How can I break up my son's relationship with his girlfriend? I telling you, she is no good for him!?

Answer 1

If she is really that bad for him and nothing works, let him learn from his mistakes, but don't try to break your son up with someone he loves, because love always prevails.

Answer 2

First of all, how old is your son?

If he is 18 or younger, relax! It will likely fizzle out on its own. Do have a heart to heart chat with him and let him know you are concerned, but don't try to be devious and pull something to break them up; it will only drive them closer together, and probably give them both a bit of a Romeo/Juliet complex.

If he is older than 18, don't be that crazy mother! He's an adult, and even if he is making stupid decisions (in your opinian) life is about live and learn. Again, it's certianly okay to have a serious discussionw ith him about your concerns, but for heaven's sake, don't go all crazy on everyone and tyr to think of ways to break them up! Do you really want to be that psycho mother/mother-in-law that people make funny comedies about?

Answer 3

First of all, tell him simply,"So how are you and your girlfriend doing?" something like that, but dont ask too many questions 'cause he'll be annoyed.Get in a comfortable conversation. Then start of like,"Do you have anything in common with her?" then say."I think you should look for a girl your type, someone that acts like herself, not like a girl who acts like Paris Hilton." try to give good points[reasons] why but dont start an argument.Lastly, talk about it and think about it. Just to let you know, be careful watch what ur saying got it?Good luck!:)

Answer 4

Don't get involved with your son's relationships. The more you squawk about his girlfriend, the more determined he'll be to stay with her.

If she's as rotten as you say, her true self will show itself to him. Hopefully, he won't have a bastard child with her by then. Then you're stuck with her for the next 18 years or so.

Answer 5

tell him how you feel about his girlfriend. If he doesn't like what your telling him is more then likely true and he can't handle it. Explan to him what you don't like about her and why you don't like that about her. "Kids" need to have perfect reason's to break up with someone or they will just make something up if they feel its right to leave the other person. If you feel that he honestly "loves" her or atleast he says he does you may want to just let them be.

Answer 6

ur son needs to learn from this. let it go and eventually he'll come 2 his senses. dont teach the lesson for him like breaking them up. that way he knows nothin and possibly gonna dislike u 4 that

Answer 7

if he's got a lousy girlfrined and he's still living with you , kick him out of the house