Okay, I always start flirting and once they flirt back I pull away like when they start getting all touchy feely.. I just feel uncomfortable and pull away. OR when a hot guy says something sexy or flirty to me, I don't know what to say back and I just smile and don't do anything and I feel sooo dumb because I have no clue to save my life as to what to say or do. But then sometimes, I flirt and am all seductive but not to everyone just some..
2006-12-05 13:23:25 · 28 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important thing is confidence. Guys like confident girls. Guys like girls making a move more than confidence. Just relax, be yourself. If you try to hard to seduce them, it may seem like you're bring desperate, which will most of the time turn them off. Remember, guys are just as confused about what a girl is thinking as girls are thinking about what guys think about.
2006-12-05 13:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by aqdrag7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing, Brigitte is a complete moron and can't see that the question is in plain sight: ANY advice?? Yes, that would be called a question Brigitte. That's why there's a question mark at the end. And another thing, just be yourself while flirting. Don't think of it as flirting, just think of it as talking to a guy like normal. I don't even notice when I flirt with a girl sometimes. Just talk to them like normal. Hope it Helps.
2006-12-05 13:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to be good at flirting to get a great partner.
Be honest and truthful and you dont have to flirt back. Appreciate if people flirt to you but dont preassure yourself-its no big deal.
Also sometimes when you just be yourself, you can also be attractive in your own way. You have to ask yourself WHY you want to flirt in the first place. Is it to be attractive OR is it to just play around OR is it becoz every one else is doing it????
2006-12-05 13:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a few hints on how to flirt:
>Touch a guy briefly on the arm when you say something to him. Just for a second.
>When you laugh lean into him a little, maybe put your head on his shoulder - this gets me every time!
>Look at him and think of compliment you can say about his hair, his new shirt, his shoes - whatever. Then say it!
>Run you hands through your hair - guys who know about body language interpret this as flirting - and it looks so sexy!
Good luck - you sound like a sweetie!
2006-12-05 13:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When ever you get stumped, just smile or laugh, and if you feel uncomfortable, try to get away for a minute....
Like if he says something outrageous you don't know how to respond to... Just laugh and then excuse yourself to go to the washroom or something.
Flirting is mostly about eye contact and smiling, remember that and you'll be fine.
2006-12-05 13:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Felicia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out what you want, and what you should do to get it. If you want more privacy, take steps. If you want more touchy feely, work to become less awkward. My best advice though is not to worry about it unless you're unhappy with something!
2006-12-05 13:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to have a foundation, you just need to get a wing-girl and practice. Just go up to guys and flirt a little, learn what works and what doesn't. Its a learned skill.
2006-12-05 13:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by dcbongo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you get uncomfortable deep down you tell yourself to get out of that feeling so you walk away. just keep saying stay here stay here(in your head though). and if a boy says something to you just say like hi or like talk to you later but i have to go bye!
i really hopes this helps good luck!
2006-12-05 13:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirtin is fun, i think u just get nervous mayb b/c u take it for serious. i really don't know what to say b/c it is not like i can tell u what to say to the other person. but mayb try not to take it as personal, then mayb it will not b so hard for u to do. mayb try using ur body language just let urself go, don't get work up over it and u will fine urself doin it without u planin it.
2006-12-05 13:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always the same way! one time back when I was working as a waiter, this hot girl was like "are you on the menu?" and I just sort of laughed uncomfortably.. afterwards I was like "rats! I blew it!"
2006-12-05 13:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋