am relly upset about my boyfriend never calling and asking me out I some times I think am going to kill myself! how do I break it off whithout feeling even worse about breaking his heart?
2006-12-05 12:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel about him not calling and asking you out. If he wasn't even respectable about the whole thing, he really won't even care (that would be a shame) and it doesn't matter what he thinks now, because you've already been hurt. Don't even think about killing yourself, because there are sooooo many other boys out in the world that are probably waiting to meet someone like you.
2006-12-05 12:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you deserve better! A man that will call you to say hi, one that takes you to see a movie and takes you out to eat. I think the guy you have now is at the stage where he thinks that he has you and he can go with out you. Dump him,it might hurt but when you find the guy that opens doors for you and calls you to see how you are doing every day then you wont even think twice about this guy!
2006-12-05 20:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, if he never calls you and asks you out it sounds like it may not mean that much to him. And clearly if that's something that irritates you, that means you would like to spend more time with him. Probably because you like him. Sounds a lot like breaking up with him would be a mistake, mostly for you.
AND consider this (as a guy, i would know) he may just be playing it cool. I don't call my girlfriend as much as she does me. But that doesn't mean i don't like spending time with *cough* banging *cough* her. The point is that you do stuff together, not who arranges it. Your relationship may just have that dynamic.
Finally, if you realise that, no, you really don't like him and you still want to break up with him in a painless way. Do it via text. No, really. It seems like right now he isn't into the relationship that much anyway getting him to meet you and going on a little good bye date and then you looking in his eyes and saying "i don't want to see you anymore" is more likely to burn him. Mostly because it's like saying "here's what our relationship could've been/was; now it's over".
But if I were you, i'd want to twist the knife a little bit. He sounds like a douche.
2006-12-05 20:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kwisatz Haderach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me I've been there . There's no way in god's green earth that it will feel bad . You know why because tell your self he's giving you the signs he wants to break up with you . So then just beat him to the punch
2006-12-05 20:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by beauty queen18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a big heart you have!! Now it's time to harden that thing and get away from this relationship because you are obviously not happy. He will get over it and it's high time you made yourself happy! Good-luck, you deserve it!
2006-12-05 20:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not doing his duty as your man, you shouldn't feel bad at all. Let him know what he needs to do for you and tell him if he can't do it then he needs to hit the curb. Leave it up to him, that way no broken hearts.
2006-12-05 20:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Brento! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he never calls and never asks you out then i think you would not be breaking his heart if you break up with him... maybe he is even asking for it.
2006-12-05 20:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u will be breaking his heart, and most of all, i think he broke ur heart already...
ditch him, go for better guy
2006-12-05 20:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Tai Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u gotta calm down. and think. if u really like him the way u do, u would understand.
2006-12-05 20:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares about that loser? Dump his *** and find someone who can pick up a friggin phone!
2006-12-05 20:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋