omg my best freind is totally mad at me becuase she says i was flirting with the guy she liked but i wasnt. heres what happened : in pe we are doing dance unit and youre not allowed to say no to someone if they ask you cuz they're feeling will get hurt and her crush has asked me to dance like 12 times and i dont wanna be mean and later that day her crush told her in history that he liked me and shes soo pissed off and i dont want her to be!! i hate this please help
2006-12-05 13:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok calm down, she's gonna lose a best friend if she stays mad at you, and of corse she dosn't want to lose a bestfriend like you. First of all it's not your fault, second your friend knows how you feel about this situation right? I mean she's your best friend, if she was a true friend she'd understand what you really feel about this dude. You don't like him that way and she she shouldn't be mad at you because he's like'n you that way. You know your boundery's with a friend, she should know that your not gonna try to make her mad or anything.... so don't worry, cuz she'll realize that your friendship with her should mean a lot more than a crush.
2006-12-05 14:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i kno what u can do...u can tell ur best friend that u love her (cuz im sure u do)..and that u dnt want to hurt...but u was just dancing with him for p.e...and that u dnt like him...and u wouldnt do that because she is ur best frind...but its not ur fault that he likes u...and u should tell the guy that he should of told u instead of telling ur friend....and that ur pleased...but ur not interested and that u dnt look at him in that sort of way...hes only a friend...and u should tell him that ur friend would wanna go out with him...or tell ur friend 2 ask him out...hope i help you...bye
2006-12-05 14:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by im_that_bitch_112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "I'd never go out with him 'cuz you like him, so it doesn't matter. I can't help it anyways. Just flirt with him & smile. Friends forever, boys whatever. So, I don't want this guy to tear our friendship apart."
2006-12-05 14:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhhh, tell her dont worry i wont go out with him even if he asked me...your friendship is way more important...and your friend needs to stop being a jealous freak, its not like you're going to marry him.....and she needs to stop obssesing over him and stop being selfish, instead of being jealous she should be happy that he atleast has interest in one of you.....
2006-12-05 13:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that u DONT like him.....and he likes u and tell her that u would never do anything like that to her....and dont go with him....ur BEST FRIEND IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN SOME BOY
2006-12-05 13:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u like him then ask him out.Tell your (if you like him) that you r going to date him.But if not then tell your friend u don't like him.
2006-12-05 14:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋