I have been married for over 20 years now, I have never had a good relationship with my brother in law, he is an A/H in every aspect of the meaning, althou I have to admit the distant relationship I have now works perfectly, as long as I am not too close to him and his phony second wife, the first one took off with his best friend and I can't blame her, there is no problem and we can get along fine, its been years since I steped on his house, and now for the second year in the row my in laws have planned an entire holiday array of events at this guys house, I refuse to go, my wife is sore with me, but hey, everybody in her family knows the situation, yet instead of having the events in a neutral place they go for the second time with the same B/S, I do not care for me, because I am choosing not to go and I could care less what these people thinks, but I feel kind of sorry for my wife and daughthers, are these A/Hs doing this on purpose to hurt my wife and daughthers?? what should I do?
2006-12-05
12:03:35
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Joe V
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Marriage & Divorce