2006-12-05 12:55:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I could only give about 90% support. The 10% will be for disagreeing those ideas which I think will not be helpful to him.
2006-12-05 12:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a pretty easy question for me to answer, considering my whole life is on hold right now, so he could volunteer to go to Iraq. Of course you should support your husband, and no matter what it is. This is why we chose this person, we love them unconditionally, there should be no limits on what you would do for your spouse. He supported me and my decisions. I wanted to be a stay at home mother, and home school all of my kids, he knew this was going to be a financial problem, but he agreed that our children deserved this attention, and time. So, he had to be the only one working, and we have 6 kids. But, he stood up, and moved forward, and he has provided a great life for me and the kids. We are not RICH.....but we are not poor either. We agreed, that we would ever go on government assistance, because we made our decision to have this many kids, and we stuck to it, we have never applied or needed to apply for assistance. Let me go one step further, We have 5 kids that are ours, but we ran across a situation last February where a child (4weeks old) had no home, his parent up and left, and I asked my husband if we could raise him. Even though our youngest of 5 was 12, and he was heading to Iraq a few months later, he told me, that if I wanted to do this, he would support me. We still have this little bundle of joy, and he is 10 months old. My husband took on someone Else's responsibility because that is what I wanted. He knew it would be another expense, and that we are facing another 18 yrs of expense, and our plans for traveling in the future with all kids gone is set back a FEW more years, but he did it because it was what I wanted to do. See...it has to work both ways. You support each other. You communicate your needs, and they communicate theirs, and then you compromise! (that is a key to a successful marriage)
2006-12-06 10:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by PROUD wife of a soldier in Iraq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would fully agree with you, however I do have a question to you...
Are you always there to support her.?
Nothing is a one way street, it takes two to make all good things to work.
And once you see that,
then it's all green lights ahead for both of you,
Then you will see her shine and glow with such happiness, as you will see yourself shine when she stands up for you.
And let me please give you another thing that is so important and then ask yourself what comes first...
Your success-fullness or...... the love that stands at your side through all kinds of trials and tribulations,
always remember that she is there at your side because she has chosen be there.
So let me close with this.... if you can take the first step to being successful with this Beautiful Gift that you both share together Love for one another..... always goes a head of all other things no matter what.
Then the other things that relate to success fullness will be there for both of you in abundance
God Bless You Both, and I pray that you see the picture that I have tried to give to you.
Be successful in Love, you have concurred the world and all things will fall at both of your feet's.
Candyman
2006-12-05 21:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by candyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As well as a man to support his women so she can be her most successful too
2006-12-05 20:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Brown guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important for men and women who are in a relationship to support each other to the best of their abilities, but that's it. I'd rather support myself, thank you.
2006-12-05 23:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman should support her man in whatever he chooses to do and he should do the same for her .That's the only way it will work .
2006-12-05 20:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its not important at all. The "woman" has her own life to support, she shouldn't need or have to depend on "her man"
2006-12-05 20:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by asdfghjk; 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that uis true but it depends on what you are doing for her to support you. If it a good thing and ther are no negative things about it then sure.
2006-12-05 20:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2006-12-05 20:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is important! relationship cant grow without support from one another.. and support is one expression of love and commitment!
2006-12-05 20:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋