Readers, please be informed that I am from a very conservative place, so getting a girl to go out on a date with you is not as easy as in the western world. Just assume she is the most shy person on earth. Thanks for your time. Read on....
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2006-11-30 02:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you prefer milk to coffee, so, perhaps my question should have been, 'Would you like to have a cup of milk with me?'. Just kidding :-)
I dont know if you were worried that I would blurt something inappropriate, but I consider myself a very mature person and would never do or say anything that would put either of us in an embarrassing situation. Like I told you, my sole intentions were just to get to know you better and nothing else. I was not disappointed that you decided not to go for coffee with me, but I was disappointed because you chose to not even answer my question. You could have simply come and told me that you would not like to have a drink with me. All the same, I somehow got a feeling [and I could be totally wrong] that you were not comfortable talking to me within the office, so I thought I should try a different medium, and hence this mail.
2006-11-30 02:43:44 · update #1
On the 4th of Nov. [a Saturday] I came to office to gather some documents for the training program and I was surpised to see you in office because I thought you worked Monday to Friday.
I was contemplating if I should use that opportunity to tell you that I would be in
This mail is getting too long, so I will wrap it up here. You may choose to reply with whatever you feel or think. I assure you, I will take no offence and will certainly not harbour any hard feelings. I also wish to reiterate that if you choose not to reply, I shall whole-heartedly respect your decision and you have my word, I will not trouble you any further.
Take Care,
2006-11-30 02:44:02 · update #2
It sounds a little creepy....stalkerish even
2006-11-30 02:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. in the beginning that's some distance to long. you do no longer choose to bore her to dying!! properly, I trust the type you worded it. it makes you look sensible (you probable are) that's a solid factor. in basic terms use lots of the psychological words that are already in there, and say some thing short. to illustrate "hi i'm sorry that this might experience like i'm invading your privateness yet i'm no longer I in basic terms choose to be responsive to you." or some thing like that because of the fact i did no longer even choose to study maximum of it yet i replaced into very inspired with the psychological words in there although keep that up. women choose a clever guy who will love and carry them. So i'm hoping i helped. Bye!!!
2016-12-13 17:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a lot wrong with this letter. Even though you may be trying to establish a connection with this woman you make several references to her whereabouts and what she is doing..it's almost like you are stalking her..I don't blame her for not answering. Don't come on so strong!
2006-11-30 02:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by lost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't care what part of the world (or planet!) you come from, this sounds more like a business proposition than a 'love letter.' come on, it's so simple! all you have to do is walk up to the girl, tell her your name and how you know her, and ask her out to dinner (or coffee or milk or...). women like men who take initiative, and approach them directly. have some confidence! smile! don't be so formal! and refrain from sending emails! how immature! emails are for wusses, trust me. take the bull by the horns, k? good luck! ;-)
2006-11-30 02:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really sound like a stalker. If I got a letter like that, I wouldn't respond to it either and I would make a wide berth of the person who sent it.
2006-11-30 02:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some advice... stop sending her email.Send her flowers go introduce yourself, Just be friends with her for now if you can.Make her smile that works she would always want more laughter just don't make lame jokes.Well if you became friendly with each other she might have that coffee with you. You have nothing too lose just do it.
2006-11-30 02:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by CatScratch 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your letter is very insecure and long. You should have just made it short and sweet because now it just seems like you are obsessed or crazy.
2006-11-30 02:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this letter is way too long and its full of i donno what to call it....its boring too. she cant tell what u want from it...if u like her then be straight up about it and stop sending her these weird letters.....k, now to my point...if someone doesnt respond to an email in any kind of way or whatever after some time it simply means they DO NOT CARE..ok?
2006-11-30 02:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont see nothing wrong with your letter you sure she even gotten the first one maybe she is being hard to get.
2006-11-30 02:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by jody n 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
awww!! thats a really nice note, but i just think she dont feel the same as you do towards her, as you said she is shy, so she probably dont even know what to write!!
i hope im wrong and she replies!! :o)
2006-11-30 02:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋