Almost 2 years ago (Feb 2005) I was seeing this guy, 7 mos later he dumped me (via email) & married (the next day) a woman he met in church (born again Christians), 5 mos later, the marriage ended (she was still married to her 1st); this idiot is trying to get me to come back...I'm now with someone else. This idiot won't take to my rejections....why? (PS: He has a really inflated ego)
2006-11-30 01:56:02 · 13 answers · asked by AngelEyes In SF 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you answered your own question there. He's got an inflated ego. He thinks he's God's gift to women.
Why won't he take your rejections? Maybe he thinks that if he continues to pursue you, you'll change your mind. Alot of women really like the relentless pursuit of a man (not all, but alot). Maybe he's had success with that in the past, and is hoping that it'll work on you...
Having a really inflated ego.. he may be pursuing other women at the same time too.
Get rid of him. Don't return calls, or emails, or text messages. If he starts showing up at your work, or where you work out, etc. Report him to your boss (let your boss decide to call the police), let the gym know, or who ever, where ever you are. The more people out there that percieve him as stalking you, the better. To him, if he's labeled a stalker, it could be enough of a dent to his ego that he'll go away.
DO NOT LET YOUR NEW BOYFRIEND CONFRONT HIM!!! The psycho guy will percieve this to be his benefit. He'll see it as "I'm obviously a threat to her relationship with this guy".. it could inflate his ego.
2006-11-30 02:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the SAME problem, and my ex almost had me not once, but the third time! And guess what... he also had an inflated ego! I tried everything, but he wouldn't let me move on. I finally got my point across when I put my foot down, and threatened a NO! You have found someone else that is hopefully better than your ex, and make sure you tell him the situation. So if that ex gets out of line...the new guy will handle it, TRUST ME! You deserve better, so just tell him that you will always love him, but you refuse to be hurt again. He will be mad, cause egotistic guys can't stand to be alone. He'll get of your back in no time. Oh, and yes answer his calls, turn him on, and tell him, no! He'll hate you for that, but he'll be gone out of your life. AND NEVER GET ALONE WITH YOUR EX!!!!!!!!!!! You'll break the code of rekindling old flames! Good Luck!!
2006-11-30 02:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe he should suffer what he chose after one year - he choose of leaving you, so I believe he should stand by it and stay away from you.Men are like that, they thought that they still have us after they dumped us.i really cant believe what kind of man he is, dumping a girl he love for 7 months and marrying another girl the next day, then now after breaking up to that girl he wants to come back to you??Do you think he is deserving for a second chance?I think he's not.For me if you decided to break the relationship then do it, just make sure that you really want that and youll never come back to me after hurting me so much..I said this to my boyfriend, so if the time comes that he decided to break up with me then thats fine, just make sure that he could stand to it and never to return to my life.I might be rude but this is what I want,even if it hurts for the both of us I still cant endure the fact the he just make a decision like that..Once is enough, theres no second chance.But up to now he never do that to me, and were happy right now.So if youre happy and contented with the one you love right now then live you life without distracting yourself to that unworthy person.Be happy and complete.Thats all hope I helped you.
2006-11-30 02:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 00:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if you want to get dumped in the next few months you can go with him .. however I would suggest as you said he has got a ego and that might bring pain in your life ahead
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Sameer Shaikh
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2006-11-30 01:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll have to bring the ego down a notch or two....If you had sex with him tell him you don't want to come back because his Johnson wasn't big enough to keep you happy!
2006-11-30 02:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, stay away from the psycho. At some point you will have to get stern about it and ignore him.
2006-11-30 01:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him...He's just trying to get you back because he now realises what he've lost!!You are to good for this ***...Go on with your life and yr new guy!
2006-11-30 02:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Soulla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tek has the best answer in my opinon, sums it up short and sweet.
2006-11-30 02:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by samcamcam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back with him no matter what he sound like a jerk and you are not his doormat !!!! stay with the guy you are with now, tell him that he's not all that and that his time expired, good luck!!!
2006-11-30 01:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by yennyfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋