2006-11-30 01:54:16 · 29 answers · asked by sherese 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesnt matter if your 36-24-36 or whatever liars and cheaters do not discriminate. youre probably looking too hard just be patient and wait for him to come to you. in the mean time enjoy and celebrate your blessings such as your good looks and spend some time with your female friends while avoiding talking about men.pick up a hobby to keep your mind off of it also.
2006-11-30 02:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by so delicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be beautiful, but the world around you including MEN in it.. has becoming very 'ugly' on the inside.
Therefore, you can't find a good man because there are fewer numbers left in society. With some patience and good 'screening' you should find someone who is good for you...one day.
Or, because you ain't lookin in the right places.
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Thanks to the internet and media, which really poses a big threat to 'aging', 'average' or 'plain' women in society, men have higher expectations from women when it comes to physical attributes. It's basic, we all knew it.. it's just getting really really bad is all.
No matter how beautiful or nice you are, things have changed and many more women will be cheated on in coming years if we don't change things asap. Standards have changed drastically within the past 10 years, almost a complete flip because of exposure, access and exploitation of glamour beauty, XXX and hollywood. It comes via magazines, movies and especially internet.
There are already studies that say internet has a very negative impact on relationships and marriage and has been part of the cause of divorce rates sky rocketing. Men want younger women, men want hotter women, men want skankier women, men want to have sex with prostitutues and escorts, men are coming out of the closet, men are becoming pedophiles, men find it easier to find dates on www which is good for their egos...
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You can even try looking for a good man in 'good places' like church or school or work, where you'd assume people have their heads right. But chuch goers are being sucked into it too...even people like Kirk Franklin and Donnie McClurklin have admitted to be addicted to internet porn and being bi-sexual. That happens to be their one problem in life. It's ok ,nobody's perfect right?! It's just that it happens to be the same issue as many others. It's concerning.
It's a difficult thing.
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In the meantime, I say be yourself and if you feel great about yourself then go on girl! If there is room for improvement however, it is what it is and this world is changing everyday... do what you gotta do but never change what's inside you and be true to yourself!
Best of luck!
2006-11-30 02:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by lady from the other day 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife is BBW, and I love her so much, I would never cheat or lie to her. There is a man out there for you, don't you worry! Just keep being a good person, and a good person will recognize that, and want to be with you and only you forever!
2006-11-30 01:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try this, write out what you want in a man, and what you don't want in a man. You can see more clearly what you are looking for this way.
Have you had bad relationships in the past? If so, what have you learned from them?
Are there unresolved issues that you need to address about relationships with men?
2006-11-30 01:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's out there! Don't give up! Believe it or not, there are a lot of men who like BBW! Keep looking, but not so hard - if that makes any sense?
Good luck girl! There is someone waiting to be your man!
2006-11-30 01:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by KrisJH24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to hear it. But that does not make it any less true.
Women who are Big have a much more difficult time finding an honest man.
Most men which includes us honest men prefer slimmer women.
Don't hate the messenger.
2006-11-30 01:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could answer your question but i feel the same way you do I'm a plus size woman and i always feel as though no one wants me and no one will except me for who i am, I'm just taking for granted and it hurts me all the time. I'm a human being like everyone else i don't like being treated like I'm some kind of animal because of my appearance so i understand where your coming from just keep your head high and the right man will find you and appreciate you for who you are. :)
2006-11-30 02:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by *~Pretty Smile~* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love is very natural, You can't control it. Live your life to the fullest and he'll come. Wanting and searching brings on desperation, and that makes you blind to Mr. Right and hello to Mr. Right now. Sounds like you already have confidence now all you need is patience.
2006-11-30 02:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Hey There 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking, they are out there. Not every man is a cheat or a liar. I have two brothers and they are both happy and faithful with their wives.
2006-11-30 01:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by maggiepirsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever stop to think part of the reason is because you need to love and respect yourself before someone else can? yup, hard to find but especially hard to find if you don't acknowledge the warning signs early on..give yourself higher standards and you might be surprised what will happen
2006-11-30 02:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋