Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

My husband is in the Army and deploying for Afganistan in January. We have a 3 year old son and I am due to have our Daughter anyday. We have alawys been well intuned with each other, And have a very strong marriage. I feel like this is a time that we should be getting closer yet he just seems to be pulling away. Why now?

2006-12-05 13:25:39 · 15 answers · asked by I wanna dance naked in the rain! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 13:24:59 · 7 answers · asked by a2thfairy123 1 in Singles & Dating

There is the girl at my work that I kinda have a crush on. I ran into her one time at a night club and we took a picture together. About 2 weeks later I showed my friend at work that picture and he went and told her that I liked her; he also told her that I have that picture as my desktop wallpaper on my computer…which was really a lie. Today I seen one of her friends, and they started telling me that they heard I like this particular person, and that they heard I had her as my desktop wallpaper. I went to confront my friend about the situation and asked him why he said all that stuff and of course he denied it and said her friends were starting rumors. My friend said that he was going to talk to this girl and clear things up…Well after he talked to her he came to me and told me that she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore….I cant figure out why.. I didn’t even say anything to her, and yeah I think I like her, but I am so embarrassed to even see her now. What should I do…?

2006-12-05 13:24:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I always start flirting and once they flirt back I pull away like when they start getting all touchy feely.. I just feel uncomfortable and pull away. OR when a hot guy says something sexy or flirty to me, I don't know what to say back and I just smile and don't do anything and I feel sooo dumb because I have no clue to save my life as to what to say or do. But then sometimes, I flirt and am all seductive but not to everyone just some..

2006-12-05 13:23:25 · 28 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy told me that another guy liked me and gave me his # and told me to call him.so i did. he said i dont like u at all i told him that a guy in our class gave me his # and told me to call him. What would u say to the both of them?

2006-12-05 13:23:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he doesn't talk to me that much. I also think that he likes someone else. What should I do?

2006-12-05 13:22:41 · 1 answers · asked by inna2507 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 13:22:21 · 6 answers · asked by Lance Castinova 1 in Friends

2006-12-05 13:22:08 · 28 answers · asked by Twinkie 2 in Singles & Dating

i will marry with this amazing boy, he is like a blue prince, always open the door, take me to restaurants, buy me jewerly, but he is family betrays him. he lent his father a big amount of money and now dont want to pay it. his mother dont care about he, his brother always says something to hurt him and reproaches everything, his aunts,...well, worse and cousinst too. now he is living with his only sister, that he loved much, but she get worse than all the people above togheter! nobody in his family appreciate him. he feels very depresed. what should i do? i'm the only one that gives him support. i dont know what more to do? should i go and live with him alone? should i take him to other city and start a new life without the people that damage his life? he needs help/

2006-12-05 13:21:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Think about some of your best friends. Why do you consider these people to be your “best friends”. What qualities do they possess that make them such good friends? What is different about your relationships with your best friend’s compared to your relationships with friends who are not as close to you? What is different about what you do together, what you talk about, your attitudes and your beliefs?

2006-12-05 13:21:44 · 8 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Friends

I am so dumb i dont even know that,geeks please shed some light on my issue...

2006-12-05 13:21:28 · 23 answers · asked by remedy_eric 1 in Friends

This would be the third time I have asked this, but it is a different girl this time. I have just transfered to a new school, just a few miles from my old one. There is a girl in my Advanced English class who I find very attractive and extremely nice. She talks to me every once in a while, but really nothing of importance. She stands out at the bus stop with me maybe once or twice a week with her friends. I practically loose sleep every night just thinking about her; she is just one of those girls. Like today, I was on my knees in front of my friend Kevin's desk in English talking to him about something or another. Then, this girl walked over and knelt down right beside me and statrted talking to me. I don't know what to expect, but then one of her friends was looking at me on the bus and whispered something to her. I don't know what she said,but then this girl turned around and smiled at me. Please help me out with this! I really hope she likes me, cause I really, really like her!!!!!

2006-12-05 13:21:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes my best friends 19 yr old brother is really nice and wants to watch movies/do something else, and then other times he acts like he wants us to leave, but when we say we are leaving, he makes up some excuse why we are not allowed to leave like:

“Dad wont let you”
“Its going to snow, you aren’t going anywhere”
“No you’re not”

So what is his deal?

By the way we are 17.

Also, sometimes he'll say hi to me, other times, he will ignore me. ?!

2006-12-05 13:21:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay so i like this guy n he knows but the problem is that we don't even talk and he says that he wants to get 2 kno me first. He told my friend that he thot iwas pretty and i wanna talk to him but i can't. But i want 2 talk to him n i want to do it tomorw. wat should I say, how do i approach him? help now!!!

2006-12-05 13:20:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love this guy and he says that he loves me 2, but he doesnt seem to go to t he effort of contacting me that much anymore. and he seems so different now.. should i find someone else or should i stick with it? i dont want to get in deeper to only find out hes been lying to me

2006-12-05 13:19:28 · 11 answers · asked by sweet r 1 in Singles & Dating

well my gf has long hair and i want her to get a cut but she doesn't wanna and everytime we hav sex its like in the way! it bothers me a lot

2006-12-05 13:19:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

NO girls seem to measure up to my standards? All I ask is they can do 200 pushups, run 3 miles, 200 sit ups, and look half decent along wit being in shape? WHY?

2006-12-05 13:18:50 · 17 answers · asked by aj lewis 1 in Singles & Dating

i know most people r gonna probably say when ur both r ready, but what if ones ready and the other ones not?? would the relationship like, die out or something? oh, and do u think its difficult to be in a relationship if one wants to have sex and the other one doesnt

2006-12-05 13:17:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need some advice with kissing and other activities. anyone have any?

2006-12-05 13:17:09 · 15 answers · asked by Drop Dead. <3 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so i told you how my ex was acting like a jerk well he just called me and he said he didn't mean **** but i still feel like if i believe him this time he will just screw me over again he said **** like he was really hurt when i broke up with him and that he just was mad at the moment the funny **** is that he didn't do that **** until after we started being friends again i don't know if i should tell him to go **** himself or to understand what he is trying to tell me and give him a second chance?

2006-12-05 13:16:52 · 3 answers · asked by huntress2022 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this kid who I used to be friends with earlier in the year, but he's been getting weirder and more annoying, so I've kind of tried to lessen our friendship by not talking as much. It worked, but a new problem has arose... HE SMELLS! He's in one of my classes and friends with a lot of my friends (or just tolerated because nobody's mean enough to say he's annoying to his face) so I can't tell him. I don't want to seem mean or anything, and have my friends be mad at me... but this is no normal stench we're dealing with. It's not the usual body odor, it's something way worse. It stings your nose and lungs, and I'm prone to respitory sicknesses so it really affects me if I have to sit near him. I can't handle the stink, and although I dislike him, I don't want be mean by telling him to go bathe or something, and get my friends angry at me... What should I do?

2006-12-05 13:15:53 · 26 answers · asked by Koko 4 in Friends

There's this guy that I've liked for a year or two now. But I don't want to anymore. I get really sad at just the thought of him. I told myself to avoid him at school [We don't have any classes together anymore, so I figured it be easy. But it wasn't.], but I just couldn't. Everytime I tried to force myself to take a different hallway, I always seemed to end up passing him. Everytime I told myself to not look at him, not talk to him, I always ended up looking over and saying hi.

Is there anyway to just stop thinking about him? To just let go?

2006-12-05 13:15:20 · 7 answers · asked by abcdefgh 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 13:14:49 · 19 answers · asked by Dina S 2 in Singles & Dating

Especially the opposite sex

2006-12-05 13:14:48 · 18 answers · asked by John K 1 in Friends

i JUST now started to go out with him, but i doesnt feel right, so how do i break up with him after only.... (drum roll please!) 2 weeks! help!

2006-12-05 13:14:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like my neighbor, and we have been going out for 6 months now, I would really like to take it to the next level. im 14, and he is 16, We have both see each other naked before, so thats not a big deal, we often shower together. Is it ok to have sex with someone that is 2 years older?

2006-12-05 13:14:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for ten years now........his mom and my mom are friends. they met when i was three and introduced us when i was four. we don't go to the same school but i see him all the time. i go to his house or he goes to mine. but last monday he told me he didn't want me to come over anymore. but i went back on thursday and he didn't give me any attention at all. so i hanged out with his older sister. then i went back saturday and he was calling me names for a little while mean names but atleast it was attention. then he didn't say a word to me for a while. then his sister leaves and his mom goes to bed so we watch four hours of this tv show called angel. and he talks to me nice and everything. then his sister comes home and we go to bed. i spent the night and we woke up and went shopping out of town. he was annoying he kept calling me names. then we went to eat and he sat in front of me and played footsy with me. but he still acted super annoying. then we his...

2006-12-05 13:14:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a best friend,i thought.she really helped me alot.more than she every knew..she was younger,but very mature,n fun to be with.we talked about everything,cuddled on the sofa etc..mind u there was no sex lnvolve...she was like my young sister,lf i had one...i think i was just used and conned.

2006-12-05 13:13:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you have a boyfriend....but your friend wants you to get together with another guy that asked you out cuz she thinks thats what is best....(she hates my boyfriend) but the only thing is she already has a boyfriend so she must not want mine for herself... what do i do??

2006-12-05 13:13:14 · 14 answers · asked by brown_eyed _blondie 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has abandoned us for 16 years with no support. He turned himself into a Muslim and contact marriage for 2nd time. I could not afford an annullment proceedings. Now a Pakistani guy would like to marry me. Can I marry him under Muslim Law inspite existence of my first marriage under Phillippines Civil Law and Catholic laws?

2006-12-05 13:12:35 · 6 answers · asked by Mae 1 in Marriage & Divorce