I've been told that I'm hot or whatever and that I could get any guy but i dont feel that way. Hardley any guys really check me out unless i put myself out there.I ALWAYS have to make the first move.
2006-11-30 01:51:54 · 18 answers · asked by natchi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Make the first move--is there anything wrong with that? You don't need a guy to be happy, so either make the first move or just move on.
2) Relax and enjoy life--I understand that having a boyfriend is important. But if you feel like you have to act like a wh*re to get anyone's attention, you're not getting the attention you need. Stop trying to get a boyfriend and just enjoy the relationships with those around you!
2006-11-30 01:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all, there are very few people whose appearance is not improved by a simple smile. Strive to be nice to others, let your sunny side come out. #1 rule : If you dress like you're easy, be prepared for guys to treat you accordingly. There are many ways to perk up your appearance without appearing a) trashy or b) like a girl who is desperate to be noticed (and usually those two go together) Be yourself. Find out what colors look best on you and wear them. Find clothes that are neither skin tight or falling off- and that you really, really love and feel confident in. The more confident you feel, the more others will be attracted to you (just don't be a snob!) Dress it up with fun accessories. SMILE!! It is your BEST asset. (that was worth repeating, it is so important!) Force yourself to say hello to at least 3 guys every day, especially if you know their names but don't talk to them much or ever. This is hard if you're shy, but it pays off. Exercise. It makes you feel good. Not to try to take pounds off, especially if you don't need to, but because it really will improve your mental attitiude. Do something fun with your hair.
2016-05-23 04:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me me you are in need of finding a guy that cares for you for who you are. Not by looks. So here are some tips I have for you(Note: I don't know anything about you so I am sorry if these Ideas aren't that good):
1. Be yourself and you always need to be the best person you can be.
2. Do not dress yourself all preppy, just dress in normal clothes and always smile.
3. There is always a guy out there that likes you for who you are, and nothing less.
4. You need to find a guy that is caring and nice and really cares(Not for looks)
5. One thing that could help you find a guy that likes you for who you are is to get into a long distance relationship(or meet over the internet; be CAREFUL!!!)
2006-11-30 02:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Drew S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is only skin deep. I know everyone has heard that one, but the truth of it is, besides physical looks, what really gets men going about the opposite sex is the same thing that gets women. It is self confidence, mystery, personality, etc. It is the vibe that people put out when they feel good and when someone feels good people are attracted to you. When you feel good not only does you vibe change, but how you carry yourself and the more positive people view you. Enjoy yourself and have fun.
2006-11-30 03:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Member of Ascended Masters Guild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some guys might feel intimidated by you that's why you must make the first move, some guys might actually think you have a bf or you have too much bf's.Don't throw yourself out there and just be yourself.If you want a guy's attention just walk up to him say hi and make some small talk. good luck
2006-11-30 01:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by CatScratch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put yourself out like a whore that's exactly how you'll be taken so treat yourself with respect always.Someone will appreciate you for it,so don't worry about so much attention because not all attention has good intentions.Remember that and keep your head up.
2006-11-30 01:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by missraynell07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try growing up first...
And then you can always try making an effort to look good...
Then you can always learn that getting guys to do what you want is easier than anythin else in life... Be assertive and dangle the hope of sex on a line until you get what YOU want...
2006-11-30 01:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get a guy's attention by smiling a lot or being around them sometimes oh and if you show that you really care about them you will get noticed by a lot of guys. For example i really like this one girl because she cared about me when my ex cheated on me and she likes to smile a lot when I'm around and that makes me like her more and since then every guy has been noticing her and she doesn't have to do a thing. But it really depends on what type of guy your looking for.
2006-11-30 02:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Teodoro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to me, i get told that i can get any girl i want a lot, I have a Fiance, but when i went to the bars a lot before, I didnt really get a lot of looks either, maybe guys are intimidated by you, just keep your cool, they will come to you :)
2006-11-30 01:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your too hot their scared your going to shoot them down which is with good reason guys are scared of getting shot down but they will learn with time that getting shoot down isn't that bad but don't be scared to make the first move for now just be kind and caring and they will notice you
2006-11-30 01:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋