i m married i love my husband and daughter but i keep on thinking about sex all the time?

Question

i keep on thinking of having sex all the time everytime with somone new person and usually one perticular fren who is just a friend, do ihave to see a therapist

Answer 1

Maybe your just a nymphomaniac

Answer 2

You are a such a sweet person, you are very healthy. And you are in touch with your feelings. I am proud of you, are you proud of yourself?

It is good that you are married and have a kid, and you love the family.. fantastic. Is it wrong to think about sex all the time?... i guess "no". Is it wrong to think about another person besides your husband? ..my answer is "no".

There is one interesting thing i tried... when i had such thoughts, i was one day dared to share it with my husband! You won't beleive, it brought so much of change in his attitude and in our relationship!

When i brought up the subject about his sexual fantacies, he was telling me a few of his. Then i opened up a little, i can see him getting exited. He became more attentive to my needs, and satisfying me more than ever before, we still fantacise about the friend, when we are together. But it is just a fantacy, at least, i don't want to make it a reality.

bottom line is, try communicating dear. Don't worry about consequences, just be yourself. Be bold. be confident to communicate.

In case, if you are thinking about cheating behind your husband's back, (I mean, I don't think that is what you are thinking) weigh out consequences and see if it would realy worth the effort.

wish you a good luck!!!

Answer 3

You are nothing but a common w h o r e if you sleep around. love your family and change the way you think. I am also Indian but I draw the line when you have a partner. I rather love and protect my family than sleep around. Yes and meet a therapist. Dont lose it all by one fling. If your hubby finds out then you lose everything even your daughters respect for you

Answer 4

Sweetie, some women just have a greater need than others. Try getting your husband at least once a day, maybe more if you can. Have sex as often as you can, even if it is just some oral or "quickey". If that does not help, you may just have to put up with it, or go outside the marriage to fulfill your desire!!

Answer 5

Shibaniji,

I suggest, please be honest to your self and to your family. Nothing wrong in thinking about sex with a stranger. Let it remain as a fantasy. Dont make it a reality and dont make your life hell.

I agree with Bhabna1 some where up, be confident and open up to your hubby. I tell you, your sexual pleasure is going to be multifold.

I have the similar kind of experience. Always think of having sex in a group. I was not able to enjoy the sexual relationship with my wife. One day I dared to express my feelings to my wife and she helped me a lot in creating a feeling of having sex in a group. We used to fantasyze together during our sexual interaction. I tell you there after our interactions are memorable. It is more than a decade now and still we have that same feeling.

So dare to do that, you will be more than happy ever.

Answer 6

Darling

If you don't love your daughter and your husband go ahead and do it otherwise forget it
but i have one question would you be happy if one day your husband come up to you and tell you that he has feeling about one of his friend wouldn't you be hurt. well if you have this feeling do whatever i did whenever i used to feel like this i straight went to my hubby and gave him a big kiss or hug any ways if he is not around i gave him a call. if that also not possible whenever you feel like this go to your daughter talk to her about her daily things spend more time with your family go for walks even for dinner or sit together have a nice chit chat
hope this will work for you. My best wishes.

Answer 7

Dear Shibani
Its high time, juss go see a psychiatrist
If u happen to c that guy n u alone, by chance there is a100% possibility of you sleeping with him. This feeling ay not staop with this guy alone......
If this news is out, ur marriage will be at danger
So see a PSYCHIATRIST and do sleep with ur hubby more n more n more
Hope u will right soon

BOB

Answer 8

It all depends on how do u think, the kind of food, environment. How busy u r? ITs okey if u have sex many times with ur husband. but thinking of other in ur bed..is not good.

Ur relationship would sink with ur husband and daughter.

Better consult a therapist.

Answer 9

Nope. Save your $300/hr...or better yet send it to me :-)

Fantasies are healthy. You might even have a couple of naughty dreams about sex with someone other than your spouse. Don't worry about it. You're a healthy sexually active adult. Thinking about sex is what we do! You still love your family, and are IN love with your husband. You seem to have no desire to, nor have you made steps towards actually enacting your fantasies, so you're A-OK.

Answer 10

Dont even think abt sleeping with the friend... Count ur blessings that u have a husband who is faithful to u. Or if u really wanna fulfill ur wishes, allow the same liberty to your husband...

Answer 11

its perfectly normal... everyone thinks of sex all the time. but if your thinking of cheating on your family, then i think you should reconsider your thinking, im sure u submitted this question to get a postive reply,and people telling you go ahead and do it..well..unless you tell ur husband the truth and he agrees...its a totally bad idea..but thinking bout it is not a problem, have you considered mastrubations.. or you have to fall in love with your husband all over again..