about two months ago, i was at a coworkers house, and we were drinking and smoking weed and what not. later, he got tired and went up to bed leaving just me and his wife. one thing led to another, and we had some awesome hot sex on the couch - both of us doing everything we could not to make any noise.
then i started feeling bad. then, two weeks ago he gives notice, and i get an email at my work acount from none other than his wife. she said she was glad i didn't say anything, and that the sex was the best she's had in a really long time. she said for a young guy like me to be that into her made her feel like a million bucks. she then basically said goodbye forever, and told me she'd remember me always.
so i kind of felt proud, like i gave it to her better then her husband did. then i felt bad for even thinking it.
any ideas on how i should think of this whole thing?
2006-12-05 12:02:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
kinda bad but its not that bad u should tell her to pick one or the other its not right to the other person at all .
2006-12-05 12:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHAME ON YOU!
you should feel bad...Don't you see that your friend's wife just USED YOU for sex? she just dumped you like a bad habit. Nothing but a wham, bam, thank you ma'am situation right here. Be a real friend & come clean with your co-worker. Let him know what happened, if he's got a cheating wife, then he needs to know! or else....she will continue this with another guy again later in the future.
You did wrong. Messing with married women is OFF LIMITS! especially when it's a co-worker or a friend. Bad Karma is on you now, guaranteed.....this will come back to you. You want a chance to be the better person, then....tell your co-worker what happened. Who cares....he does'nt work there anymore right?
You will do him a favor by letting him know his wife cheated on him. As for you......YOU NEED HELP, your on drugs, smoking weed & what not. I hope you decide one day to become a better person, lay off the drugs & stay out of trouble or else you got NO FUTURE.
2006-12-05 20:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple ways to think about it.
1) You totally disrupted the sanctity of that marriage.
2) You took advantage of that woman at a moment of weakness.
3) You completely stabbed a co-worker in the back.
4) You completely abandoned the decency of society by disreguarding the important vows two people made to each other.
5) You're totally conceited for thinking you're such a great guy for having sex with another man's wife, just because she's a lowlife, just like you.
I think either way you look at it, you're not such the wonderful person. And if you were my friend, co-worker or acquaintance, and you slept with my wife, then you would have to fear for your life if I ever found out.
I would hope this guy never finds out, if I were you.
2006-12-05 20:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends wife is a whore. She spat on the vows of marriage and will probably do it again. You aren't a trustworthy friend and I hope that you used protection when you had sex with her - cause honestly - you could end up with alot more than you bargained for. Go ahead and give yourself a pat on the back ! You slayed your friends wife and now you want to know how to feel? How about this - What goes around - comes around. It could happen to you. I'm sure if someone tried to sleep with the woman you vowed to spend the rest of your life with behind your back you wouldn't feel so hot. Right now, it's good to be the third person because you don't love her, you don't have a strong connection with this friend (if you did you would have kept your penis in your pants) and you want to feel remorse - but don't. I can't even blame you for doing something so immoral - I blame her for not being able to resist temptation and keep her legs closed. God Bless and Good Luck.
2006-12-05 20:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as one of your personal low points. You knew the couple was married. Having sex with the wife was wrong even if she seemed (or even was) willing. You acted in a totally selfish manner, disregarding the marital bond of this couple. You are lucky your co-worker has not yet found out. You should hope he never does find out.
Stick with single women. Certainly you are not so hard up that you have to stoop to sleeping with a married woman.
2006-12-05 20:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I just looked at the other questions that you have asked on Yahoo...and well you may find out:
How does the typical guy react to getting kicked in the nuts?
What are the normal effects of getting kicked in the nuts?
Whats it like to get kicked in the balls?
You seem to have a ball fetish....Soooo....you this is what you do....phone the guy who's WIFE you screwed...tell him what you did....and then you will know the answer to ALL your Yahoo questions.
2006-12-05 20:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is terrible. I don't know what to say other then don't do this again. Do you know why you did this other then the weed and drinking? Please try not to do this again cause if the boss would have found out then this could have been a very bad situation for everyone involved. I know what it feels like to be cheated on and have to say that it has totally ruined my self esteem and my life. Please don't do this again.
2006-12-05 20:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are going to feel guilty about something, don't do it. what is shows me is that you have a conscience and a human side. you feel bad about doing her, but you have no regrets for not being a true friend.i can't tell you how to look at it but you helped his wife become an adulterer. congrats.
2006-12-05 20:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it. Try and just let it go as a fluke. Don't contact her and don't obsess over it. You were obviously just SOMETHING she needed to make herself feel better. Don't read more into it than there really is...if it hadn't been you, it would have been someone else.
2006-12-05 20:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by pirulee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looooooool why are everyones answers sooo angelic>>>??
anyway, no, don't feel guilty, stay coo and don't sweat it. if anything comes up in the future, claim she's crazy and doesn't know what her "high" head was thinking...
and what her husband doesn't know won't hurt him. anyway, believe her when she says you made her feel great and new again....be proud :) and by the way, if she wants to hook up again...don't do it, she'll move on and you won't be stressed :) take it easy...mwah
2006-12-05 20:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around. Don't be surprised if at some time in the future someone does you a bad turn.
When that happens don't say : why me?
2006-12-05 20:05:41 · answer #11 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋