What drives you to sexually molest a girl?? What drives you to rape a girl?? Why would you ever do this??
I have had both happen to me and want to know what they were thinking.
2006-12-03 06:01:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rape and molestation is NOT about sex!!!!
It is more about power, control, and domination issues. It is about anxiety ans inadequacy issues that manifest as the need to dominate and control others. The action releived the buildup of anxiety and compensates for their feelings if inadequacy by giving them a temporary fix of a false sense or power.
It is in the category of narcissistic personality disorders. Narcissistic people think that the world orbits them and that their needs and desires trump everyone else's. They cannot empathize or connect with others, because it is all about them. And they do not recognize the rights, dignity, or worth of others. They feel that they are entitled to do to anyone what they wish, regardless of what that person wants.
You should seek counseling because the perpetrator wins if you are forever scarred and forever carry baggage from it. Counseling will help you get on with your life.
2006-12-03 06:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you look for an answer?
Why ask guys something that the majority of guys don't do?
Why don't you just ask they guys who raped/molested you?
I think that you are full of it and even if you aren't, you are definitely in the wrong place.
2006-12-03 14:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Umm, i know this is probably not the answer you are looking for, but i dont think yahoo answers is the place to get a question like this answered. Go get some help, talk to your teachers, advisors, parents, just dont bottle it up.
2006-12-03 14:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, very sorry for what had happend, it is the strong drive that makes the do so
2006-12-03 14:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by James_Bond 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have seen about three post like this, and you need to stop posting this question and tell your mother/father! or the school principal if you keep quiet about it the boy will contiune to do this and rape you! report it quickly~
2006-12-03 14:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly T 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's because they can't find a girl they are so depressed.
2006-12-03 14:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think ur too hot 2 handle dear
2006-12-03 14:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by alone l 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a small minority of guys that do this.
2006-12-03 14:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by bloodsanctum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋