Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

My friend called me a poser, is it true?I have Converse shoes and colored the white toe part black, then he folowed what I did ( But he colored his orange and red) Then he called me a Poser and said That he copyed me!When I did it first because I am going to try goth for a little. Now he told EVERY one in my school That I Am A Poser! Am I A Poser?!?!?Should he not be my friend any more? What should I do, because when ever I go in the hall to get to a diffrent class at least 20 people call me A poser. ( I am in middle school so stuff gets around fast) What should I do!?!?!? Its driveing me nuts, I have even tryed every trick in the book for geting out of school.

2006-12-05 13:54:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

"In what way?" I wrote back "Girlfriend" but than he said "Maybe" what does that mean? He always stares at me. Does that mean he likes me or what? Should i just tell him i like him in person?

2006-12-05 13:53:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 13:52:35 · 3 answers · asked by blond_n_punk 2 in Singles & Dating

I kinda do. I mean, they have to date only their cliques(well, they're stupid enough to believe that) so they're stuck with these dumb pretty girls with no personality. And plus, I want a boyfriend! lol

2006-12-05 13:52:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i say breaking heartz, i'm talking cheating!!

2006-12-05 13:51:38 · 22 answers · asked by Magical M 1 in Singles & Dating

Do I need to change?

And If I do need to change, how can I learn not to be attracted to Asian women so much.

Is it wrong, weird and pointless for a Black guy to like Asian women?

I am really confused.

2006-12-05 13:51:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 22 yrs old, a 4th year univeristy student, I work a full time job, there is no doubt that I am not responsible. Im not a complete nerd like I must sound, I have friends and a boyfriend its not like I have socialization problems but my parents still treat me like Im 13 yrs old.
I want to go away for New Years with my friends for 3 nights. I am terrified to even let my parents know because they will lose it and just make me upset and then in the end as usual my friend will go away and have the time of their lives while I stay at home. Im really tired not being able to do things that a normal 22 yr should do. Like have fun!
I really deseve this mini-vacation, between school stress and applying for law school I had has alot of hardship this yr including both my grandmothers passing away within 20days from each other and a lot of other things. I just really want to start the year off good. PLEAsE Help me figure how to convince them.This means alot to me.

2006-12-05 13:50:23 · 12 answers · asked by jdamion1985 1 in Family

omg my best freind is totally mad at me becuase she says i was flirting with the guy she liked but i wasnt. heres what happened : in pe we are doing dance unit and youre not allowed to say no to someone if they ask you cuz they're feeling will get hurt and her crush has asked me to dance like 12 times and i dont wanna be mean and later that day her crush told her in history that he liked me and shes soo pissed off and i dont want her to be!! i hate this please help

2006-12-05 13:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You see, I've known this boy for a long time. 5 years at least && we've been dating for a two months. =] && the funny thing is.. I saw him this weekend.. && it was like everything was perfect.. WE both thought the same way.. "WE could tell each other EVERYTHING.. wasn't afraid to say anything harmful cause we knew how it wouldn't hurt us && we were just comfortable with being ourselves && we trust each other.. && we both had the best weekend EVER" but then, i had to take him back to the airport.. && i hugged him before he left.. had a blast with him this weekend.. Ten minutes later.. i got a text message from him saying.. "I miss you alot ready.." && we both can't get each other out of our heads. Is this love or what?

2006-12-05 13:49:48 · 27 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy has balls and semen that has to get out.
The best way to get it out is NOT by his own hand.

Whats wrong with wanting sex to get it out?? You can always say no and he can go to the type of girl that says yes.

Girls like se.x just as much as guys and can always say "no thanks" and girls dont get blueballs so there is no 'double standards'.

2006-12-05 13:49:33 · 6 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2 in Singles & Dating

How was you'r day?
Mine was pritty good.

2006-12-05 13:48:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

see i know this guy ( kinda) ..wel not really iv been goin to this weekly thing for 2 or 3 weeks now an i just cant stop thinkin bout him..when im not there im thinking about him a good lot of tym an when im there..im just happy hes right there beside me..(he wasnt at the start but he is sumhow now)..i think he lykes me too..iv smiled at him an hes smiled bak..but just in general any advice i havnt even tlked to this gy yet..i duno how to start conversation ..if i had conversation i would

2006-12-05 13:47:54 · 3 answers · asked by cutegrl g 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies... how many pair of panties and how many bras do you own. My girlfriend has what seems like several pairs of them because ive never seen her wearing the same pair of panties or bra. its like she buys a new pair every other day or something.

2006-12-05 13:47:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey...I'm a senior at school, and I've never had a byofriend. I've been told that i'm attractive, I just think that my problem si taht I tend to be very shy around guys, and can't come up with good conversation. any suggestions?

2006-12-05 13:47:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 13:47:10 · 16 answers · asked by dave v 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have left my wife and kids to move into a house with a girlfriend that I have been cheating with for a year now. I realize it is a mistake to end my family of 16 years and I also am aware that I have really hurt my family. Over this past year I convienced myself that everything my wife did or said was poison and I didn't like her ways but I'm not sure if it is really true or not but maybe I had to brainwash myself so I wouldn't feel guilty, I don't know. I do know that I do not want the responsibility of another family (girlfriend has 3 kids) and I do miss my own but have made myself pretty scarse and when I do see my wife it usually is an arguement. She doesn't understand how I can do this to us and she wants answers, I'm not comfortable talking so I just avoid her. I'm not sure which may to go here, any advice.

2006-12-05 13:47:09 · 13 answers · asked by John D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend accidentally called me on his cell phone while at work and i overheard his conversation with his guys about the prettiest female he ever dated. It made me feel like crap because I know I look nothing like she does and it makes me feel like i'm not what he wants. I also overheard him talking about going to a club with his friends and we had an agreement (put in place by him) that we wouldnt go to the clubs because it was too much trouble. I love him but I really dont know what to do. Trust was sketchy in the first place.

2006-12-05 13:47:07 · 6 answers · asked by Ana 1 in Singles & Dating

I am sorry if you new I repeated I put this one question in the wrong catogoury here it is please help
Heyif any one can give me a good answer I need help with my feelings I kinda of like this guy but I don't want to put all my trust in him I have a hard time trusting people but I really like him I don't mind the thought of having sex I never had it before so I am like not wanting to i know he wants to do it and I am not so sure I don't want to get hurt and evrey one says your first time hurts is that true

2006-12-05 13:47:03 · 4 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Friends

try to suck up so hard. And really try too hard. Why is he looking at my money and not me? And befor anyone says I showed it to him, someone close to me let the cat out of the bag. Now check in for the two points

2006-12-05 13:47:00 · 1 answers · asked by J J 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currently in college and on my mom's taxes. However, my fiance and I were wanting to have a "quickie" marriage before the actual one in order to get his military benefits. How would I be able to do this since I don't pay taxes? Do I legally have to tell my mother to take me off her taxes (she will go to our wedding, but I'm trying to spare an "it's too early" lecture)?

2006-12-05 13:46:53 · 5 answers · asked by EA 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I currently moved in with my boyfriend and his roommate. His roommate is slob. Every second word out of his mouth is F*** he calls all women B****** and thinks it's funny to tell me to do things. He is rather gross. He is only living here for 3 more moths. But it is very trying living with him. Any suggestions?

2006-12-05 13:46:45 · 1 answers · asked by ChelseaLS 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this gothish type guy and wanna know how to let him know discretely. Not totaly goth just "likes a lot of goth philosiphies"

2006-12-05 13:46:40 · 2 answers · asked by Diverse Insanity 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 13:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

I have left my wife and kids to move into a house with a girlfriend that I have been cheating with for a year now. I realize it is a mistake to end my family of 16 years and I also am aware that I have really hurt my family. Over this past year I convienced myself that everything my wife did or said was poison and I didn't like her ways but I'm not sure if it is really true or not but maybe I had to brainwash myself so I wouldn't feel guilty, I don't know. I do know that I do not want the responsibility of another family (girlfriend has 3 kids) and I do miss my own but have made myself pretty scarse and when I do see my wife it usually is an arguement. She doesn't understand how I can do this to us and she wants answers, I'm not comfortable talking so I just avoid her. I'm not sure which may to go here, any advice.

2006-12-05 13:45:35 · 10 answers · asked by John D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 13:45:17 · 10 answers · asked by Talanna J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, this boy Michael he asked me out, and i said 'no' (because he is such an idiot), and then he wont stop following me!
he just creeped me out like hell!
so i got angry at him and told him to go to hell, and then he called me a *****, and still likes me!!!
i mean he bought me a cd for my b-day, and then he started following me again!
what do i do??????????

2006-12-05 13:45:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If the girl you really, really, liked was in the hallways of ur school, hugging another guy, Would you be jealous?? Or would you be mad that you didn't ask her out first?? Would you be mad or think your friend was right when he came up behind you and said "dude, we all know you wish that was you"??

Please answer!! Thanx!! (this is all based on a true event. I just wanna know ur reactions)

2006-12-05 13:44:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 13:44:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend of two years took me out of my mothers house, where i was fine, moved me to a strange town. Im 27 hes 36 so it wasnt a silly teenage fling. We had a child together. We made promises and commitments to eachother. I felt true love for him. We were family. Then one month we couldnt make the rent. He packed up everything he owned, took the baby and left me there in a strange town, an eviction notice, no phone, and no car. I feel abandoned. He still says he loves me and wants to live together when we save up enough money. What is going on here? I think that I should move on, what do you think? I do still love him, even though I am hurt and angry.

2006-12-05 13:44:17 · 21 answers · asked by sarra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 13:44:06 · 4 answers · asked by PiRuLiNo 1 in Friends