Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

Don’t get me wrong …
I am Okay to invite a close friend time to time… its actually a pleasure.

But , if a guy ( your potential lover …or maybe –not..) just on second day let U pay ..
What does it means???
/- Considering that he is 35 and not poor at all…/

He invites me for dinner tonight . And I am wandering if I have to “ take” a money.

Is it weird of me to expect of men, who want to date me, to take care about bills JUST when we go out???

I did not date for a long time …
Is something change in the modern “dating world” ?????

2006-11-30 02:00:30 · 21 answers · asked by awg 2 in Singles & Dating

So everyone hates me and calls me Chauvinistic Pig, so i'll try it your way. When talking to a Chick, what do they like to be called? Chicks, Hoochies, Broads, Skirts or Babes?

2006-11-30 01:59:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 01:59:07 · 12 answers · asked by haqlaj98 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like just recently after I spent three months in mexico with her she is now in nova scotia and so I thought well she has no music so I sent her hours of music that I know she'd love cause thats the kind of thing I do and she emails me oh that was very sweet. Is it me? Is it patronizing? To me you say oh thats sweet and then you pin the peice of crap your child has drawn for you on the fridge.

2006-11-30 01:59:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am trying to find a lost friends e-mail address and am having no luck.

2006-11-30 01:58:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was supposed to go out with this guy about 2 weeks ago. We had been out before. We had talked that week several times and he called me that Thursday. We both had plans Friday so I didn't talk to him that day. When Saturday came I didn't here from him and assumed I had been stood up. We had a very good date before and it didn't seem like something he would do since he said it was the best date he had ever been on. 2 weeks past so I texted him yesterday and said thanks for standing me up that was brilliant. He texted me back 2 messages saying he was working Downtown and had gotten mugged and woke up in the hospital. He said they took his phone and everything and he didn't have any way of contacting me and he apologized for making me think he stood me up. I called him told him I was sorry for what happened then after talking asked if he wanted to try to go out again this weekend. He said he had a guy friend coming in town and he would call me today. Should I believe him?

2006-11-30 01:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm a girl, I'm studying degree program in Hong Kong, and I want to have further study after I graduated and get a job in US. But it would be too difficult to just get in US, can anyone tell me that how can I get a green card?

I know fake marriage would be one of the option, but how much would that be, and is anyone who really want to marry you just to help you? How can I know he is a good guy and won't mistreat me after I marry him? And how can I be sure that he won't just tell the immigration right after he got my money?

Please help me, please......
Thank you so much! Thank you so much!

2006-11-30 01:57:34 · 7 answers · asked by Pigyyy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiance have been togethere for 7 yrs.. he has a 18 yr old son..soon to be 19.. He quit school 1 1/2 ago, and has never gotten a job..He stays out all night and sleeps all day.. I work my *** off working 11a-8pm, 6 days a week to support my 2 children. We all live in the same house.. my fiance works, but alot of his money goes to his own personal bills.. credit cards, ect... So basically I'm paying his way.. My fiance does help with bills, but I dont feel he puts in as much as I do.. By the way, this is my fiances only child and babies him too much.. I know that if I was to kick his son out he would go too.. What the hell should I do?

2006-11-30 01:57:32 · 5 answers · asked by Indymom 2 in Family

So, dating during teen years is useless?

2006-11-30 01:57:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my Mom. And while we get along, I think Our relationship could get better. I have always felt my Mom doesn't care about me as much as she does my other siblings. Ive tried to talk with her about this but get nowhere. And this morning we had a little tiff over the car. I raised my voice a bit about 10 minutes late I realized that wan't very respectful so I went o her and apologized. But as always instead of accepting my apology she turns it into a lecture abut how I do everything wrong. The thing is I propably spend the most time with her out of all my siblings but she doesn't seem to care. I don't know what to do.

2006-11-30 01:57:13 · 8 answers · asked by easterlily 1 in Family

i have a these issues...and sometimes i dont think i belong on this planet because i dont have a reason to but i dnt b/c im only 15 and i have my whole like ahead of me. I needed to talk to someone last night and my boyfriend wasnt answering so i called his best friend and we talked and he told me that he was going to call me back but instead he called my boyfriend and told him to call me. And my boyfriend was sleeping yes i understand that hes tired after bball practice. so ya i just left it n i was going to go to sleep, he called me he was still kinda sleeping...and i really just wanted to talk to him and he told me to call him tomarrow and i said yea n hung up. then i called him back and said i might not be here tomarrow...cuz i felt like that was the only way hed listen to what i had to say... i mean i wasnt thinking about doing it. and he said stop playing and i said im not and hung up on him he calld me back and we talked 4 a lil while. what does this mean?

2006-11-30 01:57:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we would like to live in Jamaica but I would like my son to finish school first. so we dont want to be apart the only oppotion is to get him to come her for roung two or three years then go back to Jamaica.

2006-11-30 01:56:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

actually i livei n pakistan here ratio of losing virginity was very low but these days it has grown to 15%.
tell me exact number dont hide only because asker is a pakistani.

2006-11-30 01:56:23 · 15 answers · asked by sohailahmedrajput 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Almost 2 years ago (Feb 2005) I was seeing this guy, 7 mos later he dumped me (via email) & married (the next day) a woman he met in church (born again Christians), 5 mos later, the marriage ended (she was still married to her 1st); this idiot is trying to get me to come back...I'm now with someone else. This idiot won't take to my rejections....why? (PS: He has a really inflated ego)

2006-11-30 01:56:02 · 13 answers · asked by AngelEyes In SF 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy that I work with, but I'm getting really mixed messages. For example, I've noticed that he walks away whenever I walk up to wherever he happenes to be standing.. I thought he was quiet at work, but I came out of the break room early yesterday and he was standing with the other workers talking to them.. as I walked up, he walked away!
The few times I talk to him, he smiles and looks embarrased, but why does he walk away?
I'm getting mixed messages... For example - when I first come into work, he'll stop whatever he's doing and walk my way to say hello (though I've seen him do this for another girl, too).. But whenever I go up to him to ask him a work related question, he'll answer me while walking away... I've invited him out to hang out with us, and he smiled and said that I should give him more notice and that next time he'll come out with us.. Not a yes, but not a no..

what the hell is up with this guy? should I even bother persuing this?

2006-11-30 01:55:55 · 2 answers · asked by Judi 4 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married spring of 2007. My fiance & I We found an appartment we liked. Application fee & the rent on the appartment will be taken out automatically from the account. I have a bank account which I haven't used in awhile & I have less than $100 there. Now my fiance wants 2 use that account 2 pay rent. He lives with his folks now & I live with my mom. I am a victim of Id theft & I don't feel comfortable about this whole thing. Because he is protecting his name & account info while my account is being used 4 rent. I am not sure if I will be putting my paycheck on that account. Sometime ago we agreeded to open an account together after we get married.We also agreed once I have children I would not b working.So is this a big deal? Right now he has joint account with his folks & he pays some of their bills.He told me he wants to keep everything the same. He has cellphone plans with them 2. He told me once we would get a plan 2gether but now he says we should keep our old plan.

2006-11-30 01:55:33 · 11 answers · asked by Hot C 1 in Weddings

2006-11-30 01:55:08 · 9 answers · asked by bedard r 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 01:54:50 · 22 answers · asked by KnOwLeDgE_iS_PoWeR 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-30 01:54:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 01:54:16 · 29 answers · asked by sherese 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been told that I'm hot or whatever and that I could get any guy but i dont feel that way. Hardley any guys really check me out unless i put myself out there.I ALWAYS have to make the first move.

2006-11-30 01:51:54 · 18 answers · asked by natchi 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you look for to determine the chemistry on a first date?

2006-11-30 01:50:56 · 16 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

I work but am not able to afford a house by myself.I have had a dog all my life until I divorced.Don't want another man.They are not as faithful as a dog.Dogs love you no matter what.They do not fall out of love with you.I miss having a garden also.I loved planting and tending to my garden.Maybe someday again I will have that.For now I pray for it :)

2006-11-30 01:50:26 · 14 answers · asked by waterlover 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Man and woman been going out for 6 years.

Man wants kids, woman doesnt.

Separate until after xmas to review their relationship

met up since just for drinks, man realises feelings are strong enough for him to stay with her and forfeit having children.

THe next time they meet he brings up getting back together and she says she doesnt want to talk about it till after xmas.

In the meantime its her 30th birthday coming up and he asks if he can go and she says no.

Do you think she wants to get back with him?

2006-11-30 01:48:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do I do?
I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me. He is sweet and very handsome the night I stared to talk to him he was really close to me and didn't leave me alone for the rest of the night till I went home. And after that night I can't stop thinking if I should ask him out and now at school we talk some but not alot we never really see one another cause I am, a freshmen and he is a Jr. But I relly like him what do I do?

2006-11-30 01:48:29 · 8 answers · asked by sexy_happy_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

So i am suprising my Fiance with a plane ticket to go on a surfing trip But how can i make it more intresting? Do i place it in a nice envelope ,do i add something with it , leave little hints or what.? I know his going 2 be so excited he wanted to go along time ago and he really needs a brake from work .
Please give me advise on how to make it really awsome

2006-11-30 01:47:47 · 7 answers · asked by bcb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

are you divorced now or living in a terrible relatonship, or were any of you able to work it out

2006-11-30 01:46:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

According to a radio report, a middle school in Oregon was faced with a unique problem. A number of girls were beginning to use lipstick and would put it on in the bathroom.

That was fine, but after they put on their lipstick they would press their lips to the mirror leaving dozens of little lip prints. Finally the principal decided that there had to be something done about it.

She called all the girls to the bathroom and met them there with the custodian. She then explained that all these lip prints were causing a major problem for the custodian who had to clean the mirrors every day.

To demonstrate how difficult it was to clean the mirrors, she asked the custodian to clean one of the mirrors.

He took out a long-handled squeegee, dipped it into the toilet and then used it to clean the mirror. Needless to say, there have been no lip prints on the mirror since!

2006-11-30 01:46:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A colleague of mine sent one to her boyfriend this morning (so she thought) but accidently sent it to her boss!!!

2006-11-30 01:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Honestly..... im sure this will NEVER come to anything, but i have to ask....
my Step Daughter is 18 (so she's not a child and not related by blood) often shen i see her getting ready to go out, i get aroused, she is very pretty and quite sexy..... THEORETICLY, (i'd never touch her) but would i actualy be breaking the law if i did?, or is it just immoral..... feel free to E-mail me if you have something sencible to say and want to stay annonimous to the others on hear

2006-11-30 01:46:05 · 33 answers · asked by meandthee 2 in Singles & Dating