Can you notice if a girl likes you just by chatting with her on aim?
i like this girl. she is my neighbor's best friend this weekend i saw her and i liked her at first sight. my neighbor told her i liked her and she said she does know me. so when i went on myspace i sent her a friend request and then asked her if she had an screenname so she replied and gave it to me. so i put her on my buddy list and she signed on and i talked to her for like a good 15 mins. she kept on typing lol for everything i would say. i just want to know what to do, because she goes to a different school than me even though both schools are right next to each other. what should i do ?
2006-12-05 12:42:15 · 13 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she probably doesnt by just typing in lol
sry
2006-12-05 12:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by googoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey EJ...LOL you probably already know means "lots of Laughter"...so look at it this way...you are either a very funny person and are making her laugh....or she just likes to laugh at everything you say because????????...jus think about it, be real and not in fantasy land, because in fantasy land anyone you IM with can seem like they really like you or even be in love you...but keep it real buddy and don't get yourself hurt or set up to be hurt...face to face open communications which include a persons body language, are very important in determing what the other person feels for you...if you rely on IM's for the purpose of meeting and falling for someone, you might as well just fall for the mail box or the tree in your back yard...they don't use emotion...remember that people can be tricky and play off of words in order to rock their world...then when reality hits...you could end up with a pile of rocks on you head...I am a poet so I am incorporating some humor in my answer to you...but this is just so that you can get away from the seriousness that you are experiencing just for a little while and see things from a different perspective...analyze the situation, then you will be able to understand what to do next...hope this helps...good luck to you.
2006-12-05 20:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking her out in a group atmosphere is always safe. You can't tell much by typing. There are alot of "tells" when your in person. Looks, touches, voice inflections, are ways to get a vibe from a girl. And if you really like her and she's not really feeling you yet, you have a chance to catch her eye with real conversation. And in a group atmosphere their isn't alot of pressure on you to be "it". You can get a feel for her personality and how she carries herself.
2006-12-05 20:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Douce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to knoe if she likes u or not, u gotta notice her reactions and body language when u talk to her. If she says lol to everything u say, it's either becuz ure really funny, or she has nuthing else to say. Try hanging out with her more.. somehow, or confess to her. If you confess too soon, she mite reject u becuz she doesnt knoe u that well... but if u confess too late, she mite reject u becuz she thinks of u as a good friend, or becuz she got tired of you. Well, relationships are a complicated spider web. Good luck :)
2006-12-05 20:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bubble T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you should flirt subtly with her at first and see if she picks up the hints. If she appears to be interested, and is apparentely interested after a few days, ask her out. You've got nothing to lose but everything to gain.
2006-12-05 20:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Chels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to another school and you know you like her than ask her out tomorrow. youre not with her at school, so you need to get to know her in person.
and no you cant always tell if a girl likes you on AIM.
2006-12-05 20:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by program dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why dont you tell her the way you feel sometimes girls get intimidated when they know i guy that they talk to is interested and its not like your schools are so far and lol is nothin bad ....just let lose and give it a try
2006-12-05 20:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by rokfairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her number, ask her out, be polite, tell her you think shes SO beautiful, and assure her that you arent a jerk!
2006-12-05 20:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. And then if that works out then ask her to be your gf.
2006-12-05 20:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. she likes you!
The next time you chat, ask for a date!
If she says no, BIG DEAL, you can still be friends.
2006-12-05 20:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by tattie_herbert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋