i asked the guy i liked out...but i am always calling him and asking him out!
we talk for long hours..but i am always the one to call...
he says he hopes to talk to me again..but never calls
i called him today and asked him out for friday..he said yes...
why is it only me doing the asking???
2006-12-05 12:57:52 · 10 answers · asked by A Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABSOLUTLEY NOT!!!
Guys love it when girls take the lead. They can be really shy and unsure of themselves. I know from experience. Do you know who asked their fiance out first? ME!!! And it paid off. I knew I liked him but he didn't seem so sure. I had to show him how much fun I could be. And he proposed!!! Don't worry... You go girl!!! Be the daring girl you are.
2006-12-05 13:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Parisian Dancer Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its great that you had the nerve to call a guy and ask him out! I think it takes guts for the girl to make the first move and put her feeling out there!! At the same time it can work against you if you show him too much!! I think you've shown him you're interested by now, now its his turn. I say you go out with him and then leave the rest up to him. Don't call him and see what he does. Hopefully on the date he'll get over a little of his shyness.
2006-12-05 13:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by cacabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy? Some guys' just get tongue tied around girls when it's face to face.
Enjoy your date this Friday, Keep it light and friendly. Maybe you should just let him know (in a subtle way) that you like him and would love to go out with him again and he should call you the next time he is free for a date.
2006-12-05 13:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just might be letting you call all the shots because you seem to be doing all the work. I suggest you stop calling him for like a week or two. Let him call you. It's a two way street. Ask yourself if it's worth being in a one way relationship.
2006-12-05 13:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by mznylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put him to the test and not call him until he calls you. Men like a bit of mystery and if they think they can have you at any moment they dont put any effort in. Be strong and wait for him to call! When he does tell him all the fun things you have been doing and see how that goes. Good Luck :)
2006-12-05 13:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I you want to know the answer bring it up to him in a joking matter. Perhaps there is another reason that you are not aware of. Maybe he is low on cell minutes or something and is just embarassed to tell you. It doesn't hurt to mention it.
2006-12-05 13:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never asked a man out.. Let a man be a man.. you are being too aggressive and that could turn off some men.
I would of never call a man or asks him out because it is not me.. let a man kiss your ***...
2006-12-05 13:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just really nervous and shy about calling you
2006-12-05 13:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by sportzchic09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's not interested or he's a shy guy.
2006-12-05 13:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by KUZIKAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy
2006-12-05 13:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋