Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

He wants 2 meet in a hotel and i want to meet at a public place am i wrong for this and is 2 yrs enough time to know someone
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2006-11-30 02:45:19 · 22 answers · asked by southern_lady_1951 1 in Friends

2006-11-30 02:45:04 · 21 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Family

i am getting married in exactly 4 weeks. it is an arranged marriage & i know her since 3 1/2 months. i think more or less all day long whether things will be fine once we are married.
we are in a long-term r'ship now & have only met once & spend around 2 days together.initially we were in love, but then the love went (from her part). she tells me that once we are married she willlove me probably. but at the moment i am thinking about how this marriage will be all day long.i am one of the best people at work but now i am much the worst performer in work since the last 1 month or so. am i taking too much tension? is it true that mostly love will develop mainly after marriage in an arranged marriage?
me & girl we like each other & we accept each other but r still far away from saying we love each other. (atleast from her part) she had told me stuff initially like she'll be there 4 me till death & try her best to make me happy,etc. but she also says that at the moment she doesnt luv me

2006-11-30 02:44:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

got pregnant and we decided to give him up for adoption, even though his father said what he wanted most in the word was a family. we were not emotionally or financially ready. well, he left me last month for his ex girlfriend that he already had a kid with (i think a very big reason is because of what i described above). i had my baby a week ago, but the adoptive family backed out because he had a stroke. he's probably going to have some kind of lasting problem, but it's too early to tell now. anyway, i've been at the hospital every day and now i don't want to give him up, but i honestly don't think i can handle it by myself. i feel like i'm being selfish but i don't know what to do. and his father wants nothing to do with him, but that doesn't matter to me. either way it's going to be hard, whether i keep him or not, and i know in my head i should give him to someone who can take care of him better, but in my heart, i can't let him go. what do i do?

2006-11-30 02:44:46 · 9 answers · asked by pikachu 5 in Family

i keep on thinking of having sex all the time everytime with somone new person and usually one perticular fren who is just a friend, do ihave to see a therapist

2006-11-30 02:44:31 · 23 answers · asked by shibani sharma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been going out with a really sweet-natured guy for a few months (we've already been friends for quite some time and have lots of fun together), but he is clearly becoming more attached to me than I to him.

I'm really miserable about it as I had a 'Talk' with him yesterday, and have moreorless come to the conclusion that we ought to 'just be friends' (I hate that phrase!), as I don't want to give him false hope and make things worse in the long run.

I don't like feeling that I've somehow let him down. Am I doing the right thing?

2006-11-30 02:44:28 · 27 answers · asked by SilverSongster 4 in Singles & Dating

I have tried all ways and means to keep my husband happy. Alhtough I am the only child, I have gone againt my parents wishes, converted from my relegion for him, manage the house and his family inspite of a high presure job.. the list is endless. I have caught him cheating on me for the 6th time now. Should I divorce him??

2006-11-30 02:44:14 · 26 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-30 02:44:00 · 11 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Family

Readers, please be informed that I am from a very conservative place, so getting a girl to go out on a date with you is not as easy as in the western world. Just assume she is the most shy person on earth. Thanks for your time. Read on....

Hello ,

This is , your colleague. How are you doing? First of all, I wish to tell you that I am truly sorry if you feel this email to be an invasion of privacy, and I would like you to accept my sincere apologies. Secondly, I want you to know that I have not resorted to any unfair means to get your personal email address. I found your email address in the official email sent earlier today. If you are comfortable so far, please read on....

I am in since 6th Nov. for a training program. I felt I should talk to you before I came here which is why I asked you if you would like to have coffee with me.

2006-11-30 02:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to a wife swapping party, ended up with a pair of cricket pads, a pool cue& a gold fish in a bag, was i ripped off

2006-11-30 02:43:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

God Bless and Be Safe:)

2006-11-30 02:41:43 · 20 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

She is much sophisticated In terms of sports, education. And over weekend the conversation can last till 3 or 4am.

She is

2006-11-30 02:41:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always thought that, for example, if a married man cheats on his wife with a woman that otherwise has no boyfriend, husband, etc, that the single woman should still be considered a "cheater". I've heard other people say it's only the person in a preexisting relationship to begin with should be called the cheater. What do you think?

2006-11-30 02:41:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I`ve been married for ten years but I always have a fantasy to see my wife make love with other guys, but my wife is like church person and also very shy, somettimes i joke with her about seeing her go out with other guy but seems she wont like it at first. I dont know how to make her say yes. Please help me out.

2006-11-30 02:41:23 · 9 answers · asked by elbuenito2003 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 02:41:12 · 22 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Family

My Dad is always saying "divorce is a waste of time, anyone i know who has seperated has married someone else who is the very same, albeit a bit younger or something a bit different but more or less the same person"

2006-11-30 02:41:06 · 10 answers · asked by nik 28 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-30 02:39:30 · 4 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend which i use to like a 1 ago and now i don't i just think he is cute but he is going out with somebody already for like 11 months and like 3 days ago he told me he has feeling for me that he is still going out his girlfriend but still has feelings for me. What should i do?

2006-11-30 02:38:40 · 11 answers · asked by Claudia C 1 in Friends

How can we ever erase the memories? Does it stay with us forever and ever??

2006-11-30 02:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmine SM 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my b/f for 5 years, I love him dearly. I will not just leave and waste the last 5 yrs of my life cuz of my kids. I love them too of course, but they do take advantage of me. My b/f and I have not lived together yet (I know...hard to believe!) but in the next month we will be. He has started to nit-pick me about EVERYTHING lately, mostly about my parenting. He thinks my kids walk all over me and treat me like their slave. Should I be telling him to mind his own f***ing business and worry about his own kids and the way their mother is bringing them up? Or should I NOT rock the boat, and suddenly do it his way and become a monster to my children? They know it's cuz of him now everytime I reprimand them and they are starting to seriously resent him for it. How are we supposed to live happily ever after????

2006-11-30 02:38:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-30 02:37:56 · 16 answers · asked by nikkinoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this boyfriend we are on a break right now because he says he cant trust me. I have never done anything wrong but he always thinks i am hiding something. Because of this i have had to give up friends and stop talking to guys...even tho i have no physical or emotional attraction to them. He always checks my text messages and my calls and insists i delete ones from other guys. He often tells me that i cant talk to guys if they like me or think i am attractive. It seems like he calls me or texts me every ten minutes to check on me and ask me what i am doing or who i am with, when i tell him he says that i am lying.He has made me stop doing things that i used to even tho he does them, he also tells me that if i do them again that he wont talk to me anymore. I hate how he controls me but i love him and i want him to understand that he is. People(other than myself) have told him that he is but he denies it and gets offended. how can i get him to see that he is controlling?

2006-11-30 02:37:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because i like her and i think she likes me, and we would definately get on well with each other. Help please?

2006-11-30 02:37:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl, I asked her out once and she laughed at me. So me and my friend sneaked into the girls dressing room during gym class and broke into her locker. We found some cool stuff, some used underwear and skirts. So I was thinking I could black mail her. If she won't go out with me i'll post the undies with a picture of her on the main board so everyone can see.

2006-11-30 02:36:27 · 13 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for three years. we have had the best time of our lives together. she said to me at the weekend that she didnt want to b in this relationship anymore. she says she still loves me and that i am the person she wants to spend the rest of her life with!! my heart is broke and i cant think of nothing else but her. we have been having petty arguments lately and she recieved some news lately that means she cant have babies. she is 21 and im 24! what can i do to convince her to stay together?? i feel as if it is the final curtain for us!

2006-11-30 02:36:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have been seeing this guy for about a month. He calls me every day. I have met his entire family. I have spent the night at his house. He treats me like a girlfriend - but we haven't "labelled" the relationship. I have NEVER had to bring that up before with any of my exes....they've all brought up the gf/bf idea in some way. I have no clue what we are or what I should do. Guys' advice is SERIOUSLY appreciated!!!

2006-11-30 02:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by M K 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 02:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by chris2006 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 02:35:14 · 11 answers · asked by Dana 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband when drinking talks about his x wife how she wanted the divorce and he didnt ,He told me she got into drugs! Well I happen to find a website on court records and wow! The x after there divorce was jailed for 1st degree robbery and burglery ect.and had tons stuff on her record.They were only married 3 yrs.I didnt tell him I saw her record Im just shocked ! Why would he go on about her still?

2006-11-30 02:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

just let me get this all out. so dont give me crap. OMGOOOOSH! o crap. i swear, i thought this would enver happen to me, at least not..now. this guy and i have been GREAT friends for a yr. we have both just announced to eachother that we like eachother. i have enver had a guy tell me that beafor. and no i am not 9 10 or 11 or 12 or 13.....and so on. so cut the crap/ i am just so happy. i am not confused bout what to do cause were not weirdaroung eachother just cause we told eachother how we feel. ok so we r havin our math final soon and i was talkin about how i was so worried about it and he took mmy hand and said you'll do fine, (i looked at him like he waas crazy) and he said,i know you will. AW. yay. ok. its alll out.!

2006-11-30 02:34:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family