help me please i dont wanna fall for another one of his lies ....?

Question

ok today he told me that he loved me to my face again cause its been a while scence we saw eachother and it made me cray then he esked why i was cryin and if i thought he realy loved me adn i told him no then he got on his knoew and begged me to forgivr him and said he finaly relized he wont find another like me and that he is sorry for all the stuff he put me through he said sorry the last two times do i believe him cause before it didnt seem like he ment it as much as this time is he forrealz this time

wat he did was be a jerk to me and he hit me once but i love him

Answer 1

if u really love him
then give him another chance
guys can act like jerks sumtimes
not knowing their true feelings
there jus buried inside of them
if he acts like it again
then dnt give him nemore chances
forgive him
he got on his knees for u

Answer 2

You have to trust your instincts. Most women can tell when a guy is handing them a load of S**T, and when he is telling the truth.
The worst thing you can do is fall for a lie, as that gives him power to lie again.
And, in todays world, who wants to take a chance that some guy is cheating and catches aids and passes it on to you? Is any guy worth that?
If he really cares about you, you will be able to trust him 100% and you will know it in your heart. If you don't trust him 100%, then give him the boot, you don't need the stress.
I know "love" will make you doubt your decision, but you have to be strong and trust your instincts. Once a cheater, always a cheater is what they say. And another good saying is "there are plenty more fish in the sea"!
Good luck!

Answer 3

No don’t believe him—the guy has lied to you twice before. If I were you I would find someone who actually “loves” you and isn’t wasting your time. Basically, you can tell a person by they’re behavioral pattern and it’s apparent that he’s either playing games or is confused. Either way, it shouldn’t be your problem to deal with, you should move on. If you decide to believe him and stay with him it seems to me that you’ll be dealing with this same issue again (and again).

Answer 4

I have found with people that once a lier always a lier.
Whether it's little white lies to big ones, a lies a lie . If that were me i would get rid of him as i hate liers.
I can't stand it as there is no reason to lie.

Answer 5

If he's been playing a game on you all this time, and it seems that you're going to let him continue. I would give him an ultimatum, either change, or you dump him. Guard your heart, and be ready for the worst, because I do feel that he's going to lie to you again. Best of luck to you............

Answer 6

only you can make that decision of whether or not to believe him. Have you both sat down and really talked things out? Lies are a hard thing to deal with.....if he is asking you if you thought he really loved you.....that would plant a seed of doubt in my mind too but you gotta search your heart and pray

Answer 7

go with your gut feeling on this one. if hes seems remorseful to you then give him another chance but explain to him that if will be like a probation time. if it doesnt feel right then tell him so. most men do not change.

Answer 8

Don't go near him. Say that you want a break! If he continues like that...your relationship would fall apart. Ignore him.

Answer 9

well if he really likes you. like forreal real this time. i guess u can give him another chance. listen to your heart. ask your self. does he deserves another chance? is he gonna change this time? ask your self those q's. well and it always depends what he did that made you sad. and mad at him. well good luck.

Answer 10

Forget him and take an English course.