Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

Husband and I relocated back to his home state, and live in the same city as his two grown daughters. Our birthdays are four days apart, and I doubt that mine will be acknowledged on any level. Even though I've been the one to make sure everyone has gotten gifts on all occasions, I'm pretty much blown off every year. One daughter said she wanted to take my husband to dinner, but did not ask if I had any plans for him nor included me in the invitation. We tolerate each other for his sake, but I have a far better relationship with her sister. Even with our mutual tolerance, I thought she should have at least asked if I had any plans for my husband. Am I wrong to be annoyed? I'm a little irked with my husband that he didn't at least check with me too, but he's a typical guy with iffy judgment when it comes to social situations so I've cut him a little slack...

2006-12-03 06:27:21 · 5 answers · asked by Le_Roche 6 in Family

I am marrying my ex-husband whom is also my best friend again in October 2007. We are not looking to spend a lot of money - just share with our family and friends our love for each other. My ex has recently adopted my daughter(whom is from a relationship I had while we were divorced) and we want to share our new life as a complete family. The problem that I am having is that my mother wants to know why we are just not getting married by a JP and then going to a restaurant to celebrate. We have decided that we want a wedding - A halloween party in reality. Is this wrong? should we just be traditionally low keying our marriage?
I need some advise please

2006-12-03 06:26:53 · 14 answers · asked by missfitts6377 2 in Weddings

A different Love letter .
My Dearest vaishu, Please answer the following questionnaire. For Options (a)10 marks, (b) 5marks and (c) 3 marks.
1) Whenever you enter the class room, your sight always falls on me because:
(a) of love
(b) you couldn't control seeing me
(c) really ... am I doing it?aaaa

2) Whenever professor cracks joke, you laugh and turn and look at me because:
(a) you always like to see me smiling
(b) you are testing whether I like jokes
(c) you are attracted by my smile

3) When you were singing in the class, I entered and immediately you stopped singing because:
(a) you are so coy to sing before me
(b) my presence influenced you
(c) you feared that whether I'll like your song

4) When you were showing your child photo, when I asked for it, you hide it because:
(a) you felt ashamed
(b) you felt uneasy
(c) you don't know

waiting for your answer.

2006-12-03 06:26:14 · 10 answers · asked by harikrishnan R 1 in Friends

It doesnt hurt but it's pretty strong.This usually happens after i have jacked of.It's a very uneasy feeling almost as if the job wasnt well done, as if there was much more left inside me.And it reamined for a very long time.Are there any ways of preventing this as i get really tired after doin it and dont feel like doin it again and also feel guilty so i want to do it in one shot.Any suggestions?

2006-12-03 06:25:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am currently in 12th grade. That's senior high school.
When I was in 9th grade, that's three years back, I started loving a girl. But she never loved me. We reamined friends for a couple of years. When we were about to graduate high school, I "proposed" her. She said "NO".
Now, currently in my class, there is girl whom i like a lot. And she likes me too. The problem is that this girl is my OLD love's cousin. So my OLD love's been telling thing about me to her. Sometimes, she believes them and gets angry with me. Sometimes, she just laughs at the "facts". I know for sure thatshe feels for me. But i dont know how much. Sometimes, it's like we talk all the time in school, then on phone for hours. And sometimes, like right now, we dont talk at all for days.
Besides, she keeps failing her exams... And then i feel bad cause I top in all subjects. I keep calling her during exams. So, wht shud I do? Remain friends or take a risk of proposing her? I've got cyanide if she says NO...

2006-12-03 06:25:44 · 2 answers · asked by funnypratik_007 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had this huge crush on my hot english teacher for the past 3 years...i'm possesed about him, all i think about is him. i know it's illegal that i have absolutely no chance with him, and i wud NEVER EVER make a move or do something stupid.but i just cant get over him.i even chose his subject for my g.c.s.e just so that i can b in his presense.i feel so stupid having such a pointless crush...pls tell me what to do to get over him.i always think what he would be thinking, i blush whenever he talks to me, i feel uncomfortable around him, whereas in front of other teachers i'm perfectly normal and always joking around and talking to other people.in his class i feel...weird...i always notice him in school assemblies and stuff... :-*

2006-12-03 06:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by (xerox-head) 5 in Singles & Dating

So Ive knowen this girl for about 3-5 months now. A few days ago she ask me if I like either of her friends I said "no, I actually really like you more than either of them" She blush and smiled at me and sayed really!?". After that talk we went to this party. At the party she follow me everywhere and was just sitting on my lap or wanting to dance with me or do shots. She call her ex boyfriend friends who wanted to come to the party but instead of her friend talking to her, her ex got on the phone and started just harrassing her. I walk in the room when she was talkin, I ask if everything was ok? She said ya but then said to her ex and O ya to be more detail Iam with chris then she grab my hand and hung up on him. I look really deep into her eyes and I got her up and hug her and said he not worth the time to even talk to. I think I'm going to take it slow and wait before I ask her out but if I meet up with her ex I'm going to kick his *** for treating her like ****? Is that wrong tho?

2006-12-03 06:23:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

met this guy at a party wed night, one thing led to another and we ended up spending most of the evening together. We then went bar hoping till the early hours and he invited me back to his for more drinking. We ended up sitting on his sofa chatting and holding hands till 5am and then he asked me to stay over promising to be a total gentleman. He was, we went straight to sleep I woke up with him holding me and he kissed me for the first time in the morning. He is off on a boys holiday for 3/4 weeks on thurs, but asked for my number when I left and said he would call me when he got back.

1) Is the fact he was a gentleman indicative of him liking me or not being interested
2) Is it likely he just asked for my number to be polite
3) Is the fact he said he was going to phone on his return good indication he is thinking of pursuing this or the polite brush off
4) If he was really interested would he not call/text from hols nothing yet

any other comments?

2006-12-03 06:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

So I get married at 18 to my 17 year old girlfriend. We had a daughter together and tied the know. 9 years and 4 kids later we are still married but not for much longer. She has decided to leave me because she says she is unhappy. I love her with all of my heart and I am not going to fight her on the divorce and I am going to give her whatever she wants. It may sound stupid but I want her to be happy and I am trusting her not to screw me over. My hope is that one day we can be together again. Anyone ever see this happen before or go through it?

2006-12-03 06:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend will not call me i havent talked to him in a whole week on december 3rd so ya i really want to kno mhy he hasnt called me back yet

2006-12-03 06:23:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi im 15. im called ryan... for xmas i wanted my own pc or laptop as im not allowed on msn messenger etc cause it supposedly gives viruses which it so doesnt anyway. i was allowed one for xmas well kinda my dad was for it now my mum says no and im not allowed i wanna run away what do do?

2006-12-03 06:23:06 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex and i hooked up last wed and i havent heard from him since thursday night, whats the deal? he told me that he and the former gf recent split and he reassured me twice about it...why havent i heard from him? we've known each other for 7 yrs so i dont think it was just a booty call...
and, i texted him twice and no reply...
dont say he's an ex for a reason...real info only! thanks.

2006-12-03 06:22:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf just joined the army and was gone to training for about 2 months hes coming home now but his brother told me when he called that he was worried i was cheating on him and i wasnt but when he comes home im scared hes gunna leave me cause he thinks i cheated on him but i really didnt and i love him hes my world i dont know what to do sould talk to him about it or just let everything take it course

2006-12-03 06:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by the one and only 1 in Singles & Dating

"Do you ever consider the consequences of your actions?"

2006-12-03 06:22:12 · 9 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Friends

what do boys expect from girls on a date? im going today so quick answers please!

2006-12-03 06:22:01 · 5 answers · asked by blah b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 06:20:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean, without REALLY hurting him. And I refuse to cheat. It's just not right. (GUYS ONLY PLEASE)

2006-12-03 06:19:56 · 9 answers · asked by Cutieful &. {♥} 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend's boyfriend is like really rude to me and my other friend. When we try and talk to her when he's around, he gets this angry look. :X I don't wanna say anything because they just started dating and because she's my best friend but i want what's best for her.

Advice Needed.

2006-12-03 06:17:14 · 14 answers · asked by Sen10r 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10 years but worked away for 5 of them. My marriage has not been the happiest and i never seen myself being with my wife forever she never shows me any love, we never make love and all she ever does is put me down. But we have children together and i love them. I have never cheated before and never intended to until I met a girl when i was out and have been having an affair for the past 6 months she has shown me love affection and makes me happy. At first we just talked and text each other but feeling began to grow for both of us. My wife has just found out she said she would never let me see the kids again and she would hurt me as much as i have hurt her but now she has said she wants to try for the kids! But will it work would i be doing the right thing when i believe my heart is somewhere else.

2006-12-03 06:16:52 · 22 answers · asked by whatdoiwant?????? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't possibly speculate the thought of speaking to her like someone who i really trust. I know it takes time in order to build trust, but in the past as a little kid for example, she treated me with insults,disrespect,and when she promised something she broked the promise(s). I don't expect perfection.In my mind i estimate that im still healing from this issue, but i know myself and most likely it will take a very long while.Though i admit it that she is a very strong willed women and has the capacity of behaving nicely. I'm not trying to place her in the position of the corrupt person. Please, if ya'll have any input i'll greatly appreciated. Thank you.

2006-12-03 06:16:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I miss the part when my siblings were so cute and little. And all the children games we used to play together.

2006-12-03 06:16:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would you date a person 5'10 and 25 years old. I'm mixed or brown w/e u wanna say. I live in Ottawa moving to New York and i'm a sergon.

2006-12-03 06:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by Nick 2 in Friends

2006-12-03 06:13:44 · 17 answers · asked by Michael H 1 in Friends

i have already posted this question b4, but didnt get enough answers! PLEASE HELP! was upbrought in a traditional family, so it is logical i always had a dream to stay pure till the marriage. I find it to be very romantic and nice to shiver from nervousness in my husband's arms and so on. However, i was riding a horse in my childhood, i start my day with several miles on a gym bike and so on. So it is a great chance that all these physical activities have broken my hymen. It would a complete desaster for me, cause i want the man i will be with to understand that i saved myself in the sake of love, even though sometimes it is not an easy task to manage to control urself. So i never allow myself anything, but still there is a chance that because of this physical activities the man i will be with will not understand that i never had anything before. I wanna know in advance if the sacred thing is still there or not, but dont know how can i know this. thx.

2006-12-03 06:12:15 · 21 answers · asked by JUSTGIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy and i have liked him on and off since the summer of my 8th grade year going into 9th grade i am now in 10th grade and i have a bf when i liked him so i didnt like him for long at allthen one of my best friends starts to like him a few days after i liked him (no one knew that i liked him) i dated my bf for a year and 1 months we broke up this past august and they were still going out ( my best friend and this kid) they dated for 8 months he said that he liked this other girl when he didnt he just hadnt liked my friend for the past 2 mos of thier dating (they broke up 3 days ago) and i was talking to him online and he told me that he liked me that day i saw him (he was a new kid) and when i saw him and liked him too and now we are dating since yesterday and i really want to date him cause i really like him but i dont cause i dont want to lose my best friend (she likes someone else now too) and i just dont know what to do or when would be the right time to tell her

2006-12-03 06:11:38 · 22 answers · asked by softballchick1220456 1 in Singles & Dating

I know the obvious answer would be church, but the one I've been going to has only a small Bible study group and know singles events that I am aware of. Should I try another church, or are there other avenues to take? Any good personals sites or places to go in Oklahoma City?

2006-12-03 06:09:42 · 13 answers · asked by Jdude 2 in Singles & Dating

im in the 10th grade and everytime i hang with the boys they alsways tell me their going to "rape me" or "one day im going to hang out with them and end up not being a virgin anymore." some of them walk down the halls and call me their baby mama. my ex said that he was going to malest me. And one boy called me at 12 o'clock in the morning and asked me what i had on!

what should i do♥

2006-12-03 06:08:08 · 26 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

like......"i just want to be in his arms..." stuff like that
plzzzz and thank you =]

2006-12-03 06:07:50 · 5 answers · asked by britt 1 in Singles & Dating

Should i tell her we are dating or just keep it on the down low?This could be strange?I dont want things to get akward?I am really compatibal personality wise and emotionally with her brother and feel he might be the guy i end up with possibly marrying. Problem is they dont get along.We are all in college but we commute to school and their bedrooms are next too each other.

2006-12-03 06:07:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she also love me as much i... but we have never had anything physically ... ya we talked abt it but we havent done anything but now we r thinking abt kiss to do... just that and we have decide we will not going to move further ...and in future she want me to marry someone else... bcoz she cant as she is my cousin and she also hate sex so she cant do that .. but we love each other so much but bcoz of these problems she want .................................... ..beyond this is it ok to kiss each other on lips ??? plz only serious answer its not a joke

2006-12-03 06:07:24 · 19 answers · asked by david g 1 in Friends