when i say breaking heartz, i'm talking cheating!!
2006-12-05 13:51:38 · 22 answers · asked by Magical M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you cheated you wouldn't get a second chance with me.
2006-12-05 13:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...seeing as how your question in completely out of context of the entire situation it is a VERY difficult one to answer. But I'll try!!! Yes. I think you deserve a second chance (and this comes from a girl who used to be dead set against cheaters getting 2nd chances). ASSUMING you are genuinely committed to being exclusive to her now that you have made your mistakes...you deserve a chance, but its ultimately up to her to decide that since she is the one who must learn to trust again. Actions speak louder than words so tell her that you understand that it takes more than just SAYING you will be true...you must convince her that she is the only girl you will be with. If you are not willing...then don't even bother. Be honest with yourself. If you are out for something that she ain't got then move on and let her live her life and you live yours. But everyone deserves a 2nd chance...if their intentions are true. You know what I mean?
2006-12-05 21:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by grittykitty2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never intended to cheat, then was it an accident that you cheated? A handshake, a kiss, a roll in the hay are all intentional acts. No, you don't deserve a second chance.
2006-12-05 22:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I feel like Once a cheater always a cheater. But then again it kinda depends on exactly what, why, who, and how long you cheated. I think that If you love her then you need that second chance though. You just have to prove to her that you can be trusted (this may take up to 6months)
2006-12-05 21:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont!
Once a cheater, always a cheater. What you reap is what you sow.
You learned, NEVER do it again. But why put that girl through another chance of heartbreak in the future? She cant trust you! Get it? SHE CANT TRUST YOU! And i dont know if you can or will ever have that chance again.
you messed up this one, just dont mess up again. Be commited, and not some "jerk" who cant commit to love.
2006-12-05 21:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man cheated on me i gave him many chances to make it right with me. if we ever meet again, i would try but in a differant aspect of life. he would have to be willing an able to change his ways an ways of living before i'd give him the satisfaction of having me around again. good luck. just know if there's any kind of love there she will forgive you all in due time, an she would still have feelings with love for you. you want her back stop the cheating an all the things you do an get back where you once belonged. in her arms again. it's up to you. what are you gonna do about the situation? good luck.
2006-12-05 22:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question.
If you can sincerely say to yourself that you deserve another chance as no harm intended. then go for it. But if you can't, then it's time to do the right thing and hit the road Jack.
Learn from your mistake.
Darryl S.
2006-12-05 21:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you descided to cheat on her, you should of known she was going to end up broken hearted sooner or later.
i wouldn;t give you a second chance at all. my last boyfriend did the same exact thing to me and i won't even talk to him.
if that girl takes you back, she must be crazy. because once a cheater, always a cheater. also, you probably distroyed all trust you two had.
2006-12-05 21:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by poprocksncoke030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she will never like you again. If you cheated on a girl, she will remember that for the rest of her life. Sorry, try to find someone new or stay with the girl you are with right now.
2006-12-05 21:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by inna2507 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly I think that everyone deserves a second chance... but once you get to asking for a third chance you are pushing your luck. You need to realize that she is very hurt right now and might not be able to get over this very quickly.
2006-12-05 21:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋