please help?

Question

my bf just joined the army and was gone to training for about 2 months hes coming home now but his brother told me when he called that he was worried i was cheating on him and i wasnt but when he comes home im scared hes gunna leave me cause he thinks i cheated on him but i really didnt and i love him hes my world i dont know what to do sould talk to him about it or just let everything take it course

Answer 1

Things will of course take their course, and if he doesn't believe you what kind of relationship will you have? :o(

Answer 2

I used to date a guy that was in the Army and was stationed in Iraq. It is normal for them to worry about what their significant others are doing while they are gone, especially when they are away for any amount of time. Guys tend to be insecure anyway, and when they are not around to know what is really going on, they tend to imagine the worst. The best thing that you can do is talk to him, reassure him that he is the one that you love and that you would never cheat on him or do anything to hurt him. Once he is home and you show him how much you care and you reassure him, things will work out. Do not approach the subject in a confrontational manner or he will think that you are being defensive because you did cheat on him. If after you do all this and he still doesn't believe you, then move on. That isn't the kind of relationship you want to be in. Do you want to spend the rest of your life explaining every move?

Answer 3

Of course you should talk to him! Ask him why he thinks you are cheating on him and then say well, I'm NOT! Don't be afraid, since you didn't do anything wrong, so just confront him.

Answer 4

My opinion is that u talk to him! If he really thinks that u should talk to him and tell him why he thinks that and tell him that u havent cheated on him and everything that u told us thats hes ur world and u love him!

Answer 5

hes insecure honey,dont worry be yourself,dont talk 2 brothe 2 much either.