ok well i am dateing this girl named Julia and then my best friend brandon and me were playing soccer so i told him that i liked her a lot and that me and her were going out. the next day he starts fritting with her and stuff and then he told her to dump me for him and she did cuz she liked him but every week he dumps her and then he goes back with her when he see's me and her talking and me and my best friend just had our friend fight on his and we had never fight for 10 years. now i have no best friend no girl i am a loner i just walk around at ressus and now i am think of being emo like cutting myself cuz no one like me no one ever no's i am alive. and my x best friend tells me saying oh she was going to dump u anyway cuz you cubbie slow not good looking not takeing risk but i am kool so move it loser. and now i am just so mad now help. and i still like Julia
2006-12-05 12:45:43 · 24 answers · asked by Quad M! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One, Julia is a fool. You're too nice for her. Move on please.
Two, your friend is an ***. A sociopath. Avoid him at all costs. And don't believe a word he says.
Three. Time to move on. Join clubs at school, perhaps sports. If you have the courage, flirt with other girls and realize, there are other, more intelligent fish in the sea. If not, just try to make more friends. Cutting yourself is just a temporary fix. Won't solve anything.
2006-12-05 12:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know i kmow how u feel from past experience. don't do anything bad to urself cuz it's not going to put u on the spot. u might still have feeling for her but if she did like she wouldn't have dump u. I say don't make the mistake i made try doing something new don't pay attention try new people make new type of friends whether they where mexicans or black. Keep looking good and show then you handling it real well. one thing u should know they're feeding on ur misery so don't show them ur really hurt. u'll find someone who'll like for who u r. Just remember WHAT GOES AROUND COME BACK AROUND so don't do anything stupid just go on with ur life. don't wish them bad bcause before u know it they'll split in a worse way than she dump u.
2006-12-05 12:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by lana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and patch things up with your friend and let the girl go. The girl is not worth the crap stuck to the bottom of your shoes. She is causeing conflict between you and your friend. Remember , friends are forever , girlfriends come and go. Tell your friend how you felt and ask why he did it? Maybe you can come to an agreement about how you will handle girls in the future. Good luck!!! Bro's before Ho's
2006-12-05 12:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by MW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you did, i would not have stayed there and suffer more. you need to break it off with this girl immediately. about your friend tell him you saw them together and well i mean loosing a friend over a girl is very wrong maybe listen to him and well hope you two can keep your friendship because that is whats important. oh and next time do not introduce your girlfriend to him.
2016-05-22 22:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is so not a tru friend
u should see that
dnt talk to him
u become good friends with julia and who knoes
anithing can happen
if he bothers u again just tell him tht he isnt all that either
he dosnt sound all that gr8
dnt let him bring u down
2006-12-05 12:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by jen kutcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that punk was never your best friend. no one who would treat you like that has any respect for you. cut all ties with him and find a new best friend. hopefully, you'll find a new girl too. but don't start hanging out with either one of those slimeballs again. they're losers. anyone who would treat their friends like that doesn't deserve the time of day.
2006-12-05 12:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Brento! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow seems like you have quite a problem. this "friend" is being a real jerk towards you, and obviously he's not really your friend. you have to try talking to him and work things out. your in a tough situation right now, but you have to keep strong and whatever you do DO NOT TURN TO CUTTING. cutting NEVER helps. its a temporary problem solver. it will do you no good.
2006-12-05 12:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on - find another friend and julia is not that hot anyways.
btw, emo sucks. pick your head up and move on. My old man used to tell me "what doesn't kill you can only make you stronger". You're alive enuff to ask this questions so learn from it and move on.
2006-12-05 12:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is doing this because u might spend more time with ur gf than him, or he is jealous. i would talk 2 him, askin him y he is doing this. if he continues2 do this then end the friendship quietly. if i were u i wouldn't get back with julia, this is just showing that she is untrustworthy.
2006-12-05 12:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by lovelygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... that is kinda what happened to me but you will get over it. and it wont be the only girl that you will like. I got so mad at my friend because he liked the same girl i liked. so he told her and i was mad at him at first but i realized i became better friends with her.. But dont feel like that you will make more friiends trust me and good luck!
2006-12-05 13:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by Calvin K. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋