im in the 10th grade and everytime i hang with the boys they alsways tell me their going to "rape me" or "one day im going to hang out with them and end up not being a virgin anymore." some of them walk down the halls and call me their baby mama. my ex said that he was going to malest me. And one boy called me at 12 o'clock in the morning and asked me what i had on!
I was talking to my older sister about this and she said that im must be very attractive and i should be happy that im getting plenty of attention from guys. what should i do♥
2006-12-03 06:00:11 · 10 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the guy that called you is kind of scary and about your ex he's has some issues. if you dont feel uncomfortable with them tellin you this stuff then ask them to stop or just stop hangin around them as much. if you ask them to stop and they dont want to and you really want them to stop then tell someone who you trust and that can help you with it. they could be just jokin with you but its still not right if you dont like it then say something.
2006-12-03 06:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad to think that your sister honestly THINKS that these are compliments! You probably are very good looking, but that does not give those boys the right to say certain words to you. "Rape", "molest" and the threat of hanging out and making you lose your virginity. THAT is NOT acceptable! That scarey! These boys have no clue what they are really doing or saying. You might want to ask them if they would like their younger sister talked to that way. Keep your head up...you are good looking..you don't need their approval. Hold your ground. It's a gift that you will give someone that you truely love. Good luck
2006-12-03 14:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should talk 2 a school counselor or peer. This is not the kind of
attention U should b happy getting. Even if they aren't serious,
it's beyond rude. Take care of urself n use caution if U find urself
alone.
2006-12-03 15:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by IAM2INSANE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys just want your attention or they want more than that but of the time guys are a waste of time. so they really need to get a life they need to find another girl and go after them. Ask your parents or someone older but never ask a sibling they are stupid.
kelc
2006-12-03 15:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by kelci a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously it isn't upsetting/offending you in any kind of way...you don't really seem upset to me. Are you sure aren't secretly enjoying those sick type of compliments inside? Otherwise, you'd tell them to stop, don't answer the phone for them, tell someone of higher power at your school, or quit hanging around with these type of people all together.
2006-12-03 14:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by awesome 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn some self-defense like karate just in case they try something
2006-12-03 16:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist see if they are just playing around if not stop hangingout wit them
2006-12-03 14:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by kanicarol100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf~personally i would find it very demeaning that this was being said to me or about me...why do you allow them to treat you as such??
2006-12-03 15:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by curious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone and slap your stupid sister
2006-12-03 14:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just a way of boys saying they want to f#$k girl you cool you probably just a DYME(youre cute) and dudes is really figure dealing you(liking what they see) you cool girl!!! do yo damn thang aw s$#t!!!!!!!
2006-12-03 14:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by cinn*a*bunn 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋