I`ve been married for ten years but I always have a fantasy to see my wife make love with other guys, but my wife is like church person and also very shy, somettimes i joke with her about seeing her go out with other guy but seems she wont like it at first. I dont know how to make her say yes. Please help me out.
2006-11-30 02:41:23 · 9 answers · asked by elbuenito2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wont say yes....if you wanted a woman that would share herself, that's the type of woman you should have married.
2006-11-30 02:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone, being a church goer, chances are she's not going to be willing to do it ever, and if she does, it'll destroy your marriage because she'll never forgive you for making her do it. By the way, that's a really weird fantasy... I can understand fantasies involving two women but this is a new one...
2006-11-30 02:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop forcing her to do something she clearly doesn't want to do. It's just a fantasy, get over it. I have a fantasy of owning a mustang and having a hot tub full of money, but i doubt that's going to happen. If she does do it, she's going to resent you later and in the end it'll ruin your marriage.
2006-11-30 03:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by silllyfox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely cant push her, that will end it for sure. If you are serious and are willing to live with the consequences, you need to find willing guys that you think she will find attractive to seduce her. She will eventually bite or not, give it a time frame and then move on.
2006-12-03 10:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, did I stumble on the Swinger's site by mistake? Can someone direct me back to Yahoo Answers?
2006-11-30 02:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Quest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not going to happen. If your gonna swing, she's gotta be into it. Just be honest and tell her your fantasies.
2006-11-30 02:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep repeating to yourself
it's only a fantasy
it's only a fantasy
it's only a fantasy
and get on with your real life
2006-11-30 02:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her to a club, have her dress cute, the guys will come
2006-11-30 02:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by sd_andrea86 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest with her about this! but if she doesn't want to dont force her... she'll get resentful!
2006-11-30 02:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by heaven-sin-t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋