2006-12-05 13:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well im going to answer the question and im sorry about the answer. I think he is going to stay with his girlfriend because they are in a relationship and if he was going to leave her he would have already done it, right? He right now is treating you like the icing.
2006-12-05 13:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Michael M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't back out completely but don't talk to him as much or be as flirty... Just tell him that you like him but that you won't commit until he shows that he really cares about you.
If you back out and just say you don't like him anymore, he'll prboly get mad and act like he doesn't need you... Which could be a blessing if you wanna be out of the drama.
2006-12-05 13:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by mike m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well everything is fair in love and war...i say you fight for him, i mean that could be the man of your dreams...your soul mate and if you back off because there is another girl who knows when you'll meet another soul mate, and if there even is one......this would be wrong if he didn't like you and you'd just be in the way of their hapiness but he likes you too, maybe he's just afraid of hurting her feelings by dumping her...i say you make a move and tell her how you feel about him and then you guys can be happy together.....
2006-12-05 13:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you back out...you keep your dignity...he goes back to his gf
if you dont back out...youre a hoe...& he still goes back to his gf
however, theres always the outside chance he'll leave her and go with you...just remember...what comes around goes around. Hes already screwed around on his gf what makes you think he wouldnt screw around on you?
You already know its wrong, why complicate things more
Your decision to go there will affect your life, his life, his gf's life, your friends, her friends, his friends...and anyone else connected to yous
2006-12-05 13:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Truth D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty much in the same position...my advice, back out...and wait. If he does something good. If not, better let it go it's easier.(not immediatly but it's inyour best interest if you get away from him as soon as you can, )
2006-12-05 13:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by xmalalaura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends, what are you backing out of? If you two have been cheating, shame shame. It's not fair to his gf, so he should decide between you and her. If you back out of what I'm assuming your backing out of, he'll probably just stop trying to see you.
2006-12-05 13:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by Snicker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you mess around with him while he is still with his girlfriend than just know that he will cheat on you as well if you are ever his g/f.....besides, what does that say about you if you date someone that is already taken.honey....move on!!! there are sooo many single guys on this planet...there is no need to be with someone that is already attached.
2006-12-05 13:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is checking out other girls when he has a girlfriend, he isn't much of a catch, is he? More like a booby prize!
2006-12-05 13:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends upon how much he likes you, if i really wants you and you back out its possible he'll dump his current gf and go for you. but...if he isnt that interested he'll do one thing: nothing
2006-12-05 13:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let a guy hurt you like this, cause that is exactly what will happen.
2006-12-05 13:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by BB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋