my husband and i are staying with his parents.his parents blame us with whatever problems that happen in the house.we try to be reasonable and patience towards them but the more pressure we get.help us,my parents in law are driving us crazy.
2006-12-05 12:16:27 · 7 answers · asked by polaris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They're sending you a message, "get out"!
2006-12-05 12:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.Wise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband are living with his parents, I'm sure it's stressful on everyone in the house.
Obviously, there is a reason why most people get married and get a home of their own. It's just not an ideal situation to live with either person's parents.
If money is the issue as to why you are living with the inlaws, then do what you can to save money, get an extra job, etc.
I don't think there is anything else that you can do, other than move, to make this better.
Good Luck!
2006-12-05 20:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by star22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is there house so right or wrong they are entitled to there feelings. If it is that bad maybe that will be enough incentive to move out. I am sure you are there because you don't have any other options right now. I would make a reasonable plan to move out and share that with your in laws. Maybe they are uptight because they think you are never moving out. If they see a plan and know you are working towards getting your own place then maybe they will back off a little bit.
Good luck!
2006-12-05 20:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to probably do is to try to relieve ur stress, relax, and then try finding a cheap apartment or something you can afford to stay in for a while til you find a house or something, Good Luck!!
2006-12-05 20:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Twinkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurry up and get your own place. Like they say "there's no place like home" oops that was the wizard of oz. ;o) But anyways it can be stressful for all when you all live under the same roof. It's probably their little hint for you guys to get your own place. ;o) good luck to you.
2006-12-05 20:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out!
2006-12-05 20:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you overstayed your welcome? Why are you staying with them? Leave. If you want to be close, rent a hotel room.
2006-12-05 20:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by ~j~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋