My boyfriend accidentally called me on his cell phone while at work and i overheard his conversation with his guys about the prettiest female he ever dated. It made me feel like crap because I know I look nothing like she does and it makes me feel like i'm not what he wants. I also overheard him talking about going to a club with his friends and we had an agreement (put in place by him) that we wouldnt go to the clubs because it was too much trouble. I love him but I really dont know what to do. Trust was sketchy in the first place.
2006-12-05 13:47:07 · 6 answers · asked by Ana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he may not be trustworthy. You should have a serious talk with him. You should tell him exactly how you feel. He should understand and respect your feelings. If he starts going to the clubs... and if you ever suspect that he is starting to see other girls secretly... you should leave him. Some men don't really care about how women feel at all as long as they get everything they want out of a relationship. Why would you want to spend the rest of your life being treated poorly?
2006-12-05 13:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Soul saviour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you "accidentally" dial him when your talking with a girlfriend and u can talk about the hottest guy you ever dated. Also make plans with her about going to a club (where guys strip). Im not saying really go but just play this little "joke" on him and see how he reacts. If he says anything later to you, then you can tellhim what you heard and how it made you feel
Just make sure u know hes listening and u didnt go into voice mesage.
2006-12-05 21:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your hurt but when it comes to looks it helps but personality rules all if her personality is nothing like yours than you in terms are prettier than her. however if he has broken your trust you should confront what you heard and tell him you know he is going to clubs and he should stop cause he is hurting your feelings and breaking trust if he doesn't stop than he not the right person for you nobody deserves to be treated bad and you really don't have time for your heart to be broken when its somebody out there that can treat you better
2006-12-05 21:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget what he said cuz truly if you were crap he would have never gone out with your his women and in the inside hes saying man the girl that I'm going out with right now is sexy :)
2006-12-05 21:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just answered you own question. Quit wasting your time with this guy and move forward. He obviously doesn't care about you that much.
2006-12-05 21:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him if he really cares about you he will try to make it work.
2006-12-05 21:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by can_love_kill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋