ my dad and he gets mad at me.

Do you think i should break-up with him. I mean he's cool and all but if he wont let me do the things that i love then whats the point right?? Idk...
plus, i can't take him surfing with me cuz' he only bodyboards. I just want to surf, i dont want to deal with him always getting on my case.
I tryed taking him with me to the beach once and he effin' got all bent out of shape cuz' i wasn't payin' n-e attention to him. i dont know what to do.

2006-12-05 13:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Call me cynical, but I very highly doubt that if I approached a girl at a club or a bookstore or whatever that she would seriously consider dating me. I know I wouldn't if I were a female. It would be one thing if I were just average, but I am well below average. I think most girls are just as shallow about looks of the opposite sex as guys are. Sure personality helps, but looks put you over the top and I just don't have them. And you girls might "say" that looks don't matter, but that's the first judgement that is made. You look at the person and decide if they're attractive or not. What comes out of our mouths is secondary. So with all that being said, short of working out (which would take years to get to my ideal shape) what can I do? And if you tell me to think positively, then tell me how I could possibly think positively looking the way I do.

2006-12-05 13:00:30 · 6 answers · asked by more_brains_than_brawn 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a college freshman and, although the semester is almost over, I still haven't made any friends...I get the impression it's because I'm not into partying all the time, drinking alcohol, and smoking...and I don't plan on changing that for anyone! Still, it is very deppressing sometimes especially when I need someone to talk to, given that I am 7 hours away from home! I honestly have no friends at all & it's proving very hard for me to make new ones...and on top of everything else, I am shy!

HELP, please...

And thanks in advance :)

2006-12-05 13:00:10 · 7 answers · asked by ♥WestlifeForLife♥ 3 in Friends

Hey
that would be cool if you had shot it though!.....so anyways i wanted to talk to u and i guess i'm ganna go ahead and pop the question! (kinda akward) lol but u know how today when everyone was playing around with horje and when we were like ya we're going out and stuff.....i just had to ask you what we are, u know relationship wise? like everyone is like oh he likes you and all this stuff....but i just wanted to hear for myself how you feel? sucks how imature this is sending you a letter lol but if i were to tell you in person i would probably forget everything, so im accualy thinking right now, while im typing! lol sounds dumb but anyways just don't feel afraid to talk to me about anything...you know how you feel and stuff! but i do like you and i wanted to tell you that! I just don't want you to feel akward or rush into a relationship or you know whatever you feel like, like if you don't like me that's fine...but hey if you do that's even better.

2006-12-05 12:59:55 · 17 answers · asked by blondie14 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 12:59:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a guy i like wont even look @ me
ppl say hes "shy"
cheah right
he only talked to me 2 times this skool year
WHAT SHOULD I SAY
HOW SHOULD I TALK TO HIM
its very awkward when we look @ eachother
i just wanna b real close with the guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
help!

2006-12-05 12:59:33 · 14 answers · asked by jen kutcher 2 in Singles & Dating

YOU GIVE YOUR HEART,YOUR LOVE,YOURTIME YOUR WHOLE LIFE TO THE PERSON THAT YOU REALLY THINK THAT LOVES YOU THE SAME WAY. BUT JUST TO FINE OUT YOU WERE BEING USED.

2006-12-05 12:59:08 · 35 answers · asked by BABY GIRL 1 in Singles & Dating

I had an affair, it ended a month ago except in my mind where it still 'stirs'. Now the question is, do I tell my wife? If I do tell, I may be out on the street before the sun rises tomorrow and may never get to 'come home again'. If I don't tell, I will be guilt ridden for the rest of my days which does not thrill me. I am not proud of my affair as such and if ignorance was 'bliss' in this case, I'd go back to before it started and channel my energy elsewhere but, alas, no can do. On the other hand, the 'affair' was 'wonderful' in it's own way, but it is no longer though the heartache continues of it ending. If I do tell my wife she will probably not trust me 'til the end of time which I couldn't blame her. If I don't tell her, I will be able to continue 'as is', as I have this last month, putting energy back into our marriage and work at it becoming many levels above being worthwhile. Should I tell her, yes, why? no, why not?

2006-12-05 12:58:57 · 29 answers · asked by mickeycaprise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend, Melanie, likes this guy at our school. She is his type in EVERY WAY! Anyways, today her "other" best friend, Lisa, emailed her a convo and it basically said that the guy likes Lisa and not Melanie. She believes her, but I dont! What advice do you have for her?

2006-12-05 12:58:52 · 7 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

How long is too long? no reason i just want to know.

2006-12-05 12:58:46 · 11 answers · asked by candyr1015 2 in Singles & Dating

I told my girl she would have to do 200 push ups if she wanted me to stay wit her... well she did 2. LOL! Basically now she must leave because she's nowhere near my standards, or even in good physical shape. So Im wanting to know ways I can give her the boot without being too harsh??? She has no family or friends so it's gonna be a trip watching her live on the streets. My question, how can I boot her out nicely?

2006-12-05 12:58:03 · 26 answers · asked by aj lewis 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of over a year has lied to me about going to a club with three chicks. he says he is so sorry and sent me the biggest bunch of flowers ever but then lied to me again! once again he is begging forgiveness. we have just bought a house together? should i except he is willing to change or move on?

2006-12-05 12:57:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 12:57:56 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica H 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i asked the guy i liked out...but i am always calling him and asking him out!

we talk for long hours..but i am always the one to call...

he says he hopes to talk to me again..but never calls

i called him today and asked him out for friday..he said yes...

why is it only me doing the asking???

2006-12-05 12:57:52 · 10 answers · asked by A Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

i would have to say her stomach i just love rubbing it and kissing it its beautiful and its really soft right between where the stomach ends and the pubic area starts (i dont mean to be perverted or anything)

2006-12-05 12:57:27 · 5 answers · asked by Adrian P 1 in Singles & Dating

But I can't find out if he likes me and he is sooooooo cute and I wish that he could tell me if he likes me but there is a catch I think he likes someone else
P.S. I WANT TO RIP HER TO SHREADS.And I am only 10

2006-12-05 12:57:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a fuk. Brainy, repressed, sexy, horny, shy, secret ****, over weight, under weight, correct weight, deathbed.
Most considered and catered for. Please leave your men at the gate ;)

2006-12-05 12:57:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 17 year old girl...and I've never had french kiss.....is it bad???...should i try it?...

2006-12-05 12:56:49 · 7 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 12:56:47 · 8 answers · asked by polaris 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 12:55:55 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-05 12:55:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know..lol And we are in High School

2006-12-05 12:54:37 · 16 answers · asked by Has31 2 in Singles & Dating

Usually men ask to the movies or dinner.

2006-12-05 12:54:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a woman in a tee shirt and jeans or a dress? what clothes would make you look besides the obviously revealing and lingerie?

2006-12-05 12:53:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I do.

2006-12-05 12:52:52 · 18 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Friends

My best friend recently had her boyfriend tell her that he loved her. I believe that you can fall in love at 13 but I wanted other peoples prespecitve on it.

2006-12-05 12:52:17 · 27 answers · asked by Nora 1 in Other - Family & Relationships