and we hardly ever talk. it gets really annoying sometimes, and i did try to talk to him once and it seemed like he didint want to talk to me so i dont try nemore. but i do talk to him in the hall every once in a while. and we text alot, but sometimes i want to talk to HIM! we have a winter dance coming up soon and i dont know what to do? cause yeah, we slow dance, but when we do its sOo boring! cause even then we dont really talk & were right next to each other!!
What should i do cause sometimes i want to break up with him, but then other times i dont? plus he says he likes me, but i dont really think he does.
Help peaz! =>
2006-12-05 12:51:25 · 39 answers · asked by Brutalyhonest 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think hes "cheating" on me, cause at our school its impossible, word spreads fast, trust me it does, so thats not happening
2006-12-05 12:58:06 · update #1
when we text, we say "lyl"(luv you lots)before we stop texting, if that says anything.
2006-12-05 13:01:22 · update #2
i was talking to his friend sam on AIM a little while ago, and we were just talking about stuff and then we got to the subject of my bf, so we were chatting and he said something about him,so i said" its not like he even likes me anyway, so why is it so hard to talk to me??!!" and then he said"he likes you" "trust me, he likes you" and alota ppl say he does, and this girl maddi told me yesterday that he said "hi", so maybe he does??
2006-12-05 13:12:53 · update #3
you just need to tell him "if you can't start talking to me- you're GIRLFRIEND- then i can't be your girlfriend anymore"
2006-12-05 12:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Brento! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer in following your heart . And if you are young , which it sounds like you may be , there are many things to learn about the opposite sex . Do you feel something special when you dance with him ? Do the 2 of you have a special look you give one another ? Can you communicate with each other without saying a word ? Any type of communication is important . It all depends on what you want . How you feel . Is this relationship going any where ? I wish you luck . All men are different . Some talk , but most don't talk too much . Hugs to ya..MJB
2006-12-05 13:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by MJ B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The basis of any long-lasting relationship is communication.
If neither of you can even talk to each other, especially during the beginning of the relationship when most couples talk a LOT because they're getting to know each other, then there's really no chance of this relationship lasting.
You maybe need to try and initiate conversation again and see if you get a different response. If he knows you want to talk to him instead of texting or just saying hi in the hallways, he may put in a little more effort to talk to you in return.
But if there's nothing but awkward silence between you two when you have something to say, then I would say it's time to consider a breakup. :S
2006-12-05 12:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk what do you do? If you are with someone you are not interested in or who is not interested in you except physically, then get out of if. Depending on your age though, if maybe just a thing he is going through. Boys from about 10 to 15 have no idea what to say to girls. If you are one of his first girlfriend he may just need a little patience and effort. Try talking about stuff he is interested in. If that doesn't work for you, I would say breakup and move on.
Good Luck.
2006-12-05 12:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by micheletmoore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this situation what is good is to break up and move on. Not that i influence you to do bad thing. It is the best solution coz there no point continuing the relationship if both of you had no ben taking to each other and be there when you really in need. Try to find someone that willing to share and really love you. Good luck
2006-12-05 13:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you should really think about is only one question:do you love him? If you think you don't and most of the times you do not enjoy being with him, than you shouldn't...it will hurt a bit after the brake-up but it WILL get better, it always does.
But if you have feelings for him, you shold make sure that he feels the same way (because from what you said I think he's not really trying to make this relationship work) and than make him talk, if he doesn't want to..you're better off without him.
hope this helps...good luck!
2006-12-05 12:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by xmalalaura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put up with that. You're obviously not satisfied in the relationship. If he is refusing to actually talk to you, he's not that into you. Let him know that you want to talk more, and that it's a deal breaker for you. If he can't have a simple thing like a conversation with you, maybe he needs to look for someone a little more introverted than you are.
2006-12-05 12:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember them school days...
I think you should flat out start talking to him... don't try, just DO IT! If he fails to say anything interesting back, maybe he's just thinking about something else or not interested in what ur talking about. Find out what he would be interested in talking about... then talk about that. If it still doesn't work, then sweetheart, I'm sorry to say it, but he's hopeless. And it may just be ur suspicions of him not liking you.
I hope everything works out, and if not, don't worry! U'll find another guy!
2006-12-05 12:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by silvr_chyk_serah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same problem as you are right now. In fact, I'm giving my bf the "cold shoulder" right now. My friends told me to make HIM come to ME. Instead of the other way around. It doesn't seem to be working though, lol. Try telling him that you need to be talked to in the relationship. You can't be bf/gf if you don't talk. Tell him you need him to talk to you and if he really likes you, he will talk to you. If you get any better answers or find a way to solve your problem, I would love to hear what solved it.... it's kinda making me depressed that my bf won't talk to me anymore.... and my 4 month is in 3 days! :-(
Good luck!
2006-12-05 12:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by camm300 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the exact thing happened to me!! it was yesterday so i remember perfectly well we had been going out a long time and we never talked and i had to do what my heart said and break up with him and plus if you never talked it will pretty much be the same but if you really love him than maybe you should ask him if he does really like you or what happened? its better to know the truth!
2006-12-05 12:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by beachxbabe826 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their are women I date and there are other special women I become a couple with. The special ones are the ones I can always talk to. They are my best friend. I honestly don't know how or why people don't others date people they can't hang out with and get along??? Good luck.......
2006-12-05 15:40:39 · answer #11 · answered by J Nasty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋