about two months ago, i was at a coworkers house, and we were drinking and smoking weed and what not. later, he got tired and went up to bed leaving just me and his wife. one thing led to another, and we had some awesome hot sex on the couch - both of us doing everything we could not to make any noise.
then i started feeling bad. then, two weeks ago he gives notice, and i get an email at my work acount from none other than his wife. she said she was glad i didn't say anything, and that the sex was the best she's had in a really long time. she said for a young guy like me to be that into her made her feel like a million bucks. she then basically said goodbye forever, and told me she'd remember me always.
so i kind of felt proud, like i gave it to her better then her husband did. then i felt bad for even thinking it.
any ideas on how i should think of this whole thing?
2006-12-05 11:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It already happened and there's nothing you can really do about it now. It's ok to feel bad about it.. it means you have a conscience! I'd just stay quiet about it. It's not your place to tell your friend.. it's up to the wife if she wants to say something.
The only person that will feel better about telling, is you. Don't hurt the others just to make yourself feel better.
2006-12-05 11:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Paige 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should feel guilty. Why dont u put urself in the guy's place and think. It's good that it's over now. U better keep that secrete away from the guy. If i'm the person, i'll kill u and i mean that literally.
2006-12-05 20:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by AlvaDaGansta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't have happened. Put yourself in the husbands shoes. I'm pretty sure, you'd feel pretty shitty, if it happened to you. But what's done is done. Just try to remember, "do unto others as you would have them do unto you".
Since you might never see them again anyway, just consider the experience as a dream. Please don't think of it much. Don't brag about it to others, someone might get interested and tell someone who knows the guy, you know what i mean? If you think you've learned your lesson, you shouldn't kick yourself in the rear anymore. people makes mistakes to learn from 'em. Learn from this experience.
2006-12-05 20:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by erise1013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, and leave her alone. It happened so feel however you like about it , but next time you are with someone married keep it in your pants. MARRIED is off limits, some people get killed that way.
2006-12-05 20:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by harold p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEET DUDE!!! Feel Good! You scored with some dudes wife! You ROCK!!! What a stud.... dumb S@*%
2006-12-05 19:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by M R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude,
Welcome to the club!
2006-12-05 20:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by -Vladimir- 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i get the feeling you're not asking a question but just posted this to brag.
2006-12-05 19:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares? You nailed her. Move on to the next.
2006-12-05 20:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have to tell your co worker. that just isnt right.
2006-12-05 19:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by JOrdan M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont think about it .
2006-12-05 20:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋