Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

I want to give my dad a hug and tell him that I love him, but I'm afraid of how he will react or he won't react the way I want him to. He never says I love you and he hasn't given me a hug in years...my dad is 56 and I'm 29. I feel the need to know he loves me and I want to hear it and give him a big hug. I'm feeling low confidence right now and feel comfortable around everyone in my family with the exception of my dad. Its weird because this just started happening. I don't know if I notice how much of a complainer he is because my self-esteem is low right now, but it's putting me down. He can be very grouchy and serious. On the otherhand, it's not like he doesn't love me because last night he called me to let me know a t.v. show I liked was on and he asked me how I was doing this morning. Has my mind created a huge mess that parts of me thinks he's disappointed in me and I'm intimidated by him and our relationship will never be the same again? Should I hug him or what do I do?

2006-12-03 06:07:18 · 19 answers · asked by qrazigirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this girl for 3 weeks. I keep asking her why she likes me and she responds with " i dunno". What should i do?

2006-12-03 06:06:54 · 6 answers · asked by Nick 2 in Singles & Dating

all the guys seem to think in just a "dude" in there gang how can i change that?

2006-12-03 06:06:28 · 6 answers · asked by alex c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 06:05:18 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well...... i just realised that every body has got A BF/GF but me most of my mates have got but me how can i find the perect bf...

2006-12-03 06:05:14 · 8 answers · asked by **pure**brunnette** 1 in Singles & Dating

you see that i am giving you the BIRD

2006-12-03 06:04:37 · 13 answers · asked by Betty 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you think if a guy you have a crush on talk to you on one day, and see you the next day and won't say anything?

2006-12-03 06:04:09 · 3 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is HOT!!!!!!!! But he flirts a lot with girls. He is popular and I am popular too. So what should I do!!!!! I am a nervous wreck.

2006-12-03 06:02:50 · 16 answers · asked by Baller21 1 in Friends

ive finely decided to tell my bf of 4 yrs to leave,he takes off every week end and drinks,ive put up with it long enough,i dont want to talk to him about it anymore i just want to be able to play a song and have that say it all,any ideas???

2006-12-03 06:02:49 · 17 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my old bf likes me again and i think i like him a ittle, but also this other guy likes me and he is really hot and he is nice. But here is the thing I think i like both of them. How can I pck? Also my ex bf has already broke my heart once and I have like this other dude before. WHo should i pick? HELP??????????????????

2006-12-03 06:02:39 · 18 answers · asked by MF22 Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Should she clean the house, take care of the kids and have a hot meal waiting for her man at the end of his workday?

Just wondering what you all think.





Note to Yahoo Question police: this is not a veiled insult to woman. It's just a question.

2006-12-03 06:02:19 · 25 answers · asked by J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What drives you to sexually molest a girl?? What drives you to rape a girl?? Why would you ever do this??
I have had both happen to me and want to know what they were thinking.

2006-12-03 06:01:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have to be honest I need to make some money and even though she is hot and I'd like to play with her I'd rather sue her for money.

2006-12-03 06:01:29 · 28 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Singles & Dating

They keep snapping my pictures and they yell "Say Cheese!!" And my opposable thumbs ache from all of the autographs.

2006-12-03 06:00:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so ive been involved with this guy for 3 months but ive known him for almost a year now as friends... we're getting a little bit serious and im at a loss as to what to get him for christmas... help!

2006-12-03 06:00:35 · 10 answers · asked by skyy 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a pretty looking married lady ,there was a coworker with me who was about 46 yrs.old lady she used to praise me a lot about the way i look and dress up and so on. that lady is unsatisfied at home ,that appears from her talks. she always touches me and tries to look into my eyes .she is very outspoken type while i am reserve type person. she has now been transferred to other branch i always reciprocated her feelings in a friendly way but she seems to have some other intentions. she asks me about my relations with my husband etc. she also told me to freak out and meet her outside the workplace sometimes. the way she looksat me is very awkard and that too a long stare. she called me dear also and pretty etc... one day she kept her hand on my shoulder and stood in a relaxing way trying to know my feelings .one day while talking generally i told her to be a little cool and not so exicted she said i am cool only in bed looking toward smy breasts.. now when she has gone i am missing her

2006-12-03 06:00:31 · 4 answers · asked by ragini v 1 in Singles & Dating

im in the 10th grade and everytime i hang with the boys they alsways tell me their going to "rape me" or "one day im going to hang out with them and end up not being a virgin anymore." some of them walk down the halls and call me their baby mama. my ex said that he was going to malest me. And one boy called me at 12 o'clock in the morning and asked me what i had on!

I was talking to my older sister about this and she said that im must be very attractive and i should be happy that im getting plenty of attention from guys. what should i do♥

2006-12-03 06:00:11 · 10 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, i'm also starting to notice why black men treat white women as a trophie and black women like slu.ts and gold diggers. it is because of all the music videos saying things like shake that money maker, and i found you miss new booty. and they are taking us black women as slu.t that they use to when they want sex and that we only want money, and i'm sick of it, how come it seems like a white man will treat a black women better?

2006-12-03 06:00:07 · 9 answers · asked by Kelly T 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 05:59:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i miss my x but he is getting maredy and i still love him

2006-12-03 05:59:21 · 4 answers · asked by love kills 1 in Singles & Dating

A special sentence that both of u identified in common.

2006-12-03 05:57:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was friends with this guy - he asked me out and cus i like him i said yes! But like a week later i told him i thought it would be better if we were just friends! thing is, now I really miss him. we haven't talked since! I really regret breaking up with him! I don't even know why i did it - he was like my first boyfriend and i guess i just paniced!
I know i was his first girlfriend too - When i said i would go out with him, he said it was the best day of his life!
I miss him so much - I guess i just wanna know that if you've liked someone for ages then go out with them, and then break up - would you automatically not 'fancy' them anymore - or could there possibly be a chance he still likes me!
I do really like him - do you think there's any way he would ever like me again - is sending him a text a reeeeally bad idea?

2006-12-03 05:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

When actually it was someone else who should get the credit...

2006-12-03 05:57:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 05:57:22 · 25 answers · asked by lucas1 1 in Friends

I am going to get married next September and are planning to have a somewhat traditional Mexican wedding with some minor differences. My fiancee and I plan to buy our wedding rings and have the "padrinos de anillos" present the rings at the alter. We were planning on asking his brother and sister-in-law. My godmother called my mom saying they way want to give me the wedding rings. I want to say no but my parents insist that it wouldn't be right to say no because their feelings would be hurt. There's another catch to the story, back in the 80's my godfather "mishandled" some of my dad's money. We think he stole it but since no one wants to bring it up its always been an issue. I don't know if they really want to give me the rings because I am their goddaughter or because they want to "pay back" some of that money in a sense. I really don't know what to do. I just want to be able to pick my own rings. I wouldn't want to look at them knowing there's that story behind it...

2006-12-03 05:57:03 · 3 answers · asked by x_y_z_012 5 in Weddings

My best friend Mark is in a really bad situation right now and I'm worried for him. Him and his girlfriend Sarah were deeply in love. They were going to be engaged after being together for four years. However, Sarah suffered from clinical depression and often threatened to commit suicide from problems with her family life. The other thing that kept her going was Mark.

Last month, she finally did it. She hung herself at home and her parents found her later. Like most suicides, she had written a death note. On the part that was addressed to Mark, it said something along the lines of "I promised you that I could handle this thing called life, but I couldn't. I love you Mark, and if you truly love me like you said you do, I know I'll see you on the otherside soon."

Sarah had asked Mark to commit suicide as well. I've been comforting him, but I don't know how much longer I can do it. He's currently seeking professional help. If you were Mark, what would you do? What can I do to help him?

2006-12-03 05:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by DSpite 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 05:56:41 · 6 answers · asked by George S 1 in Singles & Dating

do u like ur girls to be sticks..or to have some..shape. like wat is the average weight that ud want her to be?

2006-12-03 05:56:34 · 10 answers · asked by omgew. 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a bit of Christmas fever today...tinged with souped up lively and sensual energy ...from the weird weather and the full moon upon us no doubt...what fever do you have?....

2006-12-03 05:55:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there a song that just symbolizes you and your mate? Or a song that was special when you were first together?

Mine is "I Love You" by Faith Evans (R&B) because it says it all.

2006-12-03 05:55:42 · 14 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce